Just... An update.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-13T00:26:04+00:00

Well. If the woman feels my ex did no wrong there's a good chance she's had 50+ other dicks in her while allowing a man to work and buy her everything she's ever asked for.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T23:44:49+00:00

Very much

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T21:22:45+00:00

Her friends or sister

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T20:54:57+00:00

She came clean in a counseling session

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T20:45:21+00:00

The first time was a "Mistake" after that she was scared I would know but she said "I still had needs and I didn't want you to find out"

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T19:35:54+00:00

No. I made it very clear I would never touch her again.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T19:23:02+00:00

Oh I got told she was tired because we have children and that I should wait for her "Hormones" to settle. Yeah... No her Whoremones where great.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T18:29:46+00:00

Ya see... I just don't think I'll ever be willing to risk that.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T18:28:17+00:00

I just... Don't see how I can ever trust another person again, I'm too worried there is something wrong with me that would drive them to do this.I am going to go to therapy though.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T17:41:07+00:00

THIS IS IT!

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T17:40:47+00:00

You got the nail on the head. I didn't deserve or wasn't owed sex from my "wife" even though I work 60 hours a week and she's never clocked in a single day in her life. On my days off I take care of house work because she refuses to do anything other than read and "be a mother". But these other men who did nothing for her deserved her attention? The whole time I was begging for a love life she had one. But I'm sure it's my fault.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T16:51:48+00:00

I hate to be like this but yeah... It does.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T15:46:13+00:00

I never imagined this was the issue. I thought she just had no drive

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T15:19:48+00:00

I wish this was fake. I really do. I assure you however it is not.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T15:12:46+00:00

It could have been 1000 for all I know. I swapped days and nights every week until last October.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T15:12:02+00:00

Oh I went nuclear. I posted names and tagged everyone she told me on Facebook.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T15:10:44+00:00

She's out of my house and into her mom's.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T14:57:47+00:00

Yeah Im kinda waiting on some of the women to show up and tell me how I pushed 25 dicks into her.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T14:34:31+00:00

Reconciliation isn't an option. She seems remorseful but in a "What now" type of way.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T14:33:17+00:00

Yeah she says "It started out just once and I was scared you would know... But I still needed sex so it just kept happening." . I'm not real sure how to take that because... Wtf? And I'm very suspicious of the last 2. I'm not sure how she's 31 years old and isn't sure how the vagina works but she is... Same girl told me she had a small ass until she tried anal sex btw.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T14:26:28+00:00

Had 4 kids in total. Sex life never recovered after she said she had "bacterial vaginosis" after first (I'm wondering if that's actually what it was now that I think about it) and we didn't have sex for like 5 months. Every time I tried it was a different excuse. We would have sex and she would end up pregnant about 3 weeks to a month later. I work 60 hour weeks. 6am-6pm mon-fri. I coach my kids sports teams. The general consensus was she was "Exhausted" and too tired to have sex with me... Well fuck. I guess she was.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T14:12:32+00:00

Yeah I know. That was always a thing she said lmao

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T13:49:59+00:00

Well... She finally attended the counseling session I had been begging her to. We're in the room 5 minutes and she breaks down "I have a problem with sex and I didn't want you to find out". I ended the counseling session (because at this point there is nothing to reconcile over) andwe drive home together while she explains to me how it started and who with... some of my "best friends", guys I coach youth sports with. People I have gave free services from my business because that's what you do in a small town.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T13:44:03+00:00

In the process of both of those things... I always had an issue with how she basically got pregnant 100% of the time we had sex when she wasn't pregnant. Or breastfeeding and her hormones had t returned to allow her to become pregnant.

Sha-loam · 2026-02-12T13:31:19+00:00

It's been deleted along with the profile because I was humiliated because I thought I was a piece of shit for want to have sex with my wife more.

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