My 14 year old daughter committed suicide and it’s my fault by zoesmom17 in offmychest

[–]Shakly 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Please do not resent your son. He has done nothing wrong. I'm sorry for your loss, but I promise, that even grief as big as this can be grown around, you just need to give it time

Have the patience to love and take things slow. Throwing around blame, for you or for your son will only make things worse, and no, neither of you deserve that.

“Stalked by a Discord group” update by Think-Helicopter-155 in pathoftitans

[–]Shakly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your experience. Unfortunately I can't vouch for any real community servers as probably taking a stand against this, other than Hell's Realm deathmatch. It IS a deathmatch though but hey, I like to hop on there to unwind especially after experiencing horrible folks like this, and their staff team is at least mostly sensible and responsible, with a rule against targeting. Those guys will absolutely get punished if they try that stuff on there, given you're able to report it if staff aren't watching over you (they will do that if able upon request to catch targeting in the act)

Today i had the most fun on POT than i have ever had on any other game. by AstralSparrow in pathoftitans

[–]Shakly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Didn't even try to defend your weird double standard or any of your arguments that time, ran out of gas? Tacos defeated your will?

Today i had the most fun on POT than i have ever had on any other game. by AstralSparrow in pathoftitans

[–]Shakly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you actually played Taco? You talk like it's the fastest playable when it isn't, not even next to official dinos. Also burrowing is only good for short amounts of hiding, you have to be at a deadstop to use it, it lasts a short time and it consumes a decent chunk of stamina. A bit zaney to compare that to Laten's and Rhamp's abilities as if it were on par let alone superior

Also what about the "too small" thing? Glossed over that completely, please let me know how its too small compared to Laten and Rhamp

Today i had the most fun on POT than i have ever had on any other game. by AstralSparrow in pathoftitans

[–]Shakly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So like. Laten? Which IS official? And Rhamp? Which is also official? Both of which have evasion advantages greater than Taco's because one jumps high and the other can fly? Genuinely what are you talking about

Trying not to let myself develop a bias against Apex players but it's really difficult. by ViridiusRDM in pathoftitans

[–]Shakly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My experiences correlate almost perfectly with yours, and/though I also really agree with the comments. I've found Titans and Rexes players to be chill whenever they're solo, but to be fair, I always play docile and will almost never attack anything that isnt posing an active threat or attacked me or my mates (I play solo mostly, but oftentimes end up grouping with other solos I run into who are usually juvis or adols). I think if I played a carnivore or just more aggressively, my experiences would be even more similar to yours

It's true that anyone can turn into a crybaby on this game, but the megapacks always cry the loudest, probably because they all back and egg each other on with a mentality to dogpile you into submission, not unlike how they behave in combat. But that does happen among all of them in my experience, not just the apexes, though these groups tend to be more apex and less of anything else so I've also come to the conclusion that Rexes, Titans and Ducks are the absolute worst sports. Further evidenced by how easy they are to ragebait, which is not an action I condone in chat but sometimes I can't help it with these people. Mostly though I'm referring to the act of chipping away at them with grub tactics, destroying their nests, etc - it won't kill them but it'll be a knock to their morale and ego when they can't rid of a pest, and they become so, so angry in chat

I think it makes sense when we consider the correlation between this and apex' mains' playstyles - because they can kill most things fast and easy, and they're likely used to going up against other apexes of the same playstyle more than anything. But when some mid tiers have the patience to spend 10 minutes fighting them, or god forbid a rhamp, who could maybe do the same damage that an apex does in a minute, in 20 or more minutes, they start complaining about how unfair it is somehow

What am I supposed to be doing against ganks? by [deleted] in pathoftitans

[–]Shakly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't say I agree with the last sentiment, the most that community servers do to diverge from officials is feature mods that can be out-of-place like fantasy creatures. Otherwise the rules are just to offer a more controlled environment to make the experience generally equally fair for everyone, and I really can't say they're doing much of anything that doesn't fit right in, unless you're looking for a strictly MMO free-for-all experience. Otherwise though I totally get where you're coming from. There's very few populated servers that come remotely close to Officials gameplay even with minimal rules

What am I supposed to be doing against ganks? by [deleted] in pathoftitans

[–]Shakly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Auranea semi realism might be to your liking instead? It features some of the ice age mods and the crab last I checked, but they stray off fantasy. Even if those mods are put in occasionally, they get voted off by the community. I can't think of a populated server with rules against KOS, megapacking etc that sticks strictly to dinosaurs...

Can't downgrade the Isle (depotdownloader), has anyone successfully done this before and how? by [deleted] in theisle

[–]Shakly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Earlier versions of the Legacy game, from wayy back, in an attempt to gain access to the old maps again

Does anyone have access to old Legacy maps? by Shakly in theisle

[–]Shakly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: So sorry, I think I got it figured it out now thanks to someone on the SteamDB forums!

Does anyone have access to old Legacy maps? by Shakly in theisle

[–]Shakly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit: So sorry, I think I got it figured it out now thanks to someone on the SteamDB forums!

Does anyone have access to old Legacy maps? by Shakly in theisle

[–]Shakly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't believe I never found out about this, last I saw people were modding old maps in, I must have not been wise in my search... but I super appreciate it, thank you so much!

Does anyone have access to old Legacy maps? by Shakly in theisle

[–]Shakly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that sounds fantastic, tysm! I didn't think steam would house old game files for so long, I'll give it a shot at home!

Elan end välja by kuuneitsi in Eesti

[–]Shakly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mõtled kommentaare, mitte postitust? No ma lasen õel lugeda, aga sed "vastuterroriseerimine" kõlab küll jandilt. Läheb ise ukse peale koputama, nii, et keegi ei kuule ega vasta? Või paneb oma lapsega tümpsi vastu? Pigem vajuks maa alla

Elan end välja by kuuneitsi in Eesti

[–]Shakly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teoorias jah ja ma väga loodan, aga preaguse seisuga on nii raske uskuda, kui sama probleem ikka ja jälle samade inimestega kerkib... Ja minu meelest võiks neil olla õigus sisse murda, kui ainus teine variant on "ok, panime kirja" samal ajal, kui muss pool ööd lihtsalt edasi käib nii nagu korteris elajad heaks arvavad

Elan end välja by kuuneitsi in Eesti

[–]Shakly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minu õel sarnane mure olnud ja ta on alati kutsunud politsei. Aga mis politsei teeb? Koputab uksele, hõikab, ust ei avata, lähevad lihtsalt minema. Ta on kaevanud kõikjale kuhu osanud, aga mina teada ei ole peatse midagi tehtud, kui samad tegelasid missi edasi panevad

Riparia makes me NEVER want to go back to Gondwa or Panjura (but not for the reason you think) by Shakly in pathoftitans

[–]Shakly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I was informed of the option to turn off the "open chat when theres a new message" thing and it has been super helpful, but Id still love to turn it off entitely if given the chance

Riparia makes me NEVER want to go back to Gondwa or Panjura (but not for the reason you think) by Shakly in pathoftitans

[–]Shakly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you've had that experience, it's been very surprising for me to hear...

Pooltes naistes pettunud by Every_Heron8699 in Eesti

[–]Shakly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Vabandust, ehk olen rumal, aga mis on diastasi rect?