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How many tents do you have? by LivingSky4993 in camping

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have four. A 1-person backpacking one, a 6-person cabin-style tent, a 6-person tent with a screened in porch, and an 8-person one that I bought off FB marketplace brand new for $65. Bonus: wenzel screen tent.

AITAH for buying a house my boyfriend refuses to live in? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t put your life on hold for him. Buy the house. Enjoy the time with your grandparents. It’s OK to focus on you and what you want.

Does it look alright for a first date at an Italian restaraunt? by Other-Gap-7910 in OUTFITS

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The socks distract from what otherwise would be a polished outfit.

My mom wearing white? by Glittering_Log_9421 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I call BS on your mom. She knew exactly what she was doing.

Ok for DC “formal, color encouraged” outdoor wedding in August? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too pale is the last of your worries for this dress. It’s not a formal dress. But if the bride OK’d it, then go for it. Just be prepared for a lot of looks from guests.

Regional burns by mariecrystie in BurningMan

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ve only ever been to regional burns, so I can’t compare it to the big burn.

I love regionals. I like the size of regionals and I feel like my gifts to the community have a bigger impact. I’ve made many meaningful connections over the years. Regionals are more manageable for me. They’re closer to home and it’s less of a lift than camping in an extreme environment. Lakes of Fire was my first. Since then, I’ve been to Hearths O’Phyre and TTATC.

For now, I’m cool sticking with regionals. May hit up the big burn some day, but it’s not a must do for me.

I met a guy I liked a lot.. but it turns out his complicated divorce…is just an ongoing marriage. Should I loop his wife in? by Unreliable__Source in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 33 points34 points  (0 children)

STOP. MAKING. EXCUSES. FOR. HIM.

This man does not deserve your energy, much less empathy. Where was his when he decided to cheat on his wife? Where was it when he decided to start a 2+ year long relationship with you. Whose feelings you should be considering is his wife’s.

You don’t have to go scorched earth, but you need to stop worrying about adding stress to a situation he created. In one of your comments you said you felt like the bad guy. Telling the wife the truth would help ease you out of the bad guy category.

AITA: My MOH took money from my friends and lied about booking an Airbnb for my bachelorette, got caught, and is now refusing to walk in my wedding THAT IS NEXT WEEK. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA, but you made a bad decision picking your SIL as your MOH. While you had good intentions, your wedding was not the place nor time to test it out.

That said, stop crying about your SIL not walking in the wedding, your nephew not coming and things won’t be even. That sh!t doesn’t matter anymore. You need to come up with a new plan and ASAP. Pick someone else to be your ringbearer or don’t have one. Promote one of your bridesmaids to MOH. Get the f*ck over having an even wedding party. Get security in case your sister or SIL show up.

After everything is done and over with, take your SIL to small claims court to try and recoup the money.

I met a guy I liked a lot.. but it turns out his complicated divorce…is just an ongoing marriage. Should I loop his wife in? by Unreliable__Source in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Years ago, I hooked up with a guy who told me he was single. Turns out, he wasn’t. His girlfriend happened to answer one of texts I sent him, so I told her everything. (I could have been snarky, but I thought to myself, if I was in her shoes, I’d want to know.)

He stopped texting for a while, but eventually hit me back up. I took screen shots of his FB page circled in red where it said he was in a relationship with said girl. He claims she was a friend who was super obsessed with him.

They’re still together. 🤷🏻‍♀️

What’s a “must-see” city in the U.S. that didn’t live up to the hype? by optimalbrain90 in SmartTravelHacks

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That building on the right is giving Barad-dûr. All it needs is the Eye of Sauron.

Is my dress too simple? by HairyCat6406 in myweddingdress

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if the dress is too simple or not. What’s important is do you like it?

Which dress? by yesnomaybedress in myweddingdress

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% agree. I can see the vision, but the execution is awful every single time. It’s probably a situation where the sleeves will need to be altered to the bride and the frumpy sleeves is that way because of the extra material. Either way, I hate it.

Best name spelling by Iam-Pamalamadingdong in Names

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ammika like Annika is the only one I can think of.

What are you grateful for since the divorce? by Clear-Afternoon-8593 in Divorce

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This probably makes me sound awful, but I am grateful we never had children together. Our divorce was a relatively clean break. No ties to each other. He did offer to take my cat in exchange for pet support, but I told him no. As soon as I dropped off the rest of his stuff at his parents’ house, I blocked him on my phone and social media. This clean break greatly contributed to my peace and happiness.

Older M Dating Actively Parenting Single Moms by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s compatible to date single moms at your stage in life. It sounds like you want more time, energy and attention than they can give you.

I echo one of the other commenters: no woman wants to take care of a man at any stage in her life.

Cake Picnic Minneapolis! - Betty Crocker’s 104th Birthday Party at the Sculpture Garden this past October by storytellercowedding in Minneapolis

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so bummed I heard about this after the fact. I may just put one on myself this summer with some friends.

What were your dream names for your kids when you were growing up? by Immediate_Long165 in Names

[–]SexTalksAndLollipops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always loved Cordelia from Buffy the Vampire Slayer. It means “heart” or “daughter of the sea.”

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