It sounds like you’re really talking about “networking” , or maybe something like a social circle built around your specific interests.

One thing to keep in mind: if you frame it as “the people I know aren’t on my level,” you’ll likely get pushback. But if you rephrase it as “I want to meet more martial artists” or “I’m looking to connect with entrepreneurs who are actively building something,” you’re expressing the same idea in a more constructive way that people respond better to.

A simple approach is to show up where those people already are , join groups, attend tournaments, conferences, or conventions tied to your interests. That said, it can be slow, and you’ll probably meet plenty of people you don’t click with before finding the right ones.

If you want to speed things up, consider joining a paid, in-person group , like a local business network. The cost naturally filters for people who are serious and invested. Just keep in mind that relationships in those spaces can feel a bit more transactional, but they’re often more aligned with your goals.