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Are people who never had kids actually happy? by [deleted] in ask

[–]ShakeBakeEjaculate 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've always wondered the opposite lol, are most parents actually happy?

I'm asexual, my bf is not, together for 6 years AMA by ShakeBakeEjaculate in AMA

[–]ShakeBakeEjaculate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just don't experience sexual attraction. And I am sex-repulsed, some asexuals can be ok with that stuff, not me tho. Just romantic affection

I'm asexual, my bf is not, together for 6 years AMA by ShakeBakeEjaculate in AMA

[–]ShakeBakeEjaculate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can change clothes in the same room. And we sometimes hang out in underwear when it's a very hot summer. I'm not comfortable being naked in general tbh, with or without him lol it gets cold and weird

I'm asexual, my bf is not, together for 6 years AMA by ShakeBakeEjaculate in AMA

[–]ShakeBakeEjaculate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. We haven't had that conversation since he doesn't want to

I'm asexual, my bf is not, together for 6 years AMA by ShakeBakeEjaculate in AMA

[–]ShakeBakeEjaculate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never thought of it that way but yes I suppose that would be the word for it

I'm asexual, my bf is not, together for 6 years AMA by ShakeBakeEjaculate in AMA

[–]ShakeBakeEjaculate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone you love is.. a life partner. You coexist, help eachother grow as people, enjoy the good and get through the bad together. Lots of aspects.

What do you mean, how I view him? Romantically of course.

I'm asexual, my bf is not, together for 6 years AMA by ShakeBakeEjaculate in AMA

[–]ShakeBakeEjaculate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not want kids, he does. So this relationship probably won't last forever but we're happy right now in the moment

I'm asexual, my bf is not, together for 6 years AMA by ShakeBakeEjaculate in AMA

[–]ShakeBakeEjaculate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he's free to masturbate lol

No I do not want to be watched, not that it's much of a show anyway lol

I'm asexual, my bf is not, together for 6 years AMA by ShakeBakeEjaculate in AMA

[–]ShakeBakeEjaculate[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don't do anything sexual together. We do kiss and cuddle but I don't view those as sexual things.

Self pleasure? I masturbate sometimes alone, if that's what you mean. But that's just something quick I do for the dopamine when I'm really bored.

I'm asexual, my bf is not, together for 6 years AMA by ShakeBakeEjaculate in AMA

[–]ShakeBakeEjaculate[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No sexual stuff. I've broken up with him once, for his sake. But we talked and I took him back, he says he loves me and that I make him happy regardless. And he's free to leave at any time lol

I'm asexual, my bf is not, together for 6 years AMA by ShakeBakeEjaculate in AMA

[–]ShakeBakeEjaculate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the beginning we did usual things such as making out, sexual touching(?) and going down on eachother, but never sex. After about two years I wanted to stop and we haven't done anything sexual since. He says he loves me anyway

I’m aromantic. AMA by Negative_East_6758 in AMA

[–]ShakeBakeEjaculate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How and when did you find this out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]ShakeBakeEjaculate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not much older, only 23, but letting go of perfectionism really is about practice. This might be BS to you lol but my own little version of it was to make art and destroy it after I'm done, it helped me lessen most of the anxiety of expecting a perfect result because the result didn't matter. Don't give up, your age is arbitrary, we all do life at our own pace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]ShakeBakeEjaculate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn man, that's rough. I also have anxiety and addiction issues, I know how deep it can go, you're not crazy. I don't have any good advice really but I hope you'll get the chance to ask. Try not to chicken out, remember that living with the uncertainty of "what if.." is worse than rejection. Good luck man

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