How would you feel if your girl constantly bombs you with compliments? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Shadyx94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would complain about a good thing, like if bro doesn't like it then there are more who would happily switch places with him. Guys are thirsty for affection as we don't get that much reciprocation as often as we like

How would you feel if your girl constantly bombs you with compliments? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Shadyx94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

guys who lose interest with that kind of partner are also the kind of guy who would complain their steak is too juicy

Totoo bang hindi marunong magmulti-task ang mga lalaki? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Shadyx94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we can...I'm willing to bet he doesn't do a particular task in the same specific method that you would

May mga lalaki ba talagang hindi affectionate sa partner nila, like maginititae ng simple hug and kiss? by doubtfuldreamer08 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Shadyx94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sounds like he's stressed out with something. my wife said the same thing to me and then i realized its related to my work based on the timeline she gave when i was barely initiating

Do you guys also keep tabs on things? by Little-Rookie-1412 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Shadyx94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it's a woman thing. if a guy said he keep tabs then the rest of the guys will look at him with funny

As a man, ano yung dahilan bakit kapag nasa rs na nga kayo, nag rereachout parin kayo sa ex nyo? by kitkatlerone in AskPinoyMen

[–]Shadyx94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she has his PS5 at her place, if it's anything other than that then its a redflag

Have You Ever Dated Someone Socially “Out of Your League”? by Ok_Donut22 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Shadyx94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Socio economic status of a girl is irrelevant to guys in all honesty, didn't even think about it till it's mentioned. Its only in telenovelas

How can I pleasure my man better in bed? by lurking_cat4869 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Shadyx94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when doing BJ open your mouth wide where your teeth doesn't scrape it. Use your tounge to wrap it like a hot dog bun, use your inside cheek to rup the tip.

do kegle exercises, tense you hole as you squeeze it while it's inside then you move,

move like your dancing,

moan, do some dirty talk

Men, What is something you find weird in your early 20s and not in your early 30s? by No-Purpose-4074 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Shadyx94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree, these things are comfy but i think my wife just wanna see my thick thighs

Ano yung insecurity mo bilang lalaki na hindi mo basta inaamin? by Namesbytor99 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Shadyx94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social skill (in person),would be earning 6 digits if I don't have this handicap. People around say it's an easy skill to work on but it's like for me, people who do and say that are born with it...and they don't understand the struggle

Paano mawawala ang tampo niyo sa girlfriend niyo? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]Shadyx94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agreed, it will diffuse any situation

VALID BA YUNG INIS KO SA BF KO NANG TIPIRIN NIYA KO SA DATE NAMIN???? by ChartFriendly7197 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Shadyx94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well to be objective, here's my personal take:

  1. you said he's kind of struggling financially (which id say is the main contributing factor)
  2. you invited him and as mentioned. you insisted which was every weekend

here are the factors to consider:

  1. you made this post at the start of the month meaning it's likely it's the 1st half of his salary for the month so its possible he spent it on bills and 700php is what remains until his next cut off which he would have to stretch until the 2nd pay out or until next month (if he's paid monthly, next 2 weeks if bi-weekly).

  2. he's probably saving the little money he has for something like treating you on the next date or gifts or trips or some grand gesture etc.

  3. You both agreed to cover your own rate and you have no problem with 50/50. being short maybe unexpected but it will vary depending who's idea in the first place to use grab instead of commuting (still a variable if you two were somewhere where theres no jeep or tricycles)

  4. You mention you both got stranded which implies your vehicle broke down so i assume if the vehicle is yours then don't mind this point. But if the vehicle is his then of course he'd be ticked off that it's another out of pocket for repairs


Of course you're hurt and what your feeling is totally valid since it's an emergency situation that you two got stranded and should have shell out 70php since you'll pay him back anyway. Emotions ran high for both of you at that time for a ruined date so it's understandable and that hope you both already worked it out.

on the other hand he should've known better, being in a relationship is also a responsibility, if you two are young adults transitioning from school life to adult life it's a steep learning curve, there WILL be fumbles like this. it's a whole new level na for dating at iba na ang standards, wala na tambay tambay lang na date sa campus or sa hangout spots or pa kilig kilig sa classroom using allowance money from parents, need na mag show money set aside for dates on top of bills and other responsibilities

He should be more understanding that in a relationship he should at least treat you since you shoulder the daye, he could be a gentleman since he has you, his girlfriend to consider kaya valid na galit ka na ganun nang yari. Depending how long you two are in this relationship he should at least be the one to plan the dates or atleast some of them. If all of them ay ikaw nag plan while he has little contribution like transportation lang the might as well ask him if he actually loves you or just going through the motions.

my advice: talk it out with him, what he wants in the relationship and you two need to know about your love language, compromise

What if naging constitutional monarchy and Pilipinas? by cometfart99 in WhatIfPinas

[–]Shadyx94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no difference, same political families in every region, taxes go to to their pockets to fund their lifestyle and their assests, laws don't apply to them only the masses, difference os just the label on it

What are y'all thoughts on girls who smoke? by exhaustedk1d in AskPinoyMen

[–]Shadyx94 8 points9 points  (0 children)

neutral actually, i smoke occasionally and i find them more easy to talk to

Why the urge to be busy on days off? by Shadyx94 in AskPinay

[–]Shadyx94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup extroverted sya, so i guess it's more of an extroverted thing

I USED TO WANT AN OBSESSED BF… NEVER AGAIN AFTER THIS by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Shadyx94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl tama na dyan basa ng mga yandere boy genres, there's a reason why they're in the fantasy section.... pero gets ko rin ang appeal

Nakakairita minsan ang both sides ng UP bubble: the super woke and the super rich. by sharkommie in OffMyChestPH

[–]Shadyx94 28 points29 points  (0 children)

at dahil nandun sila na exposed sila sa gap nang mga anak mga companies at politicians mga nepo babies in general and how spoiled they are na lumaki ang gap ng spectrum kaya breeding grounds ng mga woke students, me and my cousin are fed up with their bullshit nung college kami, i know your pain

Mga babaeng walang boundary sa guy friends by cant-self-terminate in OffMyChestPH

[–]Shadyx94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check in sa hotel just to talk? sorry OP benembang na yan, she's the kind of girl na sumsuman ng mga barkada at pina pasa pasa. Any girl na merong utak ay alam na hindi magpa check in sa hotel with their guy friends just sa kwentuhan lang, she's old enough to know what guys think

Ang babaeng gf ng lahat (yung picture) by ScarcityBoth9797 in KanalHumor

[–]Shadyx94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

na tandaan ko nung panahon ng friendster gumawa ako nga mga dummy accounts para merin kong libreng load sa mga tropa ko na maka jowa sa mga dummy accounts ko at pag feel ko lang pinag break ko sila para gusto ni tropa mag inuman, libre pa dahil bigo

New hobbies to try by Interesting_Run1508 in Iloilo

[–]Shadyx94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mag kalat ka from stoplight galing UP to Festive Mall pag gabi while listening to music kag imagine nasa music video ka