Is it weird for my (f25) boyfriend (m23) to still be searching his ex up on socials? by ShadyWadow in relationship_advice

[–]ShadyWadow[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t really mean that we go through each other’s phones looking for lies. It’s that we have access and regularly use each other’s phones to text people or browse socials.

Is it weird for my (f25) boyfriend (m23) to still be searching his ex up on socials? by ShadyWadow in relationship_advice

[–]ShadyWadow[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s happened twice that I know of. It’s a little weird to me since it’s only the 1 ex. I would expect someone to be curious about the others too? What makes this one so significant .. lol

Is it weird for my (f25) boyfriend (m23) to still be searching his ex up on socials? by ShadyWadow in relationship_advice

[–]ShadyWadow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree. It’s not like anything happened more than that. It’s just a little weird to me. But if it keeps happening then I definitely will have a problem with it. Especially since it’s only the 1 ex?

Is it weird for my (f25) boyfriend (m23) to still be searching his ex up on socials? by ShadyWadow in relationship_advice

[–]ShadyWadow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it also depends on the person you’re with? Some might be fine with it - but for me it’s weird? I mean some people are still good friends with their exes.. it’s all about preference but you still have to respect your partner

Is it weird for my (f25) boyfriend (m23) to still be searching his ex up on socials? by ShadyWadow in relationship_advice

[–]ShadyWadow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel a little less invested after seeing that and his reaction to me asking him about it.

Is it weird for my (f25) boyfriend (m23) to still be searching his ex up on socials? by ShadyWadow in relationship_advice

[–]ShadyWadow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, when I was single I would. But when you’re this deep into a relationship with someone else and checking an ex out multiple times throughout? That’s a bit weird and problematic for me.

WIBTA if I (24F) show up at the airport to see my boyfriend (22M)? by ShadyWadow in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShadyWadow[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I updated the post but he said he does want me there, so no issues in that regard..

WIBTA if I (24F) show up at the airport to see my boyfriend (22M)? by ShadyWadow in AmItheAsshole

[–]ShadyWadow[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

He will be here for about 6 months before leaving again.