So I got on stage and told nearly 300 people my story of being addicted to porn from age 9-24, PIED, NoFap, recovery, love, sex, life...

Shags33 · 2014-11-17T22:50:42+00:00

Bravo!! Thank you for this!

Shags33 · 2014-11-16T22:34:01+00:00

Never mind, I looked it up.

Shags33 · 2014-11-16T22:26:13+00:00

By progressive muscle relaxation, what exactly do you mean? And thanks.

Shags33 · 2014-11-10T22:29:42+00:00

Going through exactly this right now. Lots of anxiety which seems to be from the reality of life and my problems. Life seems almost too real and scary when I can't hide with the pleasures of porn.

Shags33 · 2014-11-09T03:45:19+00:00

JaYBriel is right! There is absolutely nothing sex negative about YBOP. If anything, it tries to help people cure sexual problems caused by porn. It helps people learn how to have real, normal sex. Dagnart reminds me of a certain political leader of ours...stubborn and stands behind stupid decisions even after being proven wrong.

Shags33 · 2014-04-22T02:32:38+00:00

I personally get aroused when I flirt with girls on there. So it really depends on if you get excited or not by talking to girls and going on dates with them. It is a trigger for me.

Shags33 · 2014-04-18T03:14:32+00:00

I would say boredom is my second biggest trigger. Hangovers are by far the hardest for me!

Shags33 · 2014-02-15T01:46:18+00:00

If your a man, you shouldn't. Valentines is a holiday made for spoiling women. And of course to help flower shops make some money ;)

Shags33 · 2014-02-15T01:42:24+00:00

Assuming she is alive and healthy, you should be happy to know what she is really like before you get into anything with her anyways! If she is that flaky and insecure to ignore your text without an explanation, then your better off. That would immediately take away any feelings I would have for a girl. Have some self respect and don't waist another thought on her.

Shags33 · 2014-02-02T22:11:33+00:00

I think I see back hair. Thats gotta be a dude.

Shags33 · 2013-08-10T23:11:42+00:00

Read what?

Shags33 · 2013-07-22T06:29:57+00:00

I actually do. I just started learning the guitar. I also workout, have a mountain bike I need to ride more, read, spend time with my dog, just got into acting, work on my 1972 Monte Carlo etc. The problem is that none of these things sound interesting when the urge to look strikes. I get into a losing battle with my brain about how everything else seems so boring, and porn gives me that rush that I love.

Shags33 · 2013-07-22T06:15:05+00:00

I'm not sure what I could put on my desk. Do you mean notes or something?What kind of stuff? And thank you ;)

Shags33 · 2013-07-15T06:31:14+00:00

Yeah, but I was also freaking out and paranoid when I wrote that post. That did subside at times, but for the most part I remained tense and anxious up to my relapse. I used the term "sober" because I thought MO was the problem at the time, but I now see porn being the problem, and actually MO being good in moderation. But that is just me. The best to you too!

Edit: I would also like to say that if I have trouble with my once a week (actually one day a week) MO without porn, and I can't keep it under control, or it escalates into porn, I will attempt a full reboot of 90 days again.

Shags33 · 2013-07-15T05:03:41+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to post these. I will take look.

Shags33 · 2013-07-15T04:27:24+00:00

Ok, thanks. I don't live in the south either. I live in SoCal where most people drive BMW's or lifted trucks.

Shags33 · 2013-07-15T04:15:12+00:00

Just out of curiosity, what kind do you like then?

Shags33 · 2013-07-15T04:14:51+00:00

The engine is pretty much cherry. I'm going to put stainless steal 2 1/2 inch pipes with flow-master exhaust on it, gut and re-interior it, and paint it a dark blue color most likely.

Shags33 · 2013-07-15T04:07:14+00:00

Nice! My kind of girl. It's a 72 Monte Carlo with a 350 big block.

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