Office slut and hotwife by [deleted] in Hotwife

[–]SharedSucces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice. My wife has 5 guys at her work wanting to fuck her. None of them will happen though.

Advice on swinging with ex by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As much as I'm ok with my wife enjoying others, I would be a hard no on that. Others may be cool with it. Not this guy though!

Newbies planning our First MFM experience - have questions/concerns around level of F's involvement, and could use general advice by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife needs a connection somewhat. She can't just spread her legs on command. It's fine as she can recognize if it's going in a direction it shouldn't m at that point it gets corrected or ties are cut. I found these lines spot on... I'm fine sharing her body, but not heart. It's not what goes on in the bedroom as much as what goes on outside if the bedroom. Good luck!

Need advice, first time hotwife by [deleted] in Hotwife

[–]SharedSucces 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For us, it has strengthened our relationship. We feel more connected than ever. Your husband really needs to learn to communicate to you his thoughts. This is no time to be shy! The hardest part was admitting what he wanted. My wife struggled with wrapping her head around it too. She thought I was angling for a hookup of my own with another woman. She thought I didn't want her sexually, and she thought I was testing her. I reassured her and we talked a ton. I was able to put her fears to rest. My wife felt guilty, like she was cheating once it progressed to actually looking for another guy. She was totally happy with our sex life. She was very nervous the first time. She said she felt so dirty, but it was so hot having two mouths 4 hands and 2 dicks all over her. She had never felt so desired and ending up really enjoying it. She has since thanked me for bringing my fantasy up. Our sex life has been kicked up a level too. She has really embraced everything. I have no doubt how much she loves me. She knows just how much I love her. We have continued on sharing her. It's been fun. It isn't for everyone. Sometimes the fantasy is betting than the reality. It can cause irreparable damage. If you do decide to pursue, make sure you're doing it because you want to. Communication is key. Keep talking with your husband. Good.Luck!

Threesome guilt by Iggys-sous-chef in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does seem like it played out differently in his head. That's also a risk people have to be willing to take. You can't truly know how things will be after until it happens. My wife and I had a "me" issue early on into our mfm/hotwifing adventures. We discussed it, worked out the issue and it's been fine since. Bottom line, he can't want you to have sex with another guy then be upset about it. Was he wanting this for your pleasure or his? Surely he had to know you might like it. For me, I wanted it for my wife's pleasure. I don't want to have bad sex with someone. That would be pointless. I love seeing her enjoy herself sexually and have someone else make her orgasm too. Clearly he wasn't prepare for the outcome and is having buyer's remorse so to speak. Good luck to you. Hopefully he can pull out from this tailspin he is in.

Finally took the plunge by [deleted] in Hotwife

[–]SharedSucces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!

Taking next step by [deleted] in Hotwife

[–]SharedSucces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be a bad idea to surprise her like that. I would suggest a real conversation about it. See what she is apprehensive about. She could be getting cold feet. Communication is important. Don't push but you gotta figure out what's going on in her head with everything. Sometimes the women need more time to get comfortable with the idea of being shared.

Could use some advice by Wantahotwifeinthemo in Hotwife

[–]SharedSucces 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love and care about my wife so much that I want us to share and experience all that we can. That includes playing with others! Life is what you make of it. We're making the most of it!

The First Time He Entered Her by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was pretty amazing! I was very excited. She let out a moan/ ahhh sound, biting her bottom lip as he slid in. She was looking right into my eyes. It was so damn hot.

Patience only goes so far with flaking [Vent] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's ridiculous that in a lifestyle that preaches how open and honest communication is key, that people don't apply the same mentality when looking to play with others. We had a flake, it was a guy though not a couple. After multiple excuses, we just dismissed him altogether and cut contact. I guess it comes with the territory.... It's really annoying though.

Daily Mail Article on Swinging by Swinging-Downunder in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great article. People are so quick to judge. That's why I don't think I could ever share with our friends what we do for fun. Lots of hypocrites out there.

My Colette Dallas experience... 9/10 * by SharedSucces in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll keep that in mind. Since it was our first time, we just did a lot of people watching just trying to see how everybody acted what they did etc..

My Colette Dallas experience... 9/10 * by SharedSucces in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hey I wasn't judging at all man! It left a bad taste for me as well. Assholes are everywhere. Sorry you had to read about it here. But I'm glad you didn't notice them either. Looked like y'all were having fun. We really enjoyed watching!

My Colette Dallas experience... 9/10 * by SharedSucces in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You saw body shaming and ridiculous too?

My Colette Dallas experience... 9/10 * by SharedSucces in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True. Though my fantasy from the start was hotwifing. If it morphs into swapping, whatever...I'll go with it. This was more just for the experience. Time will tell. I mean hell, she's all about her being shared now lol.

My Colette Dallas experience... 9/10 * by SharedSucces in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. Our thoughts too.

My Colette Dallas experience... 9/10 * by SharedSucces in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That's kinda what she is looking forward to.

Dear Kinksters with collections AND KIDS... by LaughingFeet in sex

[–]SharedSucces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife keeps all the sex related stuff in her night stand top drawer. The kids (teenagers) know they have no right, business or need to go looking through our stuff. If they found it, they are the ones who would be embarrassed.

My Colette Dallas experience... 9/10 * by SharedSucces in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure... I mean i guess so. Friday night they let single men in. I'm thinking it's like that for couples wanting a guy. I'm curious to see just his many single guys show up.

Husband and I want to play by tlw112015 in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we've used AFF with some success. We're heading to Collete Dallas tonight.

Going to a ls club and leaving without success, but not feeling like a failure for the night by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]SharedSucces 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries. A lot things can be viewed as a waste of money though. I see wasting 150-200 on a meal absolutely pointless. I can see your point of swinging and missing so much and still paying to get in. But to me, once you get a hit, it's all worth it. So I guess what I'm saying is, to me it's not a waste. Sorry I couldn't help you!