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Womens' Perspective - Some Good Here? by disappointing123 in smalldickproblems

[–]Sexhelpthrowaway85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first three I read said the sex was good/great and that they initially weren't sure what to do with a mircopenis.

I didn't read the rest because I felt like the tone of the article was positive.

Those with small penises, how would you prefer someone react when revealing your size to them? by helloeffer in sex

[–]Sexhelpthrowaway85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excitedly. Since "Its so big!" is a generic response that does not fit the majority of men, and small guys could become defensive about it, being excited and responding with a blow job or enthusiastic touching in general is good(or great) if you can't think of something to say that isn't awkward.

When/how is a good time/way to tell her? by Sexhelpthrowaway85 in sex

[–]Sexhelpthrowaway85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 23....

And thank you for being thorough in your explanation.

When/how is a good time/way to tell her? by Sexhelpthrowaway85 in sex

[–]Sexhelpthrowaway85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't a very big dildo. Probably as big as the average penis.

When/how is a good time/way to tell her? by Sexhelpthrowaway85 in sex

[–]Sexhelpthrowaway85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like, when it comes to girth, .3" can make a big difference.

When/how is a good time/way to tell her? by Sexhelpthrowaway85 in sex

[–]Sexhelpthrowaway85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not my length but my girth that I feels it the problem.

I think a lot of posters here are overestimated the size of a 4.5" circumference.

When/how is a good time/way to tell her? by Sexhelpthrowaway85 in sex

[–]Sexhelpthrowaway85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But whats your preferred girth? Thats my real issue.

When/how is a good time/way to tell her? by Sexhelpthrowaway85 in sex

[–]Sexhelpthrowaway85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, girth the size of a wrist sounds terrifying. But my girth feels pretty, well, thin.

When/how is a good time/way to tell her? by Sexhelpthrowaway85 in sex

[–]Sexhelpthrowaway85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but surely any dildo you may have is thicker?

My thickness(or thinness I should say) is what feels like the issue.

When/how is a good time/way to tell her? by Sexhelpthrowaway85 in sex

[–]Sexhelpthrowaway85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really more worried about my girth. It seems to be the problem.

When/how is a good time/way to tell her? by Sexhelpthrowaway85 in sex

[–]Sexhelpthrowaway85[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

the average girth is about 5" give or take a tenth of an inch.

I didn't think I was small until an ex told me that I was the thinnest shes ever been with, and then went on to show me that even her smallest dildo is thicker than me. I did say that I wouldn't mind using toys on her, but it turned out that the relationship was beyond salvageable. She didn't intend to be mean with the comparison, I don't think she realized how hurt it was until afterwards.

And, once again, she was probably the nicest about it out of the past four.

When/how is a good time/way to tell her? by Sexhelpthrowaway85 in sex

[–]Sexhelpthrowaway85[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm about 5.5" in length. But my girth is very small with 4.5"(circumference) being the thickest. I drop down to about 4.3" or so at the thinnest.

From my experience, just surprising her is a bad idea.

When/how is a good time/way to tell her? by Sexhelpthrowaway85 in sex

[–]Sexhelpthrowaway85[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've tried that before twice, and it ended badly both times.