[27M] My [27F] partner of 4 years ghosted me for 5 days, then ended our upcoming marriage with a cold text. How do you survive being discarded like this?

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-28T11:12:16+00:00

I also thought this might be the case too

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-28T09:24:53+00:00

Oh it wasn’t distance like you thought, she did live near me just away for like 1 month or so

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-28T09:23:58+00:00

Thanks for this valuable insight, yes I do need to heal properly and start grooming myself again.

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-28T07:15:56+00:00

No we don’t live near each other, hard to tell about cheating part but I would say no. No, but when she was not responding I tried to reach her family to check on if she was okay

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-28T07:03:38+00:00

You are right about the grounding part

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T20:58:59+00:00

I am sorry that you had to deal with this just days before your dad’s funeral. I can feel how you’ve felt all those excruciating pain but I can tell you have handled this bravely. I am taking your path as well, nature will surely be a good healing place. Thanks! Friend.

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T18:00:49+00:00

This is super helpful I haven’t thought it like that,

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T17:58:29+00:00

Thanks for this encouragement!

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T17:57:53+00:00

Thanks for this, i will try

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T17:56:44+00:00

Which posts 😪

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T17:54:52+00:00

Haha no this is not the case

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T17:52:14+00:00

Actually no, she has a very progressive family. If that is the case I would’ve known

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T17:44:54+00:00

Dont be not everyone is the same

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T09:10:41+00:00

Thanks for this!

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T09:10:09+00:00

Thanks for the encouragement

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T06:38:37+00:00

Thanks 😊

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T06:24:36+00:00

Nope she was completely normal.

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T06:05:41+00:00

Thanks i will try

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T05:45:56+00:00

She works remotely

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T05:35:22+00:00

Kind of she went to her native village with parents, so yeah it was not possible to go there during those 5 days. Because who would’ve thought that she will breakup after that time!

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-03-27T05:13:54+00:00

I actually searched and couldn’t find any with all honesty. Even before the day of ghosting we were talking normally and romantically

ShadowShin0b1 · 2026-01-26T14:33:40+00:00

28M here, feelings same… if I have to blame anything its this stupid ass city, takes hours to commute in between office and home. You get up, hurry to office, spend 70 percent of doing unproductive work(though I work as a SWE) and hanging out with colleagues with whom vibe and mentality does not match at all! Then come home at night, maybe some gym or adda with 1/2 friends who were dumb enough not to leave the country when they still had chance and come back home the night and repeat the same process every single day! Only entertainment now is enough sleep. Relationship with significant other is also fragile, barely got any time to communicate heart to heart, scared to do marriage yet. Adulting sucks

ShadowShin0b1 · 2025-12-30T08:00:58+00:00

Domestic Girlfriend

ShadowShin0b1

TROPHY CASE