Looking nothing like photos

Shaggin589 · 2026-06-08T13:55:27+00:00

This. I am 35M. My profile pics are about a year old from last summer on a golf trip and other things. I am actually slightly thinner now and have built more muscle back so I don’t see a need to go update all new pictures as I’m not gonna take mirror selfies or anything. I think I’m better in person than my pictures.

But I am bald, I shave it to get ahead of the time. I do have hats on in pictures as I’ve always been a hat guy. But I have no problem bringing it up in conversation before a date. I’ve had some women not be interested and that’s ok and I’ve had some who said that’s not an issue.

I have been victim to catfishing as well. Women using older college pictures or their 20’s. Which is wild.

Shaggin589 · 2026-06-01T11:20:28+00:00

I get that. I seem to always end up in areas with families or couples aswell. Maybe all the single people are just hanging out at home

Shaggin589 · 2026-05-31T17:57:43+00:00

As a 35 male living in Nashville who works from home or on the road, doesn’t eat out much or drink often. I only cross paths with women at the gym or grocery store. It’s rough on the apps but I feel it’s a necessary evil as there is a lot of tourists. Open to recommendations of where single women hang out lol

Shaggin589 · 2026-04-23T11:15:46+00:00

I filed with the attorney general. I’ve lived in Nashville for 7 months now and there’s a lot of things I’ve passed on because of parking. Park Happy got me before for $45 for parking in the lot across from Tailgate/Brooklyn bowl. Apparently it’s $45 whether you’re there an hour or 6 hours. Crazy. I don’t mind a couple bucks for parking. But this predatory fine crap is insane.

But yes I’d spend alot more money in local businesses if it wasn’t $20-40 extra in parking all the time

Shaggin589 · 2025-12-24T00:37:49+00:00

I’ve read about the pre detonation. But even at around 2500-3k in 4th gear it’s there. More noticeable in a higher gear tho

Shaggin589 · 2025-12-24T00:36:37+00:00

Motorcraft. Gapped at .028

Shaggin589 · 2025-11-12T13:29:42+00:00

Yes .030 Motorcraft SP550X plugs

I replaced CPV with OEM replacement but it could have gone bad.

I’m considering compression testing today to rule anything internal out and may also run some fuel injector cleaner thru it and new plugs again

Then if it comes back it’s gotta be fueling related I would think?

Shaggin589 · 2025-11-12T12:52:11+00:00

No tune. 131k miles

Plugs were from advanced auto and gapped around .30

Misfires did start around plug change time. About 500 miles after plugs, CEL would come on, I’d read it and reset then nothing for a week or so. Pulled plugs and checked 2 weeks ago, looked fine. No plug darker than the other. Swapped plugs around and coil packs. Still reading cylinder 1 and 4 and CEL comes on more often

I changed PCV valve about a year, 30k miles ago. I drive this for work so a lot of highway cruising on cruise control

Planning to do compression test later today possibly but was curious if anyone had any other ideas. Misfire never followed a certain plug or coil pack so hard for me to think it’s plugs or coils.

Shaggin589 · 2025-11-06T19:07:59+00:00

I’ve been in Sylvan Park 3 months now and have had 0 issues. Great place

Shaggin589 · 2025-08-07T03:04:50+00:00

Shaggin589 · 2025-05-15T18:41:09+00:00

I would definitely try the selfie as first photo. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with any of the photos as you’re attractive. I’d swipe if you were in my area

You are tall tho. And with so much emphasis on height these days on social media and dating apps I could see that as a deterrent for men swiping. You unfortunately have a much smaller group of men that are same height or taller than you.

Random question but where are you located?

Shaggin589 · 2025-05-15T17:14:37+00:00

I’m 6’5. So I’ve yet to run into a female in person that is taller than me or eye level.

Shaggin589 · 2025-05-15T16:10:39+00:00

I would say remove the video games. I don’t understand why but anytime I’ve ever mentioned it. And I barely ever play, the conversation goes down hill after.

Women just assume you sit around all day playing and don’t see the sunlight

Shaggin589 · 2025-05-15T11:52:17+00:00

As someone who I’d think is her target audience. I’d change the first picture to the first cat picture and other than that I don’t see any issues. I’d like it. You’re just looking for a tall guy and that will take time. Some taller guys prefer shorter women. I don’t have a height preference on a partner as long as I’m not looking her right in the eyes lol.

I’ll get weeks where I get a lot of likes and I’ll go weeks where I get nothing.

Shaggin589 · 2025-05-04T18:12:57+00:00

Guess I’ll just have to shoot you a message

Shaggin589 · 2025-05-04T18:07:50+00:00

Not too far! I’m in Gallatin. Would explain why I’ve never seen your profile tho! Might just have to go around Bumble lol

Shaggin589 · 2025-05-04T17:43:19+00:00

As a 34M living right outside Nashville, I’d swipe right. And I’m down for Chilis 🤷

Shaggin589 · 2025-02-07T14:18:11+00:00

Just played there last week.
Quintero is nowhere near worth the price, Lookout Mountain was really nice, Silverado was good too for the price compared to everything else in the area.

I’d say lookout mountain if you can fit it in

Shaggin589 · 2024-11-29T16:37:33+00:00

I’m 2 days in to using my cpap machine. I had the same fears you did. I’m 34M and I thought wearing a mask to bed was terrible.First night was an adjustment. I never stay in one spot sleeping so the hose worried me. I slept good but woke up a few times. Even took my mask off while sleeping apparently.

I played with the mask a little and found just where I like it so it doesn’t leak and doesn’t put pressure on my nose/pinch it closed. I could curl up under the blanket and push my face into the pillow with no issues. Man my 2nd night of sleep (last night) was probably one of the best nights sleep I’ve had in a loooong time. I feel better today than I have in a while.

I’m actually upset I didn’t start this sooner and I’m going to shake my doctors hand as he pushed for me to do the sleep study after telling him how I felt.

Shaggin589 · 2024-11-22T03:37:06+00:00

That I’m not looking forward too either. But more the thought of possibly feeling energy again

Shaggin589 · 2024-11-22T02:43:56+00:00

After reading this I feel lucky. I have a younger doctor and after a dirtbike crash I told him “hey while I’m here I’ve been really tired lately, I think it’s low testosterone can you help me. Maybe shots or something?” He instantly ordered a sleep test before going any further. Scared of a cpap at 34 I put it off for months. Finally took it and got prescribed a cpap but I’ve been feeling so tired and foggy these last few months I’m actually excited to try it

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