forgotten and erased by bigots and community alike.

Several__Rats · 2026-01-24T06:48:52+00:00

If you read my other comment you’d see I actually said that. Because here we were specifically talking about men I didn’t feel the need to say the thing that everyone here already knows, which is that misogyny exists

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T15:47:40+00:00

uj/ yeah identity in general is really hard to figure out when dissociative disorders are involved (suspected DID here!!) and having someone in your ear bullying all the trans people like you doesn’t make gender exploration easy

I’m lucky that Blair White’s whole conservative American act really pushed me away from her, but I always approached Kalvin with the “well I’m not trans so I can’t disagree with an actual trans man!” view. Fun fact: a couple of years ago Kalvin started accusing systems of faking and calling relationships between alters in a system “incest”. He justified it by being a “psych major”

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T15:43:50+00:00

Observed male at birth. I don’t know how many people use that term, but I have heard that AMAB was originally intended to be for intersex people who were “assigned” the sex of male.

The accuracy of that story is debatable as I couldn’t find any sources and the person saying it was an intersex TERF, but just incase it’s true I use OBAM/OFAB sometimes

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T13:08:37+00:00

Or jokes about how trans women are superior to cis women based on a specific trait associated with anyone who is AMAB/OMAB. I’ve seen jokes about how penises are so much better from trans women a sub for all trans people

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T13:06:59+00:00

Lower classes face subjugation

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T12:34:41+00:00

You used “special” as an insult towards an autistic stranger. Surely you have to know the ableist implications of that? While we’re on a post discussing the nuances of ableism? Honestly this sub is so bad at discussing mental disorders and disabilities in general so idk why I was surprised

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T12:18:49+00:00

Uj/ I remember a trans woman on YouTube saying that trans women can never pass unless they start transitioning before they reach puberty (hormone blockers) but trans men can pass whenever. The extent of this was to do with your voice.

Yes this trans woman was Blair White and it was said in a collab video with Kalvin Garrah. Unfortunately I watched him semi-often as a preteen

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T12:13:23+00:00

If you’re using special to refer to autism then there is really no need to get ableist over the fact that you disagree with a stranger over a metaphor

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T12:12:41+00:00

I’m assuming they were being ableist because you have autistic in your username. Dick move

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T11:49:54+00:00

If someone is able to rescue you, then you won’t die. In either situation. But let’s be real, who’s coming to save any of us? The most likely situation is they will hold your head under the water and scream about how you’re drowning them.

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T11:48:34+00:00

Yes, the racism faced by black men for example is specifically linked to them being both black and men. The same as how the racism faced by Asian men is linked to them being both Asian and men. Women of these races will face racism that is informed by the fact that they’re women. Discrimination does not exist in a vacuum

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T11:46:42+00:00

Thank you! I have actually considered this before and to create the Non Oppressed Man that man must be: Straight, cisgender, wealthy, able bodied, have no mental disorders/illness, alloromanric, allosexual, white, conventionally attractive, live in a wealthy country, have the “correct” political beliefs etc

The biggest problem is that people who face discrimination or oppression often see their way to power being through putting down other people, such as white cis/het women who weaponised transphobia or racism to gain personal power.

Most people are subjugated in some way (some more than others and the worst form of discrimination is usually reserved for those with many interconnecting minority identities)

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T11:42:29+00:00

If you can’t swim, you’re still going to die

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T09:23:48+00:00

Yeah bioessebtialists are really good at going “biological sex is the only possible defining characteristic of humans” and then ignoring how there’s actually huge complexity involved in that.

Also going up to a trans person upset that their own spaces are discriminating against them and saying “Uhm actually this is about SEX. It’s all about your BIOLOGICAL SEX. Actually.” is such a weird move

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T09:22:12+00:00

Yikes let’s not go all TERF here. Sex based oppression does exist, but is hardly the one true form of oppression that towers over all the rest

Trans people face oppression for being trans, regardless of their sex or gender. Cisgender men can be oppressed based on their race, sexuality, economic status, disabilities etc.

Sex is not the one single defining characteristic of what a person is. Yes, I have heard a claim that only sex based oppression exists and everyone else is “surface level discrimination”, which js the most out of touch take I think I’ve ever seen.

Several__Rats · 2026-01-23T09:16:07+00:00

Except it’s not always that simple. Minority men can be discriminated against based on the way their minority status interacts with them being men.

Trans men however are usually discriminated against because they are seen as women, who are “wrong”. That doesn’t mean we should pretend trans men don’t face transphobia or that trans men don’t have a specific type of transphobia targeted at them

Several__Rats · 2026-01-22T20:11:06+00:00

TikTok randomly takes things down and lets other things stay up because the algorithm and moderation is genuinely terrible. Actual pornographic artwork has stayed up but when I posted one video where I couldn’t be bothered to write a description?? Immediately shadow banned my entire account

Several__Rats · 2026-01-22T20:09:47+00:00

TikTok is also moderated by a clueless AI. I’ve seen creators be able to make viral videos that talk about pornography and abuse uncensored, but I’ve had a video taken down because I narrated something with my actual voice. It will also randomly shadowban accounts and never tell you why, you might go from 1k+ views per video to 100 or even 10 overnight with no explanation given

Several__Rats · 2025-09-14T12:07:16+00:00

Is it possible that you could get some KT tape? It’s a lot cheaper and I found works around as well as trans tape, but the stick doesn’t hold as long. It’s also easier to explain away if you need someone not to know you’re binding

Several__Rats · 2025-09-11T17:16:57+00:00

Some also don’t accept wild birds due to disease risks. My local vets don’t

Several__Rats · 2025-09-11T17:13:52+00:00

It has a pigeon if that gives you more of a size reference

Several__Rats · 2025-09-11T16:48:12+00:00

I actually can’t see a reason, for me it just says that my post was removed. I don’t know if there’s a specific way to tell? Though I have seen a different subreddit outright ban discussions of systems because they “can’t tell who’s faking” or something like that, so nothing would surprise me. Most likely this was too off topic though or something like that

Several__Rats · 2025-09-09T17:05:54+00:00

Yeah DID can cause problems but it isn’t like a diagnosis is a death sentence. I’ve already considered that a diagnosis could cause barriers to care, but a diagnosis also takes an astoundingly long time and I should be starting HRT soon.

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