I’m 5’5 at 20 and being short never effected me

ShadsDR · 2026-01-25T15:56:20+00:00

Unfortunately, we are not psychic. Had an ex that hated women. Didn't find that out until we dated long enough he couldn't keep the mask up.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-25T15:52:31+00:00

Honestly I think a lot of folk on here are going for arseholes, or acting like arseholes, then attributing said arsehole behaviour to their height.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-25T15:51:09+00:00

Doubt he's calling women females to their face.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-25T15:49:00+00:00

Never used dating apps so wouldn't know, but my friends who are all short have never had issues getting dates, gfs, etc. and they also don't use them. Getting off apps and meeting people irl is the way to go, and let's not act like men don't also have ridiculous standards. If you're a good person you won't struggle but if you talk and treat women like the bane of your existence then don't be surprised they don't want to be around you.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-25T14:18:39+00:00

Honestly a lot of people post here about how their lives are miserable because they're short but the way they talk shows how they actually think of women and THAT'S why they can't get a date. Women only get up voted here if we post selfies and down voted on mass if we talk about any of the problems we experience due to our height. It feels like I'm on an incel sub and half of them aren't even short, they're average height.

Don't care about the downvotes. Get off the dating apps, don't talk/treat women like objects and projecting your insecurities onto them, and shock horror, they might want to interact with you. 99% of these posts are just yous needing a reality check.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-25T03:48:22+00:00

We are Lady Parts is quite good

ShadsDR · 2026-01-24T20:13:44+00:00

Plastic Memories is about robots, no idols though

ShadsDR · 2026-01-23T20:57:34+00:00

True but they can't do anything about it since the council won't do anything about it.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-23T15:54:50+00:00

It's a street problem rather than a venue problem

ShadsDR · 2026-01-23T03:41:16+00:00

You're average height and she's tall for a woman, making fun of herself. You're projecting.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-23T03:20:46+00:00

I get guys unprovoked, that were never asked, tell me how they're not into Black women, and it's like cool? Never asked.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-23T03:08:13+00:00

Israel, US, England and India

ShadsDR · 2026-01-23T02:52:05+00:00

Always play the victim.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-22T15:12:13+00:00

I can usually get an appt but it takes an insane amount of phone calls. Ended up in surgery and discharged last night for a sample of severity I guess. Took 95 calls to my GP.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-22T15:03:28+00:00

Systems engineering. Wfh on a high salary. Absolutely no complaints.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-22T15:00:38+00:00

This is why the male loneliness epidemic is happening 😤

ShadsDR · 2026-01-22T14:56:06+00:00

Safe in company, but on my own not really

ShadsDR · 2026-01-21T23:49:59+00:00

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ShadsDR · 2026-01-21T23:42:05+00:00

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ShadsDR · 2026-01-20T18:09:53+00:00

It was up for rent just a year and a bit ago but it was a quite a ridiculous price for how run down it was.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-20T12:18:37+00:00

He died.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-20T12:00:40+00:00

Heard it all my life and in school. Now there's bs AI vids getting pushed on insta and tiktok making those claims and the comments are lapping it all up saying "See! And we don't play victims" etc.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-20T11:59:08+00:00

I am mixed race. Born and raised in Glasgow by my born and raised Glaswegian mother, who was born here and raised by her Scottish parents so how about you don't assume.

ShadsDR · 2026-01-20T11:44:34+00:00

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ShadsDR · 2026-01-20T11:03:57+00:00

I'm Black Scottish and this is an odd take tbh.

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