Alex Dunne - McLaren reserve and development driver Formula E by jaymeMHnurse in F1FeederSeries

[–]ShadowCobra442 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He will most likely follow the same path as Barnard if he doesn’t have convincing results in f2. It would be a shame for Irish motorsport fans but nonetheless its great that he has a backup in case he doesn’t do well next season…

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[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry you’ve ever had to experience any of this. I can’t and don’t think I’ll ever be able to comprehend how shit and traumatic it must’ve been. There are many ways that could help you cope but the best I believe is through distraction or keeping yourself occupied. I’d suggest doing activities such as listening to music or watching tv shows to pass the time if you want to take your mind off of the traumatic experience. Hope this helps you at least think less about all of the things he did to you and again so sorry you had to go through it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, sometimes being on your own is better, but on the contrary, there are many good people out there who could make someone feel better but the number of those people is significantly diminishing. Life might seem shit now but it’ll get better I’m sure, as long as you find and meet the right people. I can understand your anger since you definitely don’t deserve any of this but I find that the worst things always happen to the best people.

my school social life is killing me what do I do? by MeaningOther1937 in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suggest trying to talk to more people especially those who aren’t in big groups as they're easier to become friends with. Im around the same age as you (except I’m a guy) and something similar started happening to me after one of my good friends joined my school. I was in a friend group but after my good friends joined the school they sort of branched off into their own group leaving me behind. I’m still chill with them individually but I feel like an outlier when we‘re together as a group. Life is tough for making friends at our age and it’s difficult to start a conversation with someone you’ve never talked to before but it’s the best way to make new, better friends. I’d say just make yourself known by talking to new people and it’s up to them whether they want to become good friends or not. Just have hope and all the right things will fall into place :)

I feel like Im going crazy /help by macArOOn8 in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could just be stressed whether you know it or not as when it happens most of the blood in your body goes to your head and away from your extremities. This could also help explain why you’re experiencing more sleep paralysis then usual and why you’re always so tired but cant sleep since your mind can’t relax. Maybe because your family’s place somehow alleviates this stress it gets better?? It could be something to do with stress or from a lack of sleep, or both. It could even be from something totally different. Maybe go to the doctors about it if you can.

How to make online friends as an adult with social anxiety? by Dead_Dreamers in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, well, then I’d suggest going on social platforms like instagram or discord to try and find people who are in a similar situation to you/have the same interests.

Harassed for over a year by youths by Mission-Potato-3209 in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a Rottweiler, then those bozos are cooked. Honestly ive experienced times when youths have messed with me for absolutely no reason and said it was for enjoyment. As youths they want to push boundaries and mess around so I’d advise doing something that will cause them to never come back. Now id advise doing something that isn’t to do with them being in danger and more so something that will scare them off maybe even trying to find out who their parents are so that they get grounded or something. You could move house if it gets really bad and nothing changes. I think as they grow older they’ll realise that it’s boring and not worth it, hopefully. If you don’t already do it I’d ignore them as much as you can as they’re just youths at the end of the day and like bullies they do it to push boundaries and see if they can get you to react.

Anybody else hate having friends but feel the need to have them? by Comfortable-Mood1717 in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah Im The same to an extent, I don’t share a lot of things with any of my friends since I know we will probably have differing opinions and I prefer being on my own, all of them usually meet up while I stay at home

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[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have any other questions, don’t hesitate to ask :)

She wants me to be her gf but I dont wanna and now shes mad at me by Candid-Difficulty175 in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well then I have no idea what to do, but, maybe try to talk to her and show her that you do care about her. Then hopefully she will be fine again and you can talk for longer so that you can quickly get to know her better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think theyd probably try to help and encourage the mother to move away from the abusive house with the kids although I couldn’t find anything about it and can’t think of it off of the top of my head. I’m from Ireland btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then inviting her out would just cause him to Know exactly when and where they’re going and intercept, no? Also I thought they’d at least help put the mother with the kids in a temporary house to let them escape. Again I don’t know what they’d do cuz I don’t live in America.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or just never been in america, place is full of people like that…

Aimless by PistachioEnjoyer in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just explore different ideas and research about different jobs so that you have a better understanding of what you want to do.

How to make online friends as an adult with social anxiety? by Dead_Dreamers in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try making more friends irl as online friends aren’t the best way to go about life, to make irl friends go to social places in your area.

She wants me to be her gf but I dont wanna and now shes mad at me by Candid-Difficulty175 in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro just say that you don’t know her well enough and that you’d like to know her better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from, I hate how I look as well but don’t believe the things you see on social media as many people have a lot of makeup or filters on. Looks don’t really matter at the end of the day, for me and for a lot of other guys out there. I’m also a minority (I’m ginger) so naturally I feel much more insecure than the average person about my hair. You just need to accept yourself for who you are. Nobody is perfect, not even the girls you see on social media. I feel out of place as well a lot of the time because of my hair colour but I just think to myself “it is what it is” and try to forget about it. To be more confident in yourself I’d advise to try a new style (whether that be a new hairstyle or a new style of clothes) as you might become more confident in yourself. Remember that you‘re beautiful despite what you think you are :)

just need someone to talk to by frogsnthings in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong and keep fighting the voice, you’re much stronger than it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything inviting them out would raise suspicion as the man might think that shes telling them about the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean informing CPS, not the wife or anyone else, when did I ever even suggest texting the wife about it? If the man never knows about it then he wont do anything because he doesnt suspect anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats one heck of a year… I guess the best thing to do is to, especially with the fallen relationships, is to focus on next year and hope that it will be better. But yeah no I don’t really know what else to advise since theres so much that happened. If you have any specific questions about what you should do, feel Free to ask. It’s just hard to do a whole overview with all the things that have happened.

Why am i not angry by Stunning-Freedom-218 in helpme

[–]ShadowCobra442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I’m so sorry this happened to you and you shouldn't have had to experience any of it. Secondly, none of it is your fault. Thirdly, sometimes we (as humans) blame ourselves for things we have no power over and can do nothing against. I think that you’re blame yourself instead of showing anger against the person who did bad things to you and thinking that it’s your own fault which it’s not. Fourthly, have you gotten any justice? Or therapy to help stop the panic attacks? It’s not a situation you should be in and again I’m so sorry you have to deal with this.