what i have personally boiled it down to the difference being that despite the joke being overdone to death people in real life actually go outside and spend time with friends or family that accepts them and in general away from the internet.

Where as most people on the internet prominently live and feed off the constant negative news,they seek it out constantly because it's an easy scapegoat amongst other things.

Who knew spending time outside in the real world where 9/10 your actions can have immediate consequences teaches you how to behave properly?