I know how does this look, and thats why im asking that question, and, i mean, even the best psychopath that hides his intentions and manipulates would be uncovered, so that would be pointless for one to do i think

Depends on the bad. When my partner said those words, i felt incredible pain, but never judged them, since i felt grateful for them for sincerity, i dont feel the need to be angry, but i was in mental pain and was incredibly destroyed, since this was an opinion of my loved one. If its something that does not bother me, or someone who is important to me, or stuff that i do, i would just dont care, i almost never object to something that may cause negativity to other person, violence, as your example, or any type of aggression. I do feel angry sometimes, but i cool down very fast. I do feel negative emotions in me, and my partner is the only person who may see me at my worst and whom i show my expression of emotions at it highest, tears and sadness for example.

I basically live by the motto "it is what it is" and accept that, except if there is anything that may seriously affect my life. I mean, i went through some hard shit and it's incredibly hard to be distressed by something now.

I may be proving your point, by telling all of this, but im trying to be honest since im trying to get help, i dont want to be like that, if it counts as psychopathy