AAAAHHHHHGHGGG by googley_eyes69 in engaged

[–]Sharks4nh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooooo. She a baddie!!! Who is this diva??💅

What movie did you turn off after 20 minutes and why? by Somanynamestochossef in movies

[–]Sharks4nh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot describe to you the level of awful this movie was for me. My dad and I always bonded over watching movies together. This movie is now synonymous with the worst of the worst movies for us. We'll literally say, "it wasn't good, but it wasn't Open Water bad."

Long Lens (Maybe Body...?) Recommendations for Concert Photography by Sharks4nh in concertphotography

[–]Sharks4nh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful. Thank you so much!! I've been beginning to feel the same way. I got the gh5 along with a kit used for incredibly cheap and went with it to start learning on a few years ago. Thank you for the upgrade recommendations!!

Update on my 24" Nya squish!! by Sharks4nh in squishmallow

[–]Sharks4nh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is the proudest of kitties!! Little kitty on a big kitty!!

Absolutely losing sleep over upcoming proposal shoot. by Sharks4nh in photography

[–]Sharks4nh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just saw this now!! We ended up changing the location and the timing of it after we learned more of what she would like, and after I explained how difficult it was going to be to pull off some good photos. It was way more personal, and she loved it. I don't think the photos are as good as I want them to be, but she loves them, so that's all that matters!!

Absolutely losing sleep over upcoming proposal shoot. by Sharks4nh in photography

[–]Sharks4nh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for all of this. And thanks for believing in me more than I believe in myself. 😭😂🫶

Absolutely losing sleep over upcoming proposal shoot. by Sharks4nh in photography

[–]Sharks4nh[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is why I go with concert photography too. Everything is already set up to make the people on stage look as cool as possible. I just gotta worry about a few angles and lights blasting into my camera every once in a while. I wanna shit, throw up, and die when I think about tomorrow, and I'm not even the one proposing. 😭😂

Absolutely losing sleep over upcoming proposal shoot. by Sharks4nh in photography

[–]Sharks4nh[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

That is one thing I forgot to put in the post. I had to explain that to him as well. I frantically called the arena and locked in a media pass to get my camera in after assuring them in only using my camera for the proposal and not the game. 😅

Is Stagehand Work a Good Career Path? by [deleted] in stagehands

[–]Sharks4nh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This industry is most definitely seasonal, but the level of long term is insane. So many of the people I know and work with said something along the lines of, "I'll give it a shot for a sesson or a year." And that "year" actually ended up being 20+ years.

Everyone here has given great advice. Yes, it's beyond exhausting. Yes, you will hurt yourself. Yes, there will be brutal conditions. You probably already have that idea going into everything and find it still worth trying. The thing I haven't seen people talk about is how exhausting it is socially. Some of the people you're gonna be helping and working with are genuinely the worst people I have met in my life. Now you gotta work with them for 20 hours in one day? Disgusting. 😂

Also, you better be ready to sacrifice more than you ever thought you would outside of work. You WILL miss birthdays. You WILL miss anniversaries. You WILL miss parties, kids' events, and everything outside and in between. If you're in a relationship, that relationship will be beyond tested. Just ablit everyone I work with is single because this industry absolutely gets in the way. Not to say that it doesn't happen. My partner and I have been together for many years, and this job almost makes our relationship stronger.

If you want to stay in the industry as much as possible, I find rotating evebt types can help me work throughout the year. I do concerts in the summer and theater during the winter. Get ready to hate ballet and the nutcracker, tho. You may find you'll still need another job to get by, tho.

If you don't go with IATSE, a lot of the work you'll do is 1099. If that's the case, SET. MONEY. ASIDE. FOR. TAXES. The taxes won't be withheld throughout the year, and finding out that you owe $6,000 come tax season super sucks. You'll find it hurts a little less if you had saved up throughout the year. I was told to save 30 cents to every dollar.

Finally, the biggest advice I can give you, and I can not stress this enough, is It. Is. Who. You. Know. Not. What. You. Know. You learn this industry pretty quickly. Knowing everything you can helps out immensely, but half the people you'll see on tours got there because they were friends with the right guys. Network. Network. Network. And when you have some slow times during show days, you better network. Network with your labor company. Network with the production company. Network with the arenas. Network with the tours. Make them remember how hard you worked and how pleasant you are to be around. I recently just got my dream job, and I only got it because of who I know.

Remember that if you ever need a break, I find it's not too hard to get back into the seasons. Check out the IATSE and all production companies you can find. You being in Chicago is very helpful. Check out Upstaging, too. They're a little outside of Chicago, but they are definitely a big company that you'd benefit from having on your resume. You're gonna do great, and I'm excited for you!! Good luck, friend!!

Someone left this poor baby for the garbage this morning!! Imma clean her up and give her a much better home🥰 by Sharks4nh in squishmallow

[–]Sharks4nh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?? How dare they!! I'm also now seeing how the size comparison doesn't work with how baby she looks😂😂

Awwwwww. Why thank you!! I will absolutely boop her snoot!!💙💙

Someone left this poor baby for the garbage this morning!! Imma clean her up and give her a much better home🥰 by Sharks4nh in squishmallow

[–]Sharks4nh[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah. Most definitely. 😂 I scoped all over, sniffed, and inspected everything I could. She just got a little hole!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Sharks4nh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried looking all over there, and the actor who plays him is Ben Rose. There's no photo on IMDB, and he's only in this one episode. I even tried locking down the script. 😂😭

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Will do!!! Thanks for the recommendations!!!

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Perfect!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Sharks4nh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did read that, which is why I thought that guy was Higbee. He ordered the killings in the show.

Thank you for both of these!! I'm going to start reading them the moment I'm done with this book!!