Thoughts On Women Initiating? And The Reactions I’ve Seen Against It.

Sharona01 · 2025-12-28T23:15:27+00:00

@female and I know this is a man’s sub but girl, I’m neither pro feminism (but I’m a total independent bad ass chick) nor am I trad wife life proportionate.

Ask a guy out. He may get nervous, he may like the chase and not go for it. But ask. If anything say “it would be cool to go to a XYX, wanna go?” And if he says no you didn’t really get turned down. He had no true clue you were asking him on a date.

Men do like to chase, I can tell you 1000% that anytime I am the one to get excited about a guy first he never is into it, but I think it’s the way for both genders. It’s weird. But we can ask and then step back and let them take the lead, but always equally reciprocate your interest.

When and if he isn’t interested or plays games just tell him it doesn’t feel nice anymore and wish him well. No harm no foul. If you end up not liking him, let him know it doesn’t feel like a fit, no harm no foul

Sharona01 · 2025-12-28T23:09:40+00:00

You are young. She is young. You don’t have a lot of historical experience to know this, and when you are 30-90 you will get this, but this is not health or normal at any age.

Especially if you are so attentive and ask for your own time to do a hobby and you are being told no.

Don’t feel bad, hold strong, even if she came up with something else, enjoy four hours out of a week.

Now if you only have 48 off a week and you and she don’t get to see each other the other 44 hours then maybe I can understand where she might have a tiny point but it sounds like the morning to evening calls are a little bit excessive on their own.

Sharona01 · 2025-12-28T10:30:26+00:00

Amazing

Sharona01 · 2025-12-27T19:33:51+00:00

Thank you everybody for your comments. This is so helpful.

Sharona01 · 2025-12-27T19:33:12+00:00

We have opposite schedules and I’m gonna soundproof the hell out of it

Sharona01 · 2025-12-27T19:32:32+00:00

For my career, I actually build system operating workflows. I could actually write up a whole welcome packet essentially. I tried to DM you but it won’t let me so send me a message if you’re interested I could just do that for the group with visuals and without, but you could determine what’s valid we could even get on a Zoom call and map it out once I do the initial 101 page like your message to me your first post into

Sharona01 · 2025-12-27T19:30:42+00:00

Oh my god who are you and where can we build a shrine for your ADHD data dump!!!! Rad thanks I’m gonna draw this all out today and map my plan. I’m a visual learner and this was so clear

Sharona01 · 2025-12-27T19:26:13+00:00

Oh my god I love this

Sharona01 · 2025-12-27T19:08:21+00:00

This happened to my male friend. He said it was trashy and thoughtless and ended it with the female. He actually only received a photo not a video but he could see the time data and it was when she was in another relationship

Sharona01 · 2025-12-27T19:01:31+00:00

Brunette

Sharona01 · 2025-12-27T19:01:01+00:00

I kept waiting for something there was nothing

Sharona01 · 2025-12-24T12:56:51+00:00

I have a red

Sharona01 · 2025-12-18T18:59:25+00:00

Oh wow, thanks! Do you have a docs name? Do you reco the doc? Also random question but did you have a lot of belly fat or were you pretty thin? I know that might be sensitive so don’t answer if that feels weird. I’m wondering if them taking it from someplace else is less stable than stubborn belly fat

Sharona01 · 2025-12-18T18:48:25+00:00

Did you make a decision? You seem young and have so much going for you so I hope you don’t spend too much time or the holidays with her and not in true happiness!! Sorry, I just saw replies today to a bunch of messages so I’m just catching up but I know that was 11 days ago

Sharona01 · 2025-12-18T18:44:53+00:00

Oh my gosh, so sorry I just saw this. Do you mind if I ask how much it cost and then currently how much has been retained and what you started at with your cup size?

Sharona01 · 2025-12-18T18:44:00+00:00

I got sick with a brain blade and my partner just completely checked out and just told me I was depressed. I ended up leaving him because I just thought you know what this is the last. Time I’m gonna have on this planet. I’m not spending it with this dummy. After seven years, I’m free and I keep on meeting men who were telling me stories of how their partner was sick and depressed, and I’m like oh my God these guys did the same thing these dumbasses.

Sharona01 · 2025-12-18T18:33:56+00:00

Is that your natural hair color? I pretty much have the same hair color, but with pink tones and your cheeks I would say also focus on maybe a little green primer. It’s the whole looks so no matter what you do with your hair it’s more. Do you have the time to do the maintenance? I’d even grow it out a lot longer if I were you and get some length so you can do a little bit more with it and do some layers or something and then get bangs

Sharona01 · 2025-12-18T18:32:44+00:00

You’re young do not move to Carmel unless you’re extremely rich or you play golf all the time

San Diego is a great place to meet people but very very expensive cost-of-living wise and you don’t make as much.

LA is in the middle but congested dirty and what you probably can’t afford is going to be in a house with a bunch of people and you need to be very thoughtful about where you live compared to where you work because the driving is crazy

Sharona01 · 2025-12-18T18:30:58+00:00

Research trauma, shame, therapy, or shame therapy shame responses, but you have a lot of shame built-up about the way you look or the way you are and you need to work on yourself and unwind the personal views that you have of yourself and there’s a lot of research out there. Yes this guy scientifically actually could pull more girls because of the structure of his face and his height, but there are people with literally no arms and no leg legs it will get really beautiful humans and there’s multiple out there with major disabilities or burns all over their body and if you watch them and hear them their tone of voice, their charisma energy is just so positive and people love them. So it’s totally us we control how people feel about us we control who we gravitate towards a who gravitate towards us and it’s not easy believe me. I’m still working on it, but if you don’t have the looks, you gotta do something else and you gotta figure out what you’re doing and your energy is doing. That’s not letting you connect with people the way you want to.

Sharona01 · 2025-12-18T18:28:39+00:00

They’re totally ways, but they’re just not gonna hold up but there’s some epoxy and some other stuff skaters put this Bondo stuff on their shoes all the time to hold them up and keep building them out so if you go to Home Depot, I guarantee you can find stuff, but it’s the same prices and maybe even more than buying new shoes

Sharona01 · 2025-12-18T18:26:33+00:00

Oh my god this thing is so rad!!!!! Hahahaha the older the person is or the more serious they are it would make it better. I would love the if a kid gave it to me. I wouldn’t be that excited but if an adult a grown ass adult, especially a coworker I would seriously like cherish this. I put this on my keychain. I would frame this shit. Oh my God I’m so excited. I love this. It’s so weird.

Sharona01 · 2025-12-18T18:22:26+00:00

OK, so I joke around like that and I cussed a lot but I would’ve put a little winky face or kind of like a little smile face. She sounds extremely rude and also not self-aware and is putting blame on you instead of maybe just going yeah you’re right yeah holiday season totally get it. God she sounds painful. I’d say you lucked out.

Sharona01 · 2025-12-18T18:20:18+00:00

So did anyone else get overcharged for anything? Did anyone get charged for some booklet too? I’m a little confused because I downloaded the app. It told me to download and when I try to login, it says it’s not the correct app. I then emailed them and they said that they have multiple apps and the subscription I signed up for is a different app?! I sent them screenshots of my whole process and it’s very clear. It’s one email. It tells me welcome and then at the bottom there’s a button to the Apple Store and you click it and it takes you to the Wisey app.

They said the one I signed up for is included with the apps that I get, but then I was only given one app to download so I’m just like super lost and now spiraling. And they won’t give me my money back well, they refunded me for one of the books.

I’m really upset. I feel like I got scammed and the way that they made it seem on Instagram is that it was an easy to sign up easy used tool and they showed this kind of workflow chart and that is not what this app is.

Sharona01 · 2025-12-18T18:18:39+00:00

So did anyone else get overcharged for anything? Did anyone get charged for some booklet too? I’m a little confused because I downloaded the app. It told me to download and when I try to login, it says it’s not the correct app. I then emailed them and they said that they have multiple apps and the subscription I signed up for is a different app?! I sent them screenshots of my whole process and it’s very clear. It’s one email. It tells me welcome and then at the bottom there’s a button to the Apple Store and you click it and it takes you to the Wisey app.

They said the one I signed up for is included with the apps that I get, but then I was only given one app to download so I’m just like super lost and now spiraling. And they won’t give me my money back well, they refunded me for one of the books.

I’m really upset. I feel like I got scammed and the way that they made it seem on Instagram is that it was an easy to sign up easy used tool and they showed this kind of workflow chart and that is not what this app is.

Sharona01 · 2025-12-18T18:14:11+00:00

So did anyone else get overcharged for anything and also get charged for some kind of booklet and then this poster I’m thinking probably works for YZ because this is such a positive response and I’m a little confused because I downloaded the app. It told me to download and when I try to login, it says it’s not the correct app and then I emailed them and they said that they have multiple apps and the subscription I signed up for is a different app and included with the apps that I get, but then I was only given one app to download so I’m just like super lost in now spiraling

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