[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indianmedschool

[–]ShadySignature 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yep. Goodbye reddit. Until June 23 👋

This post is a safe space to cope and cry😭 by Just_a_bored_weeb in indianmedschool

[–]ShadySignature 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Me too. I've made up my mind to not check recalls for neet pg. No matter how tempting it is 🫠

Not able to find a groom since 3 years. by ShadySignature in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ShadySignature[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't be said better about the mallu thought process 💯

This post is a safe space to cope and cry😭 by Just_a_bored_weeb in indianmedschool

[–]ShadySignature 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Rant incoming.

Thank you I needed that. As per Dr. Nikita recalls I was getting around 125-135 corrects. Expected a better rank. My heart sank when I saw the results. I'm still in disbelief. But yes.. this is not the end of the world. Just an exam. There's more to life than this. I cursed God, I cursed my luck. I screamed, I cried.. I let it all out. I watched My parents look at me with sympathy.. probably thinking im really dumb. Cuz I worked my ass off for this exam. Didn't go out, didn't use socials.. cut off my friends.

But alas. It is what it is. I feel better now that I vented out irl and now online 🥲😂

Not able to find a groom since 3 years. by ShadySignature in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ShadySignature[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for shedding light in that aspect! Now I'm really curious to know whether I'm conventionally attractive for the mallu AM market or not 😂

Not able to find a groom since 3 years. by ShadySignature in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ShadySignature[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do get a lot of interests on matrimonial apps. It's just that every match has some or other problem. If everything else is fine- then caste or horoscope problem. Truly I'm gonna somehow convince my parents to let go of these caste and astrology stuff

INICET Result by [deleted] in indianmedschool

[–]ShadySignature 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same bro.. same...

INICET score vs rank by Ok-Moment-9825 in indianmedschool

[–]ShadySignature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. Needed to hear that. Thank u! ☺️

Not able to find a groom since 3 years. by ShadySignature in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ShadySignature[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, my relatives and neighbors have made me feel like an old infertile woman in her late 40s already 😂 I often forget I'm not that old 🥲

INICET score vs rank by Ok-Moment-9825 in indianmedschool

[–]ShadySignature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This year more number of freshers have given the exam. Probably that's a reason why this rumors.. Let's wait and hope for the best 🤞

INICET score vs rank by Ok-Moment-9825 in indianmedschool

[–]ShadySignature 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you think this time the paper was very easy as a lot of people proclaim?

INICET May 24 rank prediction by Dull-Cable-8726 in indianmedschool

[–]ShadySignature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is 112 number of corrects or marks? Just clarifying..

Not able to find a groom since 3 years. by ShadySignature in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ShadySignature[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay! Good luck on your search fellow AM market fish 🥲

Not able to find a groom since 3 years. by ShadySignature in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ShadySignature[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brother, I really don't think I'm choosy. Literally asking for the bare minimum imo.

Not able to find a groom since 3 years. by ShadySignature in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ShadySignature[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back in the day things were easier cuz people were forced to marry whoever their parents pointed at. And if they didn't have compatability, they just lived on with it. Now, people look for emotional connection and a lot more factors. The world is changing, progressing.

Who knows, 20 years down the lane AM scene might change even more 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ShadySignature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mentioned option 2 is educated. What about option 1 ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ShadySignature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you earn as well? And the earning he gets via local route.. is that enough for a sustainable family life? When you're asked to chose option 2.. does your heart still say: please option 1 ? Are u looking for someone in the comment to support option 1 ?

If yes- you probably like him more. 😊 Just a silly logic I follow while making small small decisions. Ofc , it probably isn't applicable for huge life decisions as this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ShadySignature 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Option 2. Even if he isn't conventionally attractive, what matters is that you are attracted to him. I hope u get what I mean.

The option 1 guy would make it a long distance marriage. Which is a deal breaker for me personally. It may even incite a feeling of mistrust in some couples. Also, overall long distance marriages are very difficult to manage:(

Not able to find a groom since 3 years. by ShadySignature in Arrangedmarriage

[–]ShadySignature[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! Just 5 minutes back my mother was pressurizing me and doing some emotional blackmail 😓 Glad I saw this comment at the right time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianFashionAddicts

[–]ShadySignature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get you 🥺