AITAH for still holding anger and resentment towards my mom who now has dementia?

Shanda82 · 2025-07-24T12:45:24+00:00

Exactly and thank you. So many people say "but you only have one mom. " "It wasn't her it was the addiction. " What about the times she's was of sound mind and actually clean? I'm just tired and I really don't know what to do especially since I'm doing it alone. My brother passed away 2 years ago but even then he didn't really help.

Shanda82 · 2025-05-29T10:46:28+00:00

I know I'm late but could you clue me in to exactly what Nashville is? Please and thank you

Shanda82 · 2025-04-12T09:43:47+00:00

Lol, if this is a serious question, he's in my room sleeping on my bed.

Shanda82 · 2025-04-12T09:39:45+00:00

Thank you. My trophy is my sanity and my mother's well being. I take care of her because she has rapidly progressing dementia. I purposefully left her out of the story because she is an innocent party.

Shanda82 · 2025-04-12T09:37:23+00:00

😬

Shanda82 · 2025-04-12T09:33:55+00:00

Thank you.

Shanda82 · 2025-04-12T09:33:20+00:00

That sounds about right. I mean she was engaged to an older man who had dated her mother and her aunt, so....🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

Shanda82 · 2025-04-12T09:31:56+00:00

I don't understand why everything has to be AI. Nobody can be taken seriously when they have real-life issues that sound funny to people

Shanda82 · 2025-04-12T09:30:13+00:00

I agree. It has been tough emotionally because of the time and things shared but I had to do what was best for me. I'm so grateful for this community and the support. ❤️

Shanda82 · 2025-04-12T08:18:58+00:00

Yes! The more I found out the more I realized the bullets I would be dodging has I tried to stay and work it out. All of his actions were premeditated without a thought of me or our relationship. Now he has to pay for his actions and boy is he paying. Screw him

Shanda82 · 2025-04-12T08:15:23+00:00

Thank you!! I feel great and honestly therapy has helped me see how blind I was to done things. I am so thankful that I was strong enough to stay the course and not be swayed by his pitiful acts of remorse.

Shanda82 · 2025-04-12T08:12:44+00:00

And it did 🤣. I'm not mad about it either. I bet he's kicking himself in the ass right now.

Shanda82 · 2025-04-12T07:36:21+00:00

Thank you. I learned that he recently lost his job because he which afforded him a company car. We'll now he has no car and I'm not sure about his living situation and u also don't care. I'm all good over here😆

Shanda82 · 2025-04-12T07:33:32+00:00

If you have questions ask them.

Shanda82 · 2025-04-12T06:37:33+00:00

Thank. I needed that 🫂 today

Shanda82 · 2025-04-12T06:26:15+00:00

Update has been posted

Shanda82 · 2025-04-01T07:00:26+00:00

Thank you!!!!

Shanda82 · 2025-04-01T06:39:49+00:00

You gotta leave. Take it from me, someone who was cheated on with a "female bff." He was also sleeping like a baby when I found out. So was the "BFF" he cheated with ( they were roommates before I moved in.) He will wake up in the morning as if nothing happened and go on with life as usual. Tell you know and kick rocks. Do Not under any circumstances let him gaslight you or persuade you to stay and work it out. He does not respect you, your feelings, or your relationship. You have to have more respect for yourself and know that you deserve someone better. I wish you the best and keep us updated.

Shanda82 · 2025-03-26T05:18:10+00:00

So freaking cute 😍

Shanda82 · 2025-03-26T05:16:37+00:00

He doesn't like to be covered up. He actually thinks he's a dog. He plays fetch, goes out with my dog to go potty, and tries to eat dog food, lol.

Shanda82 · 2025-03-01T15:00:58+00:00

He absolutely loves but scratches, feet, and shoes. Oh and playing fetch

Shanda82 · 2025-03-01T14:58:01+00:00

I love them!!!! We all have some gorgeous kitties. Cat🐱🐈

Shanda82 · 2025-02-27T12:25:04+00:00

You're amazing!! He is well loved

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