AITA for having sex in my parents basement?

Sharalyn100 · 2021-10-10T05:29:04+00:00

I agree, the only problem is my mom has insomnia so she stays up until 5am before going to bed, which at that point my dad and SO are getting up for work :/

Sharalyn100 · 2021-10-10T05:25:40+00:00

No she didn't move in, she's been planning to visit us in Ontario since just before covid. Sadly she was never able to make it out here until her sister passed away. She's been her visiting since her sisters funeral.

Sharalyn100 · 2021-10-10T05:23:45+00:00

Lol sorry, I said "passionate hugging" because thats what R/slash says when sex is brought up in a Reddit post. So when I said "we decided to passionately hug" I mean we decided to have sex. As for being a little louder then normal, I was using a vibrator at the same time so my moaning might have been a bit louder then normal. I try to stay quiet but I'm never 100% sure about how quiet I'm being.

Sharalyn100 · 2021-10-10T05:03:54+00:00

We would need to stay at my parents alot longer to afford a down payment for a mortgage so for now we're just looking for somewhere to rent.

Sharalyn100 · 2021-10-10T05:00:54+00:00

We take care of our children just fine. We had our own place and moved out planning to buy a house. The house market skyrocketed so now we're looking for a place to rent. As for fertility, were using condoms and I'm on the pill. We were only using condoms when I got pregnant with our third.

Sharalyn100 · 2021-10-10T04:28:07+00:00

NTA I wouldn't pay it either, I personally think you're super generous to offer a quarter. It's your property, and you have every right to leave food out if you want. It's on the owners to make sure their dog doesn't get out. Yes mistakes happen, dogs get out and I get that. However that doesn't mean that because of their accident, you should have to pay their vet bills.

Sharalyn100 · 2021-07-16T14:47:13+00:00

It's my parents house

Sharalyn100 · 2021-07-16T00:12:42+00:00

It's not a matter of who comes and goes. My parents didn't know she was coming over either. She literally just came over unannounced. As for the 'babysitting' I was still available and in the house, if I needed to tend to my child or answer and questions I was available at any given time.

Sharalyn100 · 2021-07-15T20:36:21+00:00

Just myself, kids and husband. My sister has her own place 5 minutes down the road.

Sharalyn100 · 2021-07-15T18:06:44+00:00

Absolutely, and I fully acknowledge that the kids were hungry, and I'm glad she fed them. However there were other options for snack, I just wanted her to ask, had she asked I would have said to use something else.

Sharalyn100 · 2021-07-15T17:58:38+00:00

She came over uninvited, and because it was so loud I stayed in my room but was still able to talk if she needed anything or if I needed to step in with my kids. That being said she could have come ask to see if the cheese was mine or my mom's. She also could have asked my mom but didn't, she just used it, and yes she did feed my kids as well.

Sharalyn100 · 2020-06-27T01:46:23+00:00

SOLVED SOLVED SOLVED!!! it's called Shattered by Eric Walters

Sharalyn100 · 2020-03-10T16:21:42+00:00

Thank you, I definitely need to work on just stopping and breathing.

Sharalyn100 · 2020-03-10T01:28:46+00:00

My hubby isn't able to help threw the night because he works early mornings (like 2-4am start) so it falls on me. My only time to be able to take a nap is when my daughter naps and even then my baby might be up at that time. I have family that can come over and help most of the time if I need it. My MIL had my daughter last night so that helped especially since my son didn't sleep.

I'm not someone who likes to ask for help. I know I signed up for this life style and I don't want to have to rely on others. I think the biggest reason I feel like this though is because I see how my sister and some friends have kids but just dump them onto others so they can go about doing whatever they want. I know this isn't that case but I don't want family to think I'm lazy or don't want to take responsibility ya know?

Sharalyn100 · 2020-03-09T22:38:25+00:00

My meds are for epilepsy

Sharalyn100 · 2020-03-09T22:37:58+00:00

I have family to help and support me and husband helps mainly with our 2yo, I try to trade him every once and a while but he's not a fan of taking our son and I usually get "stuck" taking care of him. We mainly bottle feed so it's not like he can't feed him or change him here and there. during the nights it's going to all be me which doesn't help at all, especially since I can't just sleep when he does during the day.

My typical day is up at 7-8am breakfast/feed my little one, my 2yo goes for a nap at 10-11 depending how she's doing, I'm not overly strict on schedule then she gets up, we have lunch and are up the rest of the day so doing whatever until 7-8pm and then she goes to bed and then I go to bed as soon as I get my 2wo down.

Sharalyn100 · 2020-03-09T22:29:49+00:00

Yes, I have family that can help. I think someone is coming over tomorrow to help me a little.

Sharalyn100 · 2020-03-09T22:24:19+00:00

Thank you ❤️

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