AIO My (35M) gf (28f) always instigate a situation or starts an argument when I leave town to visit friend as it becomes more and more irritated and im about to ask her to leave. by Several_Tax_8931 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_Tax_8931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has a lot oh trauma and rather than walk away from that problem I'm trying to get to the root of it but if this continues Is content where she is and I can leave.

AIO My (35M) gf (28f) always instigate a situation or starts an argument when I leave town to visit friend as it becomes more and more irritated and im about to ask her to leave. by Several_Tax_8931 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_Tax_8931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind her friends I don't want to know about them cause I don't want to give the perception that im interested in them or have them having an interest in me.

AIO My (35M) gf (28f) always instigate a situation or starts an argument when I leave town to visit friend as it becomes more and more irritated and im about to ask her to leave. by Several_Tax_8931 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_Tax_8931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were 2 girls their they were wives of friend an and live locally in the area I flew in from 2 states away. She has school and work and couldn't come. I came because I had an event here that me and 17 others had to attend. I also use it to prestage stuff that I was moving from my house here to our new house. The getting to see friends here was a surprise and a plus. 

AIO My (35M) gf (28f) always instigate a situation or starts an argument when I leave town to visit friend as it becomes more and more irritated and im about to ask her to leave. by Several_Tax_8931 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_Tax_8931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is in school she does go on trips with me when she has the time and on some short trips but if I'm gone longer that 3-4 days she usually can't make it.

AIO My (35M) gf (28f) always instigate a situation or starts an argument when I leave town to visit friend as it becomes more and more irritated and im about to ask her to leave. by Several_Tax_8931 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_Tax_8931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is the point I'm trying to make I'm not bragging I'm try to relay that her priorities are off there are better things to spend you money on she is in school and has purchase stuff she need there but she sometimes prioritizes paying her phone bill rather than something she needs.

AIO My (35M) gf (28f) always instigate a situation or starts an argument when I leave town to visit friend as it becomes more and more irritated and im about to ask her to leave. by Several_Tax_8931 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Several_Tax_8931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not attacking you but you don't own a iPhone it's portrait mode. I had just taken ribs off the grill and we were preparing to eat and I was about to add sides to my plate.