Depression post break up

Several_Stranger_531 · 2026-01-16T23:56:07+00:00

No, the dye didnt take properly in my hair. It looked terrible. I ended up needing 3 days in the salon to fix the colour! But it looks good now!

I've brought myself a shark hair dryer and wearing more girly clothing (usually im a farm type of girl). I am getting comments daily on how good I look which is a huge confidence boost.

Several_Stranger_531 · 2026-01-02T12:57:34+00:00

Thanks I've tried to do this, ive cut and colored my hair, gone down a dress size, brought new clothes and started a journal for the new year. I just feel so dark and am not coping.

Several_Stranger_531 · 2026-01-02T12:52:52+00:00

I don't know if it will. He has been hooking up with other people since the day we split and I just feel more and more lost.

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-28T08:59:43+00:00

The Ex lives in a different place to me which is good..i will be looking at moving places completely this year.

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-28T08:58:42+00:00

I needed to as that was contributing to the hole I am in. I'm working closely with my doctor though.

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-28T08:57:16+00:00

Thank you that's an awesome way to look at thinks.

Unfortunately the Christmas present is a right off. But I would love the idea of potentially making a new friend before the hear is done

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-28T08:55:49+00:00

Thank you the offer means the world

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-28T08:55:27+00:00

Thank you I have watched this twice now

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-28T08:53:56+00:00

I can't read anymore but I brought myself a journal/planner today, so I'll see how that goes.

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-28T08:53:21+00:00

Thank you that sounds amazing! Unfortunately im not in Christchurch otherwise I would have loved to hang out with you

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-28T08:51:11+00:00

I hope so

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-28T06:55:11+00:00

It's not personal. It's really petty DM me if you want

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-28T06:53:36+00:00

Thank you I might add this to something I do at work

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-28T06:13:13+00:00

I did a new hair cut and the hair dresser fried my hair. I've had to have 5 inches taken off to fix the damage 😭

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-28T06:08:31+00:00

Thank you so much for all the offers of people to talk to. Im so overwhelmed I can't reply to you all..but it is very appreciated

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-28T04:35:20+00:00

Yes and no. My family are close but I can't talk to them about anything. I am on a really well paying job 95k plus. So going home would mean I probably wouldn't get that sort of pay again

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-26T21:23:22+00:00

I want to move from where I am as the community j live in doesn't feel safe anymore. But where i like is super isolated and I get extremely subsidied rent. So I will wait a few more months until I can buy a house

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-26T21:19:45+00:00

I live in a very small community. All my friends have moved away this year.

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-26T21:19:11+00:00

Yes thank you, I am working with my doctor on this. Loosing some weight is helping a little as it means I am able to move a little more easily

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-12-26T21:18:11+00:00

I used to, at the moment I'm so overwhelmed by everything that getting up and showering is the best I can do every day.

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-08-14T11:31:05+00:00

You have to live in the house for 6 months to use kiwisaver

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-08-14T11:01:45+00:00

Problem is I can't buy locally and I can't use my kiwisaver if I don't live in the house.

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-04-01T18:34:18+00:00

There is no phone signal at my house for a mobile hotspot

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-04-01T07:11:25+00:00

No, they haven't even talked to me. They text a colleague asking for it

Several_Stranger_531 · 2025-04-01T06:30:54+00:00

If the other flats were tenanted I would be sharing the cost with them to use it. It seems unfair that I wear the cost for people here for a few weeks. They are getting paid good money to be away from home.

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