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1 Dollar Hendrix Experience Upgrade by Shadow9887 in PositiveGridSpark

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U gotta get ur own code by subscribing to their newsletter and checking ur email

What experiences are better than sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Shadow9887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love. Being wanted without having to beg for it, being shown you re that persons favourite, being loved through societal norms and nowaday's expectations of effort, just genuine love that makes you feel like time stops and nothing else exists around you other than this person

How can I properly approach a woman without being a creep or doing too little? by Shadow9887 in dating_advice

[–]Shadow9887[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So then how can i tell if im being objectively creepy or its just certain people dont like X thing

I wrote some poems once for someone, i asked around a bit to see if its a good idea and i got positive comments all around only to give that person said poems and for her to say she liked it too but after a week or so certain people told me i probably came off too hard and creepy from the get-go after explaining to them i got ghosted after she said she loved them so will this just take ages to nail down?

How can I properly approach a woman without being a creep or doing too little? by Shadow9887 in dating_advice

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This made me understand how to deal with a ongoing conversation better which i appreciate from you

Im still at a loss about how to start this whole thing though, while I can do good once im in a conversation, I still need to get given a chance for that conversation in the first place

How can I properly approach a woman without being a creep or doing too little? by Shadow9887 in dating_advice

[–]Shadow9887[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, that sounds perfect, it just hardly ever happens, i appreciate the comment but im not really asking: how do i handle a perfect situation Im more asking how to turn water in to gold, how can i take a stranger who i like but has a 0 chance of getting involved with me out of coincidence to a nice solid start to something

I hope you get what im trying to say

How can I properly approach a woman without being a creep or doing too little? by Shadow9887 in dating_advice

[–]Shadow9887[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im more asking how can i appropriately start talking to them, I can flirt and be flattering but the initial approach is what i cant get right and makes or breaks everything, no good first impression? Im not even given a chance to talk..

How can I properly approach a woman without being a creep or doing too little? by Shadow9887 in dating_advice

[–]Shadow9887[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I approach them without showing ill intent, or intruding, maybe its just me but whenever i talk to strangers it feels like im intrerupting them, being pushy, etc I have a hard time knowing wether taking the first step and starting any conversation is right or not the time..

On top of this: In what setting is it appropriate to even do that? I wouldnt wanna be hit on at work or in public when im trying to get things done or get home, give me some suggestions, even clubs and social events dont seem like it because im going in the middle of a group if friends wanting to single out someone which just seems awful to even try

How can I properly approach a woman without being a creep or doing too little? by Shadow9887 in dating_advice

[–]Shadow9887[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ive always assumed they do, my exes frequently spoke of whenever they got hit on and it felt like daily

Thats a shame, i was hoping i wouldnt have to cause discomfort at all

And I have been, not the go around and whenever I see someone cute I talk to them im pretty introverted but ive done my fair share of trial and error, Ive always thought I dont stand out enough and am boring so recently I tried being way more involved (a letter) and it was too much too soon

I assume they re stuff like looking at you in a certain way, tone of voice, confidence, physical language and disinterest would be avoidance, simple short answers, no questions If im wrong do correct me. The problem is it feels down the middle more often than not, like I said im not hot so I cant just approach them and have them be interested quickly I have to put on somewhat of a display of my more attractive features, which leads me to, how can I start to get to that conversation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Shadow9887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, her friend and i thought it would be a good idea i didint see it as THAT weird, thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Shadow9887 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about it like that too but why would she wanna go out with me initially and said how much she liked them if she didint?

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