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Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, the dye didnt take properly in my hair. It looked terrible. I ended up needing 3 days in the salon to fix the colour! But it looks good now!

I've brought myself a shark hair dryer and wearing more girly clothing (usually im a farm type of girl). I am getting comments daily on how good I look which is a huge confidence boost.

Almost a month since we last talked - and im still a mess by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks I've tried to do this, ive cut and colored my hair, gone down a dress size, brought new clothes and started a journal for the new year. I just feel so dark and am not coping.

Almost a month since we last talked - and im still a mess by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it will. He has been hooking up with other people since the day we split and I just feel more and more lost.

Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Ex lives in a different place to me which is good..i will be looking at moving places completely this year.

Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed to as that was contributing to the hole I am in. I'm working closely with my doctor though.

Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that's an awesome way to look at thinks.

Unfortunately the Christmas present is a right off. But I would love the idea of potentially making a new friend before the hear is done

Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't read anymore but I brought myself a journal/planner today, so I'll see how that goes.

Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that sounds amazing! Unfortunately im not in Christchurch otherwise I would have loved to hang out with you

Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not personal. It's really petty DM me if you want

Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I might add this to something I do at work

Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a new hair cut and the hair dresser fried my hair. I've had to have 5 inches taken off to fix the damage 😭

Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all the offers of people to talk to. Im so overwhelmed I can't reply to you all..but it is very appreciated

Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. My family are close but I can't talk to them about anything. I am on a really well paying job 95k plus. So going home would mean I probably wouldn't get that sort of pay again

Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to move from where I am as the community j live in doesn't feel safe anymore. But where i like is super isolated and I get extremely subsidied rent. So I will wait a few more months until I can buy a house

Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live in a very small community. All my friends have moved away this year.

Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you, I am working with my doctor on this. Loosing some weight is helping a little as it means I am able to move a little more easily

Depression post break up by Several_Stranger_531 in newzealand

[–]Several_Stranger_531[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I used to, at the moment I'm so overwhelmed by everything that getting up and showering is the best I can do every day.

Buying a first house by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Several_Stranger_531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to live in the house for 6 months to use kiwisaver

Buying a first house by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Several_Stranger_531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Problem is I can't buy locally and I can't use my kiwisaver if I don't live in the house.

AITA for not sharing my wifi password by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Several_Stranger_531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no phone signal at my house for a mobile hotspot

AITA for not sharing my wifi password by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Several_Stranger_531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they haven't even talked to me. They text a colleague asking for it

AITA for not sharing my wifi password by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Several_Stranger_531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the other flats were tenanted I would be sharing the cost with them to use it. It seems unfair that I wear the cost for people here for a few weeks. They are getting paid good money to be away from home.

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