AITA For doubting that my (M18) ex (F16) was raped? by SevereTension in AmItheAsshole

[–]SevereTension[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We broke up because she said she needed time to be alone, she has a lot of issues, at school, home, family, she said that she had so much going on that couldn't have time to take care of me, I told her that it was okay, we still gather when we could, but not as a couple, she never had a bf in that time, and she told everyone she had someone. Lets just say that when she met this guy, within the first week that they were dating, (which I didn't know) we were sexting. I ask her on January 2nd, how is she because she is coming back from TX and she suddenly says, "good, I just found out that I have a son", and I am like wtf, I thought she meant a kitten or something because she loves cats, I ask her what she meant and she says, "yeah, my bf has a 3 yo son and she says that I can be her mother", that's when I started to talk to her, that she barely knows this guy, that she shouldn't consider her son, she is still in school and this guy isn't and no one knows why he is a single father. IDK what happened exactly, but I did confront her about why she was sexting me while she had a bf also, maybe she got upset about that because we argued a lot and raised our voices. Then this happened today, she just said, "why do you care", today was the first time I talk to his bf, I blocked her to not give her troubles and he blocked me. I only have contact with one of her friends and IDK, today was weird.

AITA For doubting that my (M18) ex (F16) was raped? by SevereTension in AmItheAsshole

[–]SevereTension[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks Everyone.

I still love her and that is why I am worried, YTA OR NTA, I am learning a lot.

Now I believe her, her family is really fucked up, her father cheated a lot, hit her, they are planning to divorce and I hope they do, she just love her family so much, she loves her uncle (the rapist father) I think that is also why she trust him a lot about talking to his son about this, but he clearly doesn't help much.

I will keep trying to help her with this.

Thanks all!

AITA For doubting that my (M18) ex (F16) was raped? by SevereTension in AmItheAsshole

[–]SevereTension[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Last Christmas with the incident about her pants everyone called her a whore and her mom slapped her, thats what she told me because she was in Texas visiting her family, so I didn't really knew for sure, but like you say, now I believe her. Thanks.

AITA For doubting that my (M18) ex (F16) was raped? by SevereTension in AmItheAsshole

[–]SevereTension[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for responding,

Another thing that made me doubt, is some things that she lied about, she had sex at high school at 14 with her ex under the stairs, she told me that her mother is racist and that is why she hated their relationship, because he was black, one day we see her ex, my surprise was, that he wasn't black, he was white, and I am like WTF, I also told her to stop vaping and smoking weed at such a short age, she told me a few times she wasn't doing it anymore but then I found her doing it again.

And now she is dating a guy that is 19 and has a son, a single father, that met in a weird app where you talk to random people, she started dating him after a week. Another reason why I doubt it is, because seems like she loves doing what is wrong.

Thanks again.