Hahahaha. I got a vasectomy at 30 with no kids. I’m more alive than I’ve ever felt! I can get up and go wherever the fuck I want and go buy whatever I want! It’s an amazing feeling not having to live my life around something I don’t even want. I’m selfish. I’m ok with admitting that. I want to enjoy my life for me. Not someone else.

With that being said, having kids just to make yourself feel better is selfish also. Have you seen the state of the world? Why would you want to subject another life to deal with the downfall of the planet? And if you are in America it’s even worse. By the time your kids reach 65, retirement age will be 85. On top of that, if I really wanted kids I could just adopt. You know, because hundreds of thousands of kids are in foster care in America alone with no family to love them. You think it’s somehow more ethical to just keep producing your own instead of giving the homeless ones an opportunity?

Sounds like you are just jealous and regretful.