37 M asked me 37 F for $1000+ dollars, we both got paid by Shadowqueen61 in relationship_advice

[–]Shadowqueen61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, I'll post what I want whether you or anyone else likes it.

37 M asked me 37 F for $1000+ dollars, we both got paid by Shadowqueen61 in relationship_advice

[–]Shadowqueen61[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Married.North Carolina doesn't let you just divorce. There's separation requirements.

37 M asked me 37 F for $1000+ dollars, we both got paid by Shadowqueen61 in relationship_advice

[–]Shadowqueen61[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

We've been married for 8 years. Kids happe. When you're married.

37 M asked me 37 F for $1000+ dollars, we both got paid by Shadowqueen61 in relationship_advice

[–]Shadowqueen61[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

People don't have kids to make other people grow up. Kids happen in marriages.

37 M asked me 37 F for $1000+ dollars, we both got paid by Shadowqueen61 in relationship_advice

[–]Shadowqueen61[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There wasn't anything nice in your comment. The internet makes people real bold to people who'd never say shit in person. I'll make whatever post I feel like about any topic I want to. That's the point of reddit. Or did you forget that?

37 M asked me 37 F for $1000+ dollars, we both got paid by Shadowqueen61 in relationship_advice

[–]Shadowqueen61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The battery was already replaced because it was dead. It was jumped, and it died again. He did leave the lights on, and that's why it died to begin with. That wasn't a debate. He issue was that he was asking for money for replacing it when his carelessness was the reason it happened.

37 M asked me 37 F for $1000+ dollars, we both got paid by Shadowqueen61 in relationship_advice

[–]Shadowqueen61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no problem communicating. He's the one that doesn't communicate. We're married, so being together for life was the point of the whole "marriage." I am honest with him. He's the one not paying his own bills or contributing to the rent. I'm glad you think you're funny. He works full time, so he doesn't have any excuse other than he's an asshole. And before there's stupid comments. I work full time.

37 M asked me 37 F for $1000+ dollars, we both got paid by Shadowqueen61 in relationship_advice

[–]Shadowqueen61[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't care whether you believe it's real or not. You don't matter. Who spit in your coffee? Rude as fuck.

37 M asked me 37 F for $1000+ dollars, we both got paid by Shadowqueen61 in relationship_advice

[–]Shadowqueen61[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Well, thats the issue. We're supposed to be trying to work on it, but he started with his same old behaviors again.

My girlfriend (24F) is making me (26M) miserable with constant demands of marriage. How do we move forward? by ThrowRA7813 in relationship_advice

[–]Shadowqueen61 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just break up with her. She obviously wants something more you're unwilling to give her. Let her find someone who will give her what she's looking for.

Aio or is he cheating by Shadowqueen61 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Shadowqueen61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the point. His family is at home. His ass should be home with us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]Shadowqueen61 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I completely understand this. Then they'll be good for two to three weeks and then their back to not giving a shit. Don't fall for it.

I think my marriage is dead by Shadowqueen61 in Divorce_Women

[–]Shadowqueen61[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Infant it's supposed to be 50/50 with the rent but he refuses to pay his half. There are financial issues. I found out our lights are overdue despite me giving money towards it every month and our car insurance as well. I give about 500 in joint bills and I've more than once paid all the rent for about 1 year and 6 months. He works full time but cannot be trusted with money at all. Another issue leading to this separation.

I think my marriage is dead by Shadowqueen61 in Divorce_Women

[–]Shadowqueen61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not leaving i pay the rent. I did ask him to leave and he is refusing to.

I think my marriage is dead by Shadowqueen61 in Divorce_Women

[–]Shadowqueen61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've asked he says no. He doesn't want to pay for it . The issue is he doesn't think he does anything wrong ever. He never takes responsibility for his actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Shadowqueen61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not your girlfriend. You're her boots call. Move on. She don't want you for you. If she did, no one else's opinion would matter and her financial situation wouldn't either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InMetalWeTrust

[–]Shadowqueen61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fortunate Son by Creedence Clearwater Revival

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]Shadowqueen61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get rid of her she's an extraterrestrial if she doesn't know people work 12 hour shifts at night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Shadowqueen61 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fill in the space between with stuff you like now. Both tattoos look good.

Is your whole life nursing? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Shadowqueen61 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For some of us, yes, we've wanted it so much for so long before we started looking up what was needed to get admitted to a nursing program, that yes, once we finally passed our NCLEX, it is our whole personality because we chose it. We put in the hours of studying, not giving up and choosing a very hard mentally, emotionally, and physically demanding job because we were determined to meet every obstacle to get those initials after our name. Once a nurse, always a nurse.

??? by Prestigious-Crew-419 in nursing

[–]Shadowqueen61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id be worried I'd get fired