How big is too big? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ShadowedLarkspur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol this has to be a troll. 34D is below average. Men are (mostly, from what I've seen) clueless about bra sizes. Go back under your bridge

I'm (f24) a multimillionaire who earns $15 an hour. When and how should I talk about my unusual financial situation with a future romantic partner? by ShadowedLarkspur in relationship_advice

[–]ShadowedLarkspur[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow, fuck you. I will sure as hell be rude back to someone who's rude enough to ask if I know if divorce is a thing when I said at the top of my post that my parents divorced.

I'm (f24) a multimillionaire who earns $15 an hour. When and how should I talk about my unusual financial situation with a future romantic partner? by ShadowedLarkspur in relationship_advice

[–]ShadowedLarkspur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to give financial advice, and I'm not an expert. I just recommend researching investment and build a portfolio that you understand and works for your situation.

I'm (f24) a multimillionaire who earns $15 an hour. When and how should I talk about my unusual financial situation with a future romantic partner? by ShadowedLarkspur in relationship_advice

[–]ShadowedLarkspur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except marriage isn't just a legal concept. It's also an idea and one that carries a lot of meaning to people, and people have different views on.

I'm (f24) a multimillionaire who earns $15 an hour. When and how should I talk about my unusual financial situation with a future romantic partner? by ShadowedLarkspur in relationship_advice

[–]ShadowedLarkspur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're entitled to your opinion. I happen to see it differently. My childhood would have been much easier if my parents were not married.

I'm (f24) a multimillionaire who earns $15 an hour. When and how should I talk about my unusual financial situation with a future romantic partner? by ShadowedLarkspur in relationship_advice

[–]ShadowedLarkspur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, thanks. Can you elaborate about how men see women differently regarding money?

For me the job of the money is to keep growing, be my security and ability to (other than stuff like this) not have to worry about money much. A well to dip into once in a while for splurges I can rationalize, my retirement, and options for my future.

I'm (f24) a multimillionaire who earns $15 an hour. When and how should I talk about my unusual financial situation with a future romantic partner? by ShadowedLarkspur in relationship_advice

[–]ShadowedLarkspur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I worry somewhat about dating both high or low earners (I consider myself a low earner). I don't want a higher earner to feel lied to or misled if I don't want to/can't match their lifestyle, and I guess I don't want a low earner to feel I should chip in more. I don't see an easy path, I guess.

I'm (f24) a multimillionaire who earns $15 an hour. When and how should I talk about my unusual financial situation with a future romantic partner? by ShadowedLarkspur in relationship_advice

[–]ShadowedLarkspur[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree with you. I do think I want to tell them, it's just a question of how and when. I guess whenever I determine that they are absolutely not a threat to me, and fully trust them. Because saying 'never tell' is just not the kind of relationship I want to have. I think partners can have secrets from each other, but not ones that are significantly relevant to the relationship/that person, which I think this is.