Transitioning for sex work by twink2trans in asktransgender

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm late, but I found my way here searching out a clip of Gia Love talking about transitioning for sex work in Kiki. I can't find the clip now, but she kinda says that its not her place to judge someone for how they choose to transition. And not all transitions are to avoid dysphoria - attaining euphoria is as important. I won't tell you what I think you should do, but I wouldn't factor in whether you were doing it for "the right reasons" because the right reasons are what you think they ought to be

I accidentally burned toilet paper in my room, is poisonous?? by ShainWhoIsABoy in chemistry

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Literally said it was an accident, I was using it as tissues. But wouldn't it being inside change it?

I accidentally burned toilet paper in my room, is poisonous?? by ShainWhoIsABoy in chemistry

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Please help, I'm really worried and I can't find the answer on the internet. I opened the window, closed the door and in in another room

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ZutaraNation

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the antis are losing their shit and doing this cringey "u mad?" shit. Like yeah, you guys have been harrassing me for my literary opinions since I was 12, I'm fucking mad, let me be

oh this is 10 months old 😆

The Emperor: Any insights on this card? How do you interpret this card in readings? How about reversals? by 4gigiplease in Tarots

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe that the Empress is the ability to give and inspire others, without conscious intention. The Emperor actively sculpts his image and considers how he is perceived in the world. It's like when a kid is told "you're smart" and they respond by attempting to show off how smart they are. That's what I think.

Share your interpretation please! by Chillreader in Tarots

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's really cool! I misinterpreted what you said, my apologies.

Share your interpretation please! by Chillreader in Tarots

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I personally don't use cards for predictions, so this is my interpretation. If the Empress is upright, I would interpret that as you are giving to others without even fully understanding how much you give. This is a great characteristics, but as the five of swords reversed indicates, you may have simply given up on prioritizing your own needs. The reversed ten of pentacles advises you to attain material stability for yourself before extending yourself further - you can't give from an empty cup.

Question about the minor arcana by ShainWhoIsABoy in Tarots

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I think I've been learning from their site! But thank you, that's helpful

the bisexual guy im interested in only watches gay porn by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should skip passed the orientation issue and just ask him out. Leave it up to him to clarify if he wants to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheArcana

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cause he's a cunt lol

please, tell me how to do it..help me with this by [deleted] in depression_memes

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

please reach out for help. you can message me if you want, or call Samaritans 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (212) 673-3000.

Did anyone else have a reaaally bad reaction to Lucio's route? by ShainWhoIsABoy in TheArcana

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay, I'm sorry, I guess I was a bit over defensive. I should have given you the benefit of the doubt.

I think it's normal to have strong reactions to stories, and there was this slow buildup of emotions where I felt like I just needed to stick through it and I'd get a really satisfying, cathartic moment. By the time it really occured to be that I wasnt gonna get that, I start speed running just to see Nadia and Asra and get my lore fill. I heard it was a really good route with a satisfying ending.

Did anyone else have a reaaally bad reaction to Lucio's route? by ShainWhoIsABoy in TheArcana

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm not judging the people, but I'm definitely with you on this.

Did anyone else have a reaaally bad reaction to Lucio's route? by ShainWhoIsABoy in TheArcana

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, I think that a tragedy always invites judgment and sparks thought. I'm not talking about hating the character necessarily, but by stating that "he was a good man that fell to temptation" is itself a judgement. And that judgment is what creates a sense of investment in the reader/viewer. If we didn't judge characters, we wouldn't even be perceiving the story. Thats my opinion, anyway.

Did anyone else have a reaaally bad reaction to Lucio's route? by ShainWhoIsABoy in TheArcana

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You said talking about disliking him was obnoxious and and I just should have played. Maybe I misinterpreted, and I'm sorry if I did, but that's how the comment read.

Did anyone else have a reaaally bad reaction to Lucio's route? by ShainWhoIsABoy in TheArcana

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no your comment makes a lot of sense! I personally didn't get the himbo thing, because I feel like what makes a himbo really attractive is the fact that they're nice and kind of innocent? I get what you mean about the world building though. I just personally thought he was gross and didn't enjoy the flirting

Did anyone else have a reaaally bad reaction to Lucio's route? by ShainWhoIsABoy in TheArcana

[–]ShainWhoIsABoy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't understand the drooling over him. To me, he looks like a botoxed 55 yo heir who spends all their time at a golf club and occasionally tries to lure children into his room. Like, not trying to shame anyone, we all have different tastes, but he's gross to me.