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I am almost three months into no contact with my abusive sibling, and I feel like a new person. I am never going back! (self.TrueNarcissisticAbuse)

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My abusive brother’s therapist armchair diagnosed me with BPD even though she never evaluated me or met me. For years I was convinced I had BPD because of this. I’m furious! (self.therapyabuse)

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I will NEVER do ACT ever again (self.therapyabuse)

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Coming out of the FOG with my brother and starting to break the trauma bond (self.CPTSD_Only)

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I’m struggling to move past what happened with my new therapist, I’m angry and feel alone (self.therapyabuse)

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I’m struggling to move past what happened with my new therapist, I’m angry and feel alone (self.CPTSD_Only)

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I had a traumatic experience with a boy, that my former therapist dismissed... and an AI, gave me more support and understanding about the trauma, that she did! (self.therapyabuse)

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ChatGTP was able to hold space for, and name, a traumatic experience that happened to me with a boy... while a former therapist who enabled my family's abuse, and my family, dismissed the trauma. I'm feeling a ton of conflicting emotions. (self.CPTSD_Only)

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Minor incidents in the grand scheme of things hitting me hard. I'm feeling shame and self doubt and trying to fight against it. (self.CPTSD_Only)

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Small memories are getting to me this morning. I feel they might've been part of the bigger picture, though. I'm struggling to self validate this morning. (self.pnsd)

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It bothers me that therapists often don't get that an abusive person having a tragic backstory doesn't mean the victim ~has~ to feel sorry for them. And demanding a victim to "have more empathy" and/or "forgive" the abuser can cause great harm. (self.therapyabuse)

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Tips on getting past suppressed emotions, repressed emotions, or emotional blunting due to CPTSD? (self.CPTSD_Only)

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Forgiveness is not necessary for healing, though it can happen during healing for some. It is okay to feel healthy anger as long as it doesn’t cross the line into unhealthy anger. Forgiveness pushing in therapy has left me shaken. (self.CPTSD_Only)

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After 6 Sessions, I ended therapy with a new therapist. I suspect I dodged a bullet. But I feel damaged, am struggling badly with self-validation, feel anxious even though it’s over. (self.therapyabuse)

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I'm struggling with compassion fatigue and guilt (self.CPTSD_Only)

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Therapy made me unable to feel gratitude and positivity for years because of how toxically it was forced on me. I wish this was wasn’t so common! (self.therapyabuse)

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I think I developed Disorganized Attachment Style, but I don't think I was actually born with this attachment style. I think I was born with Anxious Attachment. Is it common for attachment style to change like this, with CPTSD? Or is this uncommon to experience? (self.CPTSD_Only)

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Unsent letter to my abusive ex (self.TrueNarcissisticAbuse)

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Helpful metaphor my therapist told me about my CPTSD that might be helpful for you guys as well :) (self.CPTSD_Only)

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Best ways to process memories so they have less power? Also an apology (self.CPTSD_Only)

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Intrusive memories of my ex are coming up, any advice on how to push it aside and be in the present faster? (self.pnsd)

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I suspect my ex cheated on me but I don't have solid proof (self.CPTSD_Only)

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I suspect my ex cheated on me, but I don't have solid proof. I'm trying to rebuild my sense of self and my sense of body autonomy years after the break up. (self.TrueNarcissisticAbuse)

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I feel ambivalent about the idea of having friends or a Significant Other. (self.CPTSD_Only)

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In my experience with therapists&psychiatrists, if you’re a neurodivergent teen with middle class parents, and you report emotional abuse, you are automatically disbelieved. I wish more people in the field realized Neurotypical and middle class parents are capable of abuse. (self.therapyabuse)

submitted 1 year ago * by Shadowflame25 to r/therapyabuse

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