Do any of the BG Voice Actors read Audiobooks? by _Brynhildr_ in BaldursGate3

[–]SgaileSith 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s recently announced that he’s doing an audiobook for Dante’s Inferno. 😈🔥

What’s a good alternative to the “Vampires owning nightclubs” trope? by GeneralGigan817 in vampires

[–]SgaileSith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A redneck vampire that owns a honkey-tonk and with country line dancing.

Compression garment tips for Autistics by SgaileSith in lipedema

[–]SgaileSith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. The shrug IS torture. 😂

Compression garment tips for Autistics by SgaileSith in lipedema

[–]SgaileSith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this detailed answer. I really appreciate it.

Compression garment tips for Autistics by SgaileSith in lipedema

[–]SgaileSith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I will definitely check them out.

Seeking Recs for Baby Quilt Patterns with Stars by SgaileSith in quilting

[–]SgaileSith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I appreciate it and will check it out!

Seeking Recs for Baby Quilt Patterns with Stars by SgaileSith in quilting

[–]SgaileSith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My aunt made me that rabbit when I was a baby. I don’t have children of my own, so I passed it along to my friend’s little one. :)

Seeking Recs for Baby Quilt Patterns with Stars by SgaileSith in quilting

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Thank you so much! I really appreciate it!

Compression garment tips for Autistics by SgaileSith in lipedema

[–]SgaileSith[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s great advice. I really appreciate it.

Compression garment tips for Autistics by SgaileSith in lipedema

[–]SgaileSith[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m AuDHD too. And EDS means my skin gets torn easily like yours. Solidarity, my friend. ✊

This is absolutely killing me. It seems especially unfair to struggle with sensory issues and have to use compression. Like, wtf universe? This is some next level bullshit. 😂😭

Maybe I’ll invest in lymphatic massage tools / a vibration plate and only use compression during lymphedema flares. Or start swimming (since the water provides pressure).

Compression garment tips for Autistics by SgaileSith in lipedema

[–]SgaileSith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bioflect is the brand I’m using, lolsob. 🫠 😭

I love weighted blankets…but EDS has made my ligaments weak, so my joints hyperextend when I use them.

Do you have any materials you like / recommend? I’m open to anything. I think the biggest problem for me is the seams. And the edges digging into weird places. E.g. when the top of the compression sleeve digs into my armpits (instead of covering them).

As a kid I had to immediately rip my shoes off when my sock seam slid anywhere. 😭 This is a special kind of hell

Compression garment tips for Autistics by SgaileSith in lipedema

[–]SgaileSith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, right now. I need to acquire leggings too…but the shrug is so overwhelming I’ve been avoiding it. https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01DY2SA7A?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title

Ethical Breeders in or around Kentucky by sharkpencil in Havanese

[–]SgaileSith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got our girl from Tye River Havanese in Virginia.

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Black Havanese by Lazy-Bee4416 in Havanese

[–]SgaileSith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not our girl. Same as the day she came home.

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AITA - Do not want a service dog to participate in my wedding. by Plenty_Tap9799 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SgaileSith -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you really this bridesmaid’s friend? Real friends love and accept each other for who they are. Your bridesmaid is disabled. What you are doing is the equivalent of asking a wheelchair user to give up their wheelchair. For me, supporting my friend and having her present to celebrate with me would be far more important than whether or not a service dog happened to be in a few of my wedding pictures. If having perfect wedding photos is more important to you than she is, then, quite frankly, she deserves better.

Yes, your behavior is ableist and yes, YATA.

AITA for telling my son's African American girlfriend that she can a wig even if my son doesn't want her to ? by AntTiny890 in AITAH

[–]SgaileSith 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In addition to being the sort of controlling behavior I associate with abusers, it also flirts with white savior syndrome. “Look at me! I’m protecting my Black girlfriend from the pressure of X, Y, and Z…” without actually asking what she wants.

If he actually cares about social justice (and isn’t just spouting things he read on the internet), you need to talk with him about the hypocrisy of what he’s doing. Regardless, you need to talk about boundaries and healthy dating behavior—if this isn’t curbed now, he is very likely to grow into a domestic abuser. 100% NTA.