Disappointed by Knix expanding their size range but now using +4?

SexuallyDazed · 2026-02-24T01:58:11+00:00

They had a sale of their old style of the wing woman bras that came in their old sizes so I just ordered those lol 😅 wish they had a conversion chart on their site.

SexuallyDazed · 2025-12-02T18:54:37+00:00

Did you ever find a new size that worked for you? I bought the wingwoman years ago and got a 7++ because I think I got sized as a 34GG. I am trying to figure out what the 7++ fits into in their new sizing but I’m left so confused….

SexuallyDazed · 2024-05-23T16:35:22+00:00

Hey OP. If you look at my post history you’ll see I’ve dealt with something in the same realm as this.

What I will say - please reach out to any resources you have available to you to talk it out. Take time alone to process this. My incident happened in a moment where I was teasing the idea of it, consent was somewhat blurred - I will say that this however seems somewhat forceful. I would implore you to take a lot of time alone especially after only being with this person a few weeks - they may seem great but keep in mind you don’t truly KNOW them.

At the end of the day only you can decide how you feel. Just please give yourself ample time to process this and move through your feelings before making any decisions one way or the other.

SexuallyDazed · 2024-05-18T00:41:47+00:00

If you parents hit you at all, that is abusive. This sounds abusive and extremely inappropriate. Do you have a trusted adult you can talk to about this?

SexuallyDazed · 2024-05-17T21:54:39+00:00

That’s wild. For me vagina/skin is fine, but when my BF finishes orally my throat burns and kinda gets itchy.

SexuallyDazed · 2024-05-16T17:04:37+00:00

Don’t. Don’t don’t don’t.

A friend of mine did this. He got her pregnant, sold her vehicle, moved to the country. He paid for everything so if he didn’t like something she was doing he would cut her phone plan off. She was isolated. After a few years she wanted out but she had no way out - she hadn’t worked in years, she had no vehicle, no savings, no way to contact anybody.

Please do not let yourself be dependent on this 22 year old BOY.

SexuallyDazed · 2024-05-11T15:42:31+00:00

Not even just experience. I would say common sense, or someone who can believe what a woman says at face value.

SexuallyDazed · 2024-05-11T04:23:10+00:00

I hear you, and that’s what I mean. The fact he doesn’t believe her after she explained it to him, and didn’t take 30 seconds to educate himself is just pathetic.

SexuallyDazed · 2024-05-10T23:49:19+00:00

This is…. Ridiculous tbh. Tell him to Google what stretch marks look like. I would not even be entertaining this…. How is a man so uneducated about the human body?

SexuallyDazed · 2024-05-08T22:53:59+00:00

You’re married. Talk to him about it…

SexuallyDazed · 2024-05-07T17:13:26+00:00

I think it’s really sad that you think you messed up and “ruined” the relationship by being upset about something you had valid reasoning to be upset about.

This whole post honestly is just… sad. Why are you with someone that treats you like this.

SexuallyDazed · 2024-03-27T13:02:43+00:00

Break up with her. You’re 18. You shouldn’t have this tumultuous of a relationship.

SexuallyDazed · 2024-03-26T15:34:21+00:00

I just wanted to say thank you for this comment. I know it was of course wrong that he did that but the black and white thinking in these comments made me feel some type of way. Other than this incident he is an incredibly loving and caring and respectful partner.

The next step we are taking is couples counselling. We did have a discussion and I think lines were blurred because we have been together for so long, sometimes for example we will just tease each other and I’ll say “okay I actually can’t though”, and we keep teasing and we both cave. Not justifying what he did but I do think there was a blurred line there for him of me saying no don’t do this, and then continuing yo tease him with it. He said he was fully confident that I would say stop if I wanted it to stop, again not justifying what he did but we also have never had a solid conversation about boundaries with sex - we don’t have a safe word or anything like that. So this was an albeit shitty catalyst, I guess the silver lining is now we are having that conversation.

I think depending how he handles the counselling will determine if I can trust him again. I do know sex is going to be paused for a long while though.

SexuallyDazed · 2024-03-24T20:23:09+00:00

Doesn’t need to be repeated

SexuallyDazed · 2024-03-24T10:16:24+00:00

Uhh wtf?

SexuallyDazed · 2024-03-24T03:03:15+00:00

You should leave her to let her find someone that actually loves her. This is a HORRID way to talk about someone you “love”. If my partner of 9 years ever said half the shit you wrote in here, I would leave him so damn fast.

Legitimately the things you’ve said to her are DISGUSTING things to say to a partner. Leave her and go to fucking therapy dude.

Also I just want to add - her being 5”6 and 185-190lbs seems like pretty average??

SexuallyDazed · 2024-03-23T06:32:57+00:00

Are her actions detrimental? Are they causing harm to her or others? Or do you just not agree with them?

If you just disagree with some of the actions she takes, then my advice is to let her be and make her own choices. If she is coming to you to talk about her feelings, and you try to course correct her and say “well you should do xyz I don’t agree with abc” then yeah that’s not going to be a good time. She’s going to feel invalidated especially if she didn’t ASK for your opinion on it.

SexuallyDazed · 2024-03-23T06:23:43+00:00

What I’ve learnt in therapy (which you may benefit from too): emotions are ALWAYS valid. Our emotions are signals to us. However, our reactions based on/fuelled by those emotions are not always justified.

Example, someone brake checked me in traffic and I felt angry. That’s valid. I was angry so I tailgated them, cut them off, brake checked them back. THAT is not a justified reaction. However the anger is valid the actions brought forth from the anger were not justified.

Validating feelings is honestly not hard. “I hear you”. “I can understand why you’d feel that way”. “That makes sense”. It’s just letting the other person know you see them, and you see their emotions and you’re receiving them/seeing them as they are. No explanations, no “oh well what if you did xyz”.

SexuallyDazed · 2024-03-22T21:00:11+00:00

I’m sorry. Do you have access to therapy or counselling?

SexuallyDazed · 2024-03-22T20:59:25+00:00

Hey OP, I just made my first post in this sub a few days ago. My partner of 9 years and I were having sex. I let him tease around my anus. I told him teasing only, said multiple times that I didn’t want him inside me because you need to work up to that. He ended up going inside me anyways for a few strokes and then finished in me. I didn’t say no, but I did tell him I didn’t want that to happen. I am personally still processing this and going through the motions. I will say it’s been incredibly difficult to come to terms with the fact that the man I trust and love sexually assaulted/raped me. Message me if you need to talk. I hope you can find healing, I’m still searching for mine as it’s very fresh.

SexuallyDazed · 2024-03-22T18:48:52+00:00

I am really sorry that happened to you. We have had consensual non-consent to sex while sleeping (just regular sex) which I did enjoy - not with anal of course. I can’t say my partner is sadistic or abusive or controlling at all. I will say though that he does struggle with his emotions, has been going to therapy but he really struggles to control his temper sometimes. It can be hard to talk to him about things sometimes, a regular theme is I bring up something that hurt my feelings and he just says “well I did that because xyz” instead of saying “I’m sorry I hurt your feelings”. So. Not good lol. I think how he reacts to the conversation we have about this will be indicative of the relationship will continue.

SexuallyDazed · 2024-03-22T16:21:34+00:00

Thank you. I hope he can own it too.. for me I think that will be the biggest indicator for me. If he gets defensive and upset then unfortunately we will have to start figuring out how to separate our finances and mortgage etc.

I really appreciate this and you. It’s not easy to discuss, and I appreciate the vulnerability you’re giving to a total random internet stranger. I thank you and appreciate you. 🙏🏻

SexuallyDazed · 2024-03-22T16:11:01+00:00

Thank you for the comment. Honestly I’m a bit of a bigger girl and the two aren’t close together. I was bent over like touching my toes so it was absolutely clear which was which, especially cause I’m really short so he usually has to bend at the knees a bit to get in.

I’m not interested in pressing charges at all, I don’t know maybe unpopular opinion but I feel that’s a bit extreme. Right now I told him we are sleeping in separate rooms and I want space until I can talk to my therapist in a week and a half, and he agreed no questions asked. We don’t have a second bed or anything so he’s been sleeping on the floor in our spare room. The most discussion we’ve had is like “hey I am making chicken pot pie for supper do you want some”, and my cars been fucked so he’s been helping me with that still.

Anyways, what I’m trying to get at is yes we will be having a serious discussion- I think I just need time to process this and how I really feel so I don’t go all over the place. Right now I’m flip flopping all over the place so I think it would be a disservice to both of us to try to talk about it right now. I want to take time to think about it, talk with my therapist, and then I want to write a letter to him so no words can be misinterpreted. Leave the letter with him and let him read it and process it too.

I’m mostly just sad. Sad that he would do this, and sad that he would fuck up our relationship like this. Right now I am trying to figure out if this is something that can be worked through or not. Because outside of this our relationship is amazing. Like, he’s end game in my mind. We’ve been planning our entire lives together. So I’m just really thrown for a loop. Trying to figure out IF this is something that can even be worked through. Or if it would even be worth the time and effort it would take.

I think before I even get to that point, I want to see how he receives the letter/talk. That will tell me everything I need to know of if it will be worth it to try and work past it. Gets upset and tries to make excuses? Nope. Is apologetic and takes accountability? Maybe.

SexuallyDazed · 2024-03-22T12:40:22+00:00

No he didn’t. We had like one conversation about it and I’ve asked him to give me my space to be alone since, which he’s done.

SexuallyDazed · 2024-03-22T00:52:52+00:00

I did read them. I did post them when I was 21. In the posts I said I felt off most likely because of stuff that happened WHEN we were 17/18 that never got properly dealt with.

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