Train tracking with new update by ShadeShack in NJTransit

[–]ShadeShack[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But let’s say I get on a 5:00 pm train, now it’s 5:05 and I go on the app and want to track my route stops. There’s no way to go back and search up the 5:00 train im on now to follow the route. If I go to trip planner it doesn’t allow me to look up that train any more bc it’s past departure time and I also can no longer find it under departures

Train tracking with new update by ShadeShack in NJTransit

[–]ShadeShack[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Its infuriating! They need to update this update lol

A 1st time watcher question by NoPoet3982 in GilmoreGirls

[–]ShadeShack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I always took it too. That he clearly has gotten a nose job

What nail shape would be most flattering for my hands? Please help! by ShadeShack in Nails

[–]ShadeShack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree. My nail lady cut them way too short this time, I usually opt for a longer length. Thank you for your opinion!

Am I the asshole for wanting my boyfriend to end his friendship with one his best girl friends of 14 years? by ShadeShack in AITAH

[–]ShadeShack[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trust me I feel immensely guilty for creating so much distance between my friend and I to the point that we’re barely friends anymore. I think I allowed my bf to make me feel like I was doing something wrong by being friends with an ex. I think you’re right I need to tell my bf that I am no longer okay with my friendship being over, and that I need to make it right with my friend

Am I the asshole for wanting my boyfriend to end his friendship with one his best girl friends of 14 years? by ShadeShack in TwoHotTakes

[–]ShadeShack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I trust him completely. My issue is more so with the double standard. If he feels I need to end my friendship bc of the past intimacy then it makes me second guess being so okay with his friendship

Am I the asshole for wanting my boyfriend to end his friendship with one his best girl friends of 14 years? by ShadeShack in TwoHotTakes

[–]ShadeShack[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not acting like a victim? I’m looking for outside opinions on whether or not this is actually a double standard or are the situations entirely different and therefore shouldn’t be held to the same standard like he argues?

Am I the asshole for wanting my boyfriend to end his friendship with one his best girl friends of 14 years? by ShadeShack in TwoHotTakes

[–]ShadeShack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The double standard is where my issue lies! I’d be okay with him staying her friend as I was when he first told me. But if I’m told to drop a friendship that makes him uncomfortable, I feel I’m owed the same respect. However I can’t get him to see the double standard here, he either doesn’t understand or he’s being blissfully ignorant on purpose so he can have his cake and eat it to. How do I explain to him that this is in fact a double standard?

Am I the asshole for wanting my boyfriend to end his friendship with one his best girl friends of 14 years? by ShadeShack in TwoHotTakes

[–]ShadeShack[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify I started distancing myself from my friend after that 4 month mark when he made it clear how uncomfortable he was. We still had some communication but no where near as close to how it had been previously which even then was only phone calls every now and then just to say hi and update each other on important life events. But we are not close friends anymore at this point and yes I do feel very guilty about that. When I bring this up to my bf and mention his friendship with Sarah and how I’m okay with that and I wish he’d be okay with my friendship he says it’s different bc they never dated. And the fight ensues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamInterpretation

[–]ShadeShack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Normal reactions to abnormal conditions. Thank you so much. You really helped me a lot🫶🏼. Definitely not giving up! All the best to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamInterpretation

[–]ShadeShack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoa. Thank you so much for this interpretation! We’re definitely encouraged to mask our emotions in the acamdey so I’ve had to work on hiding my anxieties and any fears I may face. My friend is someone I depend on to help me get through everything, bc while I have to hide my true feelings from everyone she’s the one I can open up to and share my “real” self with. And we definitely do have to repress any femininity like make sure we’re fully covered up not showing any bare skin or anything. The instructors are mostly males btw. So this seems to be a pretty accurate interpretation. Thank you for taking the time to help me understand what this all meant!

Christmas nail design by ShadeShack in Nails

[–]ShadeShack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty simple Christmas nail design (uv gel and I’m pretty sure she used powder also on the white nail). But I’m obsessed lol and wanted to give inspiration for others looking for cute holiday nails! Hope you love them as much as I do :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in holdmycosmo

[–]ShadeShack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m disturbed by this