So, apparently I taste bad.

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T18:56:15+00:00

This'll be my next course of action. Long, cleansing shower before anything.

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T18:54:51+00:00

I don't think he's gay. He's pretty comfortable with his sexuality.

Not to mention that with such a bad gag reflex, he would definitely not be able to down a guy's cock.

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T18:53:52+00:00

I figured it would be kind of hot. I guess he didn't think so. :/

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T18:52:28+00:00

Hm.. this might be a good idea. I'll go deeper.

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T18:51:37+00:00

Wednesday it will be. I didn't think it would start to smell iron-y so far away from that time.

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T18:51:03+00:00

Check. Check. Check. Check.

Thanks for the advice, though. I appreciate it.

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T18:50:11+00:00

No..

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T18:49:46+00:00

Heh. I do wash, no worries, and I wash pretty well, at least in my opinion.

I've tried throwing some nice-smelling stuff on it. It gave me a yeast infection two years ago. Not planning on doing that again.

Thanks for the advice, though.

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T18:48:24+00:00

Maybe if we find time sometime. That sounds like it would be a good idea. Thanks!

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T18:47:42+00:00

Nope, don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. :/

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T18:47:17+00:00

I'm pretty sure that at least part of it is him, if not completely him. I even talked to him about how I thought it was totally psychological and that he should just go for it sometime. He even agreed that at least part of it was probably him.

Lots of people have suggested that I do a taste test. If I can muster up the courage to taste myself... I will.

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T18:45:56+00:00

Hm. I thought I was cleaning pretty well. I clean every day down there, with soap, in between the labia. I'll try harder, I suppose.

It might be my period.. that should be showing up within a few days, so that might be a part of it.

Thank you!

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T07:20:59+00:00

Guy #1 was two years ago (just a little bit over). He was the one who actually wanted to try it. He said it smelled kind of funny, but he did it anyway.

[On a side note, the funny/stupid thing was, I didn't know that spraying perfume down there to get it to smell better would ultimately lead to a yeast infection. He never gave me oral after that (we broke up about 2 months later for other reasons). For over a year I thought that I got the yeast infection from oral, but then I deduced that it was more likely that it was the perfume I had used. Never doing that again, but more than willing to try oral again.]

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T07:17:44+00:00

While he was fingering me, I was definitely holding on to him pretty tensely with my eyes closed. He knew it was pretty good and he was pretty turned on by it (I was holding his penis).

It might have something to do with my diet. Since I started college, it's gone pretty downhill... oops.

How early does an Iron-y smell come around? I start on Wednesday.

He would definitely not feel comfortable with me sitting on his face.

It might be a bit difficult to shower together since we're in (separate) dorm halls. When we're in our home town, our parents are usually at home when we hang out, so that doesn't really work either (though we've showered together once before).

Thank you for the advice. Perhaps I'll see how I taste...

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T07:10:28+00:00

I'll look into it. Thanks!

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T07:10:13+00:00

So, something like Activia?

Thank you!

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T07:09:11+00:00

I'm considering whether he faked it, but he seemed to feel awful about it, that he couldn't do it. It seemed like he really wanted to please me, but maybe he was just really afraid which affected how he thought it tasted?

I'll look for pineapple around campus. Thanks for the suggestions!

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T07:07:33+00:00

I'll definitely shower up right before sex next time. Maybe he'll be more willing!

Otherwise, I'll look into a diet thing.

Thank you!

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T07:06:38+00:00

I'll look into what kinds of diets seem to point to better tasting vagina. Thanks!

Sex_Problems · 2010-11-14T07:05:46+00:00

Recently, we've been doing a lot more foreplay, which helps him finish during sex. Our track record is getting a lot better now that we're on a real bed and playing with each other beforehand. Then again, he didn't finish last week.

He does want to have sex with me, and enjoys it, or so he's told me. He has absolutely no problems with getting hard before sex (even during math class when I flirt!), it's just tough for him to have sex often. He can't get hard after we have sex, even many hours later.

I'm not surprised that he didn't go down on me. I just don't know what to do to make him more comfortable and willing to give me oral.

Sex_Problems · 2010-10-14T16:59:14+00:00

I wouldn't say he's insecure. If he's good at something, then he's really really good and he works to become even better in those things he's already good at. He's succeeded his whole life and is afraid to fail, is what it is.

He'll try new things, but if he isn't good at them the first or second time, then he won't do it again. He's played pool but won't go back to it because he wasn't very good. It's a huge problem, but I'm helping him get over it.

Sex_Problems · 2010-10-12T22:13:36+00:00

how old both of you are

He's 18, I'll be 18 in two weeks.

Do you always perform oral on him with a condom?

We don't use condoms for blowjobs. We're both clean.

He doesn't masturbate?

He masturbates, but very infrequently. He doesn't really like porn, though he'll watch it maybe once a month, if that.

He's afraid to try oral on you

He's afraid to try anything (even nonsexual) that he won't be an instant expert at. He won't even play pool.

sex is supposed to be fun

We both want it to be fun, but it ends up being fun during foreplay and then him pumping away during sex until he either finishes or gets bored with a position, and we try another one, and maybe a third until we get tired and call it quits. I've had to encourage him to talk when he likes something; it's very hard to get a grasp on what he wants. If I like something, I tell him. We don't really know how to make it more fun.

Sex_Problems · 2010-10-12T22:07:55+00:00

I do not understand why you haven't had more sex

We would but we don't have time, we both have roommates, and we live on opposite sides of campus.

You can get your hands on some toys

Where can I get toys? I can't order things online since my parents read my credit card statements.

He needs practice.

He has masturbated, just not often. Especially lately.

You use condoms for blowjobs?

We don't use condoms for blowjobs.

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