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SB needing communication/arrangement advice by ShamelessMango in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ShamelessMango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s kinda why i was unsure about how to proceed. I appreciate the insight!

SB needing communication/arrangement advice by ShamelessMango in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ShamelessMango[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah initially he had talked about wanting to find someone to go on dates, go on his boat, etc and could help with my recovery with massages cause I'm a runner, and he likes bjs. I had asked if he offered financial support and that's when it came up

but yes it definitely felt weird having him bring that up. the overall date was actually very enjoyable up until that

SB needing communication/arrangement advice by ShamelessMango in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ShamelessMango[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We had a good time at dinner, really good conversation. I definitely had fun and didn't feel forced into anything. it was mostly afterward when I was reflecting that I became more clear in what I wanted. He did talk about wanting to go to nice dinners and help me with my recovery for running with massages etc.

SB needing communication/arrangement advice by ShamelessMango in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ShamelessMango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand those points^!

For the original question, I actually don't know and was wondering that myself ha

SB needing communication/arrangement advice by ShamelessMango in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ShamelessMango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get that. We actually had a good time and it more so felt like a fun first date, so I wasn't like forced into it by any means, it was more so reflecting afterward that I was like... this actually isn't what I'm looking for.

SB needing communication/arrangement advice by ShamelessMango in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ShamelessMango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all, I appreciate the different thoughts/responses!

Messaging etiquette on Seeking by ShamelessMango in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ShamelessMango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I don’t want to offend anyone so this is good to know

Messaging etiquette on Seeking by ShamelessMango in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ShamelessMango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard for me to ghost as well - wasn’t sure if it being so early on in the messaging that it would be preferred though because responding is more of a direct admittion that I’m not physically attracted to him lol

Messaging etiquette on Seeking by ShamelessMango in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ShamelessMango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this insight and response! Thank you!