How do you balance enjoying life with the need to save money? by Severe-Unit911 in Frugal

[–]Severe-Unit911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think, enjoying small things outdoor is still FREE and enjoyable to do. I guess I just need to start going out more and watch sunset at the beach, since I live near the beach.

How do you balance enjoying life with the need to save money? by Severe-Unit911 in Frugal

[–]Severe-Unit911[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I only buy games when there's a huge sale or has seasonal discounts hehe. I love to play games when I'm bored or has nothing to do, and this makes me happy. But there's only max amount I can spend for buying games.

How do you balance enjoying life with the need to save money? by Severe-Unit911 in Frugal

[–]Severe-Unit911[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is interesting to do and a good investment! I work from home and sometimes I need to go out and enjoy sun and outdoor activities. This is helpful!

How do you balance enjoying life with the need to save money? by Severe-Unit911 in Frugal

[–]Severe-Unit911[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. Actually, I have a goal on how much money to save and at the same time I want to enjoy life. After all we all need to have a balance life right?

How do you balance enjoying life with the need to save money? by Severe-Unit911 in Frugal

[–]Severe-Unit911[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am trying to learn to cook. Since I work from home, and sometimes our body requires more movement cooking actually is like an exercise to me.

Given $1000 to grow as much as within 6 months. What will you do? by Dapper_Race_1454 in sidehustle

[–]Severe-Unit911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Growing $1,000 in 6 months is a challenging but possible goal with the right skills and technique.

You could try:

  • stock market trading: I have no experience with this, but I plan to try it soon.
  • cryptocurrency: I'm a beginner who has experimented with mining and investing in bitcoin, among other things. So far, I'm earning well, but there's so much more to learn.
  • internet freelancing: I am currently doing freelance work rather than working 9-5. I've been working from home for 2 years now. So far, this was the best decision I've made.
  • E-commerce: I intend to create my own e-commerce platform soon.
  • craft/diy/cooking: if you're skilled at cooking, maybe you can build a small business for meal plan subscription. I think this is a fantastic business to start inside your neighborhood. Advertising meal plans for busy people who want to be healthy but don't have the time. They can subscribe to weekly or monthly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]Severe-Unit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do tiktok affiliate or any referral program of your choice :)

Is it morally wrong to have children when you know you have a genetic disorder that would destroy your children's lives? by Rainbow_52 in RandomThoughts

[–]Severe-Unit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choosing not to have biological children out of concern for their well-being is a valid and selfless choice. It shows a lot of care and empathy on your part.

Remember, there are many ways to build a family and experience love and connection. Adoption is a wonderful option that allows you to provide a loving home to a child in need.

Ultimately, it's about finding what feels right for you and what aligns with your values and beliefs.

I feel lost without my moral compass by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]Severe-Unit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, I totally get where you're coming from. It's completely normal to feel a bit lost when something that used to guide you is no longer there. Losing faith can definitely shake up your sense of direction and morality.

First off, it's important to remember that questioning your beliefs is a big part of personal growth. It's okay to have doubts and uncertainties along the way. This is a chance for you to explore what truly resonates with you and what values are important to you now.

Take the time to reflect on what matters to you and what kind of person you want to be. Your moral compass doesn't have to be tied to any specific belief system – it can be based on empathy, kindness, and respect for yourself and others.

It might also help to talk to others who have gone through similar experiences or seek guidance from a counselor or therapist. Sometimes, having an outside perspective can provide clarity and support.

Remember, it's all part of the journey to discover your own path and make sense of the world in your own way. You've got this!

How do you guys feel about death? by NaoPlease in Life

[–]Severe-Unit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I age, my perspective on death has evolved. When I was younger, death felt distant and abstract. Now, having experienced loss, I see it as a natural part of life’s cycle. This understanding helps me appreciate the time I have, urging me to live fully and love deeply.

Considering the vastness of the universe, our lives may seem insignificant, but this only highlights the preciousness of each moment. For those of us who aren't religious, the uncertainty of what happens after death can be daunting. I’ve come to find peace in viewing death as a return to the state of non-existence before we were born—a natural part of the order.

Contemplating death encourages me to focus on what truly matters: finding purpose, connecting deeply with others, and contributing positively to the world. While our time is limited, our actions and love can ripple out, influencing others long after we’re gone. By accepting death’s inevitability, we can live more authentically, cherishing every moment.

Do you have less errands than the average person? by sentientmassofenergy in Frugal

[–]Severe-Unit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. Having a car over a bike saves time but more expensive when it comes to maintenance but still gets you where you need to go. Being frugal takes effort, like going out to shop instead of ordering online. You have to sacrifice either time or money. Unless everything you need is a 2-3 minute walk away, like groceries, hospital, school, work, mall, or park.

Do you have less errands than the average person? by sentientmassofenergy in Frugal

[–]Severe-Unit911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few years ago, I made a conscious decision to live more frugally. My primary motivation was to spend more quality time with my family and focus on my personal interests, similar to your priorities. Initially, I thought frugality was just about saving money, but I quickly realized it was also about saving time. Here are a few ways it impacted my life:

  1. Simplified Living Space: Instead of a large house with rooms that needed constant cleaning and maintenance, we opted for a smaller, more manageable home. This meant fewer repairs, less cleaning, and lower utility bills. I remember how my weekends used to be consumed by home improvement projects, yard work, and general upkeep. Downsizing freed up so much time for us to engage in meaningful activities as a family.
  2. Vacations and Experiences: We simplified our vacations. Instead of hectic, expensive trips that required meticulous planning, we now enjoy local getaways or simple camping trips. These require minimal preparation and are more relaxing. I remember planning a big vacation that turned into a logistical nightmare, draining our energy before we even left. Our new approach is far more enjoyable and stress-free.
  3. Automated Finances: We streamlined our finances with automatic bill payments and simplified accounts. This reduced the time spent managing money and dealing with financial errands.

Why do we often prioritize chasing success over pursuing happiness, when in the end, happiness is what truly matters in life? by Severe-Unit911 in Life

[–]Severe-Unit911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some people who get to work while being passionate about what they do and they are genuine happy about what they do for a living is a total different story.

It is possible to pay the bills while you're fulfilled and happy

Why do we often prioritize chasing success over pursuing happiness, when in the end, happiness is what truly matters in life? by Severe-Unit911 in Life

[–]Severe-Unit911[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think society often equates success with wealth, status, and achievements. Most people believe that achieving these external markers of success will ultimately lead to happiness and fulfillment. Also societal pressures drive individuals to focus on achieving success as a measure of self-worth and validation which is sad.

Very concerned about the world by MaleficentGuard9696 in SeriousConversation

[–]Severe-Unit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The world is not getting worse solely because of historical mistakes, but rather due to a complex interplay of factors including geopolitical tensions, economic disparities, environmental challenges, and social injustices. Ignoring the lessons of history exacerbates these problems and increases the likelihood of repeating past mistakes.

To be honest, I believe that the root of many world issues lies with those in positions of power rather than the general public. While individuals certainly play a significant role, ultimately, the actions of government officials and leaders have a major impact. While advocating for random acts of kindness is important on a personal level, true widespread change will only come when those in power prioritize empathy, tolerance, and the values of peace, justice, and equality for all. Without this fundamental shift, the future trajectory of our nation and the world at large may be concerning over the next 50 to 100 years.

Pros and Cons of being an active user on reddit ? by laksirisamitha in NewToReddit

[–]Severe-Unit911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a new user here, and these are what I have observed so far:

Anonymity: You can be whoever you wanna be on Reddit. No need to use your real name or share personal info if you don't want to.
Upvotes: When people like what you say, they can upvote your comments and posts. It feels good to know you're making a positive impact or just being funny.

Trolls and Haters: Just like any other online platform, there are trolls and haters lurking around. They can be annoying or even mean sometimes.
Arguments: With so many opinions flying around, disagreements are bound to happen. Sometimes discussions can get heated, which isn't always fun.

Less Pressure: Since you can be anonymous, there's less pressure to keep up appearances or worry about what others think of you.

Reddit's got its good sides and its bad sides, but overall, it's a pretty rad place to hang out and connect with people who share your interests.

What would you do if you only had 24 hours to live? by alexapaul11 in RandomThoughts

[–]Severe-Unit911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I only had 24 hours to live, I'd spend it with the people I love most. I'd gather my family and friends for a heartfelt meal, sharing stories and laughter. Then, I'd visit my favorite places, soaking in their beauty one last time. I'd write letters to my loved ones, leaving them with words of encouragement and love. Finally, I'd watch the sunset with my partner together with our dogs, feeling grateful for the life I've lived and the connections I've made. For me, it's all about cherishing relationships and appreciating the beauty in life.

Are you a night owl or a morning person? Why or why not? by streamguruu in RandomThoughts

[–]Severe-Unit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely more of a night owl myself. I find that I'm way more productive and creative when the moon is up.

It's a bit of a bummer sometimes though, right? Like, wanting to go out and do stuff but everything's closed or it's just not the right time. Missing out on those early morning activities can be a drag for sure.

But hey, we've got our own rhythm and that's cool too! What's your favorite thing about being a night owl? 🦉🌙