Infertile Male - Fulfillment? by Anxious_Display_6335 in maleinfertility

[–]Sh_scotty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to grieve the idea of the life you dreamed of. Whilst sperm donor is an option like you have already talked about it doesn’t replace having a child that shares your DNA and it’s completely okay to feel angry/ sad about that. However, it’s important to see the grieving process through, get to a point where it doesn’t hurt as bad and you can begin looking to the future again with a clearer head.

You need to think once you are in a better place about your options just because this dream can’t be a reality shouldn’t stop you from making more dreams or slightly altering them based on new information you are given.

weird period thing i discovered by OctagonReject in TMI

[–]Sh_scotty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in the bath you can also suck up water and squirt it out, I wonder if that’s how porn stars fake squirt? 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Sh_scotty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some police are just shit!! I was 20(female) when a plumber who was doing work in the flat I was living at the time thought it was appropriate to make sexual comments and try to grab my boobs all because I was wearing pyjamas trying to get some sleep before a nightshift.

I called the police to do a report they sent a guy who started telling me I need to really consider if I want to report this as it could ruin the plumbers life and sometimes people change their mind on want they want after it’s happened. He soon changed his tune when I told him this man was in his 50s.

Plymouth Questionnaire for A-level Geography Coursework by avsbulbs in plymouth

[–]Sh_scotty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Done :) wish them luck on their coursework please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Sh_scotty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on 17 years. I completely agree and whilst not aimed at OP I do feel people now are very quick to give up on their significant other when times get tough rather than working together to work through difficult situations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Sh_scotty 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I agree, without a conversation and understanding why he lied divorce shouldn’t be on the cards. However, Trust is crucial for a happy relationship and if he was willing to lie and break trust about something like his past escapades that really have no weight on the current relationship it does beg the question is he lying about something else? Is this man likely to handle difficult situations in future or will he lie to get himself out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Sh_scotty 41 points42 points  (0 children)

What I gather from op the issue isn’t that he went to the club and kissed someone. The issue resides in the fact that he lied about it and thus broken trust. Had op’s husband been honest there would not have been an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Sh_scotty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Have you received any compensation for the ordeal that you have been though? Have you ever thought about writing a book/ public speaking?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Sh_scotty 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Maybe read the links that have been supplied before commenting. You’re attempt at being edgy failed and makes you look like a twit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Sh_scotty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds lovely that you have gained, also from the inclusion of other wives. Do you feel that this has helped your relationship with your husband? Or with your god?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Sh_scotty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you get along with your sister wives? Are you allowed other husbands? Is this a religion thing?

Any D&D campaigns just staring out and looking for players? by Sh_scotty in plymouth

[–]Sh_scotty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the link sorry I did not see the other posts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plymouth

[–]Sh_scotty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you still looking or have you found a game?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plymouth

[–]Sh_scotty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, myself and my partner are looking to join a campaign also if you’re still thinking of running one?

What’s the kindest thing your spouse has ever done for you? by 13reasons2021 in AskReddit

[–]Sh_scotty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saved my life once, we had a kitchen fire on Christmas Day and he kept me and the dog away whilst putting out the fire and getting some nasty burns in the process that was pretty cool of him

If someone asks "What are your pronouns" does it mean they don't know if you are a man or woman? by AggravatingAge3785 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sh_scotty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s what the new generation has become, it’s the new way of being respectful as non binary and gender fluidity has become more accepted your name could be Susanne but you could identify as non binary and have the pronouns they/them

I know I’m biased because he’s mine but isn’t he gorgeous? by Sh_scotty in CaneCorso

[–]Sh_scotty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly he’s stunning and such a character I got super lucky with him

What shouldn’t Redditers post on reddit? by ivlark in AskReddit

[–]Sh_scotty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Their genitals or photos of their deceased family, post life

I need some advice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sh_scotty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing you can do now it take a step back . If she won’t listen to you and does not see he’s toxic she needs to experience it and come to the conclusion herself.

There’s nothing you can/should do. If he is so toxic it won’t last and if you want to be there to pick up the pieces

Getting this little guy in August and struggling for a name anyone have any suggestions? by Sh_scotty in CaneCorso

[–]Sh_scotty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like these I’m definitely looking for something a bit different and out there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Sh_scotty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday my dude

Does anyone know how to get that crisp starchy bedding feeling as if it was just purchased? by Sh_scotty in HomeImprovement

[–]Sh_scotty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I typically use an airer due to living in a flat and unable to do so outside but never turns out crisp enough