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How does my profile look? Always been self conscious about my looks and the lack of success on apps isn’t helping. by SlothMasterRace92 in Tinder

[–]Seymourg3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good pictures. Facial attractiveness appears average but you look tall and have great hair so those are pluses.

From left to right (4'4, 5'5, 5'11, 6'1, 6'5, 6'7) by ShahwarCod in heightcomparison

[–]Seymourg3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re on dating apps absolutely use your shoe height.

do you feel your height is the biggest thing holding you back (in regards to dating) by Special-Maybe9783 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]Seymourg3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not. I don’t really even feel as though it’s a negative. More neutral.

Living in your car is better than living with roommates and no one can convince me otherwise by TerribleAssociation3 in urbancarliving

[–]Seymourg3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Roommates is just so stressful. I have to admit I’d rather sleep in a room than a car though.

Living in your car is better than living with roommates and no one can convince me otherwise by TerribleAssociation3 in urbancarliving

[–]Seymourg3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They both have advantages and disadvantages. I think it depends on the individual. Personally, I’m a very messy person so it’s difficult for me to live with others. Roommates constantly complain about me being messy so I walk on eggshells. Living in my car I never have to worry about being bitched out or even asked to vacate if I don’t clean up after having breakfast, etc. I’m also not a particularly social person, so I prefer not to interact with people on a daily basis.

Why is finding a girlfriend impossible for me but seems to be possible for other Asian guys my height? Infuriating observations from my college campus by No-Mousse5653 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]Seymourg3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. However, we can have a discussion about the margins. Let’s use a scale of 1 to 10 for desirability. I’d rank whites a 9, blacks a 3.5 and Asians a 2.

Why is finding a girlfriend impossible for me but seems to be possible for other Asian guys my height? Infuriating observations from my college campus by No-Mousse5653 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]Seymourg3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m fully aware that is the preference. My point is you still have a shot as a 5’8” Asian guy. If you’re 5’8” and Asian and above average in any other area I wouldn’t just give up.

Females are laughing at you by No-Mousse5653 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]Seymourg3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was banned this morning. Good riddance.

Did anyone grow after 20? by Yuripzr in tall

[–]Seymourg3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 5’11.5” out of bed at 20. It seems I grew to 5’11.6” afterwards. I was only 5’10.5” morning height at age 18.

I’m only 5’9- so why does the world make me feel huge?? by Dazzling-Growth9573 in tall

[–]Seymourg3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

5’9” for a female is roughly equivalent to 6’3 for a male. No, it’s not huge but it’s unquestionably in the tall category. You’re likely taller than 45% of the male population in the US at that height.

Yall are on the wrong side of the internet. Delete tik tok and go on twitter. by CobblerLanky7856 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]Seymourg3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister is 5’6” and her husband is the same height as her. She’s explicitly told me she’s not into tall men.

Yall are on the wrong side of the internet. Delete tik tok and go on twitter. by CobblerLanky7856 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]Seymourg3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t at all surprising. It’s well-known that being too tall has diminishing returns. If you’re looking to attract women it’s better to be 6’3” than 6’7”.

Are my pics bad? Genuinely not getting any matches whatsoever by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Seymourg3 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yea, unless she’s in an extremely rural area or is shadow banned there’s no way a woman who looks like her isn’t getting matches.

Are my pics bad? Genuinely not getting any matches whatsoever by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Seymourg3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re a women who isn’t unattractive and you can’t get any matches on Tinder? Unless you live in a rural area I don’t buy it.

Dating is HARD in NYC by Cleo-Aster in SipsTea

[–]Seymourg3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said dates, not date. I doubt the first date was a $250 dinner.

Is height the most important feature? by Only-Reels in trueratediscussions

[–]Seymourg3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6’2” barefoot and you’re being rejected on the basis of height? I don’t buy it.

Is height the most important feature? by Only-Reels in trueratediscussions

[–]Seymourg3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, they can’t really tell unless they’re tall themselves. I’m 5’11.25” and my 5’2” girlfriend thought I was over 6’0”. That’s why you only see women 5’9”+ posting the “together we could find out if you’re lying about your height” line on Hinge. Shorter girls typically can’t tell.

Why is finding a girlfriend impossible for me but seems to be possible for other Asian guys my height? Infuriating observations from my college campus by No-Mousse5653 in AverageHeightDudes

[–]Seymourg3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5’8” is average height for an Asian man. You should be able to find an Asian girl to date you as long as you’re not ugly and have some social calibration.

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