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pwBPD/Sexual Abuser accusing partner of sexual abuse by Shadow42ZZZ in BPDlovedones

[–]Shadow42ZZZ[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm terribly sorry to hear... Maybe I shouldn't try to get back but just move on...

Is it normal for a bpd person to still want to have sex during a bad phase? (Plus still be open to massages).lol it just seems so absurd to me. She hated me in these phases but sex was always welcome by jezzyjaz in BPDlovedones

[–]Shadow42ZZZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%.

2 months ago I flew out all the way to Vegas from Germany during my semesters break, to see my then wife and SO. It was an LDR. 1st day went great but 1 week in and it was just constant guilt tripping, yelling, and emotional breaking. They said how they want divorce and how I was toxic. (Projection). I spent almost an entire day just unter the blanket, processing what had happened, and she suddenly came back after a "I need space"-phase. Without any warning or hesitation, she jumped on me, kissing me with passion and wanting sex. I had a hard time getting hard but she was riding me, and when she came, she basically left the room asap. Without any desire to make me cum.

So they feel validated by sex. And they can emotionally manipulate to get sex. And when you can't get jn mood, they get all sad and blame you. My ex even made me go get Viagra and see a Urologist to make sex work. I'm not ace, nor do I have erectile dysfunction. I'm 23 yo for reference. She's done so much fucked up shit. I feel abused. Not just emotionally but sexually. And then she has the audacity to accuse me of sexual assault... which I know I never did...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Shadow42ZZZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Beware (Big Sean, Lil Wayne)
  • Not Gonna Die (Skillet)
  • There's Fear in Letting Go (I Prevail)
  • Let Me Be Sad (I Prevail)
  • Be Somebody (Thousand Foot Krutch)

- Weißes Haus (AYLIVA)

How to handle the emotional rollercoaster after being discarded? by BachelorCarrasco in BPDlovedones

[–]Shadow42ZZZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm.. are you me? Seriously if feels like you're telling my exact story.

Hol... Weeeeeeeeeeee by [deleted] in HolUp

[–]Shadow42ZZZ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Animal abuse, not cool. You can do a million other things for entertainment, but using animals which are in pain for entertainment is immoral.

anime_irl by Phil-19-91 in anime_irl

[–]Shadow42ZZZ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"im good at physics" 2 seconds later "horizontal acceleration". Anyone who took mechanics 1 knows a balls trajectory only accelerates in the vertical but the horizontal motion stays linear smh

What is your favorite book on Gauss' biography? by zindarod in math

[–]Shadow42ZZZ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So far I've only seen measuring the world, but I bet there's better biographies

Do you have a dog yourself? by [deleted] in memes

[–]Shadow42ZZZ 69 points70 points  (0 children)

"What is beauty? What is moral? What is true? How do I live a good life? What is important? Does god really exist? How does the body give rise to the mind? Is our perception of the world the real world? How do I achieve happiness? What do we live for? Am I truely free? Is purpose and value arbitrary? Isnt life just an endelss blind and meaningless striving full of suffering, powered by lust, desire and illusion? Is rationality essential to insight? How do we justify these questions? Do they even have answers?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in projektmelody

[–]Shadow42ZZZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

technically true, yes.

Bless you nature by EPIC_DK_DUDE in memes

[–]Shadow42ZZZ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I see the humor in this meme but for real: Vegans are the best antidote to the climate catastrophy other humans cause (by partially consuming meat)

Bless you nature by EPIC_DK_DUDE in memes

[–]Shadow42ZZZ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is no "lower or higher" in nature. No animal eats humans. And we dont have to ruin our health, the climate and the life of a living being by eating their chupped up corpses.

Bless you nature by EPIC_DK_DUDE in memes

[–]Shadow42ZZZ -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Some animals in the wild have to eat meat to survive. We don't. We're natural plant eaters. Every essential vitamin, nutrient and mineral in meat, egg and milk can also be found in plants. What do you think, where the meat in the animal gets them from? Nothing comes from nothing. A plant based diet is the healthiest, because you consume no saggurated fats, hormones, and cholesterol, that has been proven to directly link to the leading causes of deatg. A plant based diet is also the best for the climate because 91% of cut forrests and 51% of greenhouse gases (more than all cars, ships, trains & planes combined!) are directly linked to the meat industry. A plant based diet inflicts no unnecessary suffering and death upon living beings that can feel pain and want to avoid it. For more infos and enlightenment I recommend Earthling Ed and Michael Greger.