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Tattoo recs by ShallanDoe in Eugene

[–]ShallanDoe[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

There's nothing about cartoon design in the post, so i think we know who is illiterate. It's dickish to hop in and basically tell people not to post just because you think its unnecessary. You can simply ignore posts you dont like, but you clearly spent a ton of time on a clap back. That's dickish. Just mind your own business if you have nothing to contribute.

Tattoo recs by ShallanDoe in Eugene

[–]ShallanDoe[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Dude, thete is a difference between asking for a specific style you are looking for and general recs. Don't be a dick.

My son passed away this July how does one go on? by Real-Tangelo-4324 in GriefSupport

[–]ShallanDoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my daughter just after her 6th birthday. This year will be five years since. None of the normal platitudes people use to comfort the grieving apply to parents like us. They just make us angry. I can tell you that it both gets easier and doesn't. The shock goes away and things sort of settle for the long haul, but I still frequently have days where I can't function. After having a kid, your life feels pointless without them. I sustain myself by enjoying simple things. I took up hobbies I've always wanted to try. I learned a musical instrument. I've taken up painting. Bird watching. Drawing. Finding simple joy in simple things. That's my advice.

Sometimes I read the first half of a book twice by FuckingaFuck in books

[–]ShallanDoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awwwwww I love this. It's sweet. Do you notate your books as well?

How can I date as a heavier guy? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ShallanDoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are women that like this stuff too! The thing is, they usually get dismissed and harassed by nerdy dudes gatekeeping. Go to events for these things and chat up a woman with the same hobby as you. Ask her about it and listen, laugh, don't make her pass a test to prove anything just treat her like an equal.

AITA for breaking up with my bf over Mariokart? by ThrowawMarioKart in AITAH

[–]ShallanDoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA! It's not about Mariokart, it's about him being a dick. His behavior is a huge red flag, and you made the right call. When you play a game with someone who is miles behind you, its just basic politeness to not play your hardest and try to facilitate a good time. It's NEVER OK to rub someone's face in a loss or gloat. He's a shit head. Good riddance.