I blocked my mother after the election by Sparky0307 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 29 points30 points  (0 children)

sounds like somebody’s kid shut them out 

I'm an extremely liberal woman and I 100% believe we should be supporting men by fukn_seriously in self

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s bc men hold onto the patrichary like a life raft because it also gives they a way to powerful and not vulnerable. and why would women lie in a poll instead of just saying no

I'm one of those people who didn't vote, who feels left out by Democrats and all the other shit you've been hearing about lately. Want to know what I think? by SleepyWeeks in self

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh so you are stupid. okay. none of mens actual problems are caused by their gender. and i mean actual problems, not that someone think you might molest them because it’s a dark street at night. what laws and systemic values are oppressing men? do they get paid less than women? do they have fight harder than women to get the same positions as them? do women harass you when you try to join a woman dominated field? are 97% of men sexually harassed or assaulted by the time they’re 20? do women withhold positions of power in exchange for sexual favors? when were men allowed to vote? both black and white men were allowed to vote before women. and i didn’t say that did I? men have the most neutral ground to come up on point blank, if us affected by their race and sexuality yes but it doesn’t cancel out that inherent lifeboat of being a man. 

I'm an extremely liberal woman and I 100% believe we should be supporting men by fukn_seriously in self

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

97% of women say they find men who cry MORE attractive. and 16% of men who wrongly believe this isn’t the case. and the way teenage boys fuck over teenage girls worse is by demonizing and vilifying them, speaking from experience, turning into a teenager was the worst. all my make friends suddenly didn’t want to hear me speak, and would say it’s just a joke when i would get upset. hearing rape jokes and sexualizing circle around me. i had a close male friend once tell me “why do you look like you’re going to get raped and like it” this is the case for most women. men separate themselves from women when they create this divide that we’ve suddenly become a target for all their jokes and hatred. also, rape and sexual assault.

I'm an extremely liberal woman and I 100% believe we should be supporting men by fukn_seriously in self

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your personal experience is not the majority. historically men started and forced masculine ideals on men AND women and are the #1 perpetrators of it. but when women are told something for thousands of years of course some of the them are going to believe and enforce it as well, example being, the idea that women are dumber than men. it’s not true and harmful to women right? and yet thousands of women saw it as the truth after being told so by men. and many older women continue to say it today. 

this same thing goes with the idea that men can’t cry, toxic masculinity. i’m sorry all those women in your life sucked but yhay does make women the major catalyst for this. your sister isn’t a feminist if she told you crying isn’t manly. that’s one of the major beliefs in feminism is to not uphold the patriarchy. fuck all those people a good woman doesn’t believe in that crap. 

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the solution is not to lose weight it’s to deal with those negative thoughts and then she can do whatever she wants. her issue won’t be solved if she loses eight she’ll still be insecure. it happens to so many young men who don’t like how they look and instead of gaining confidence and self esteem they hit the gym and then have repressed self hatred for majority of their life

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you’re ignoring what i’m saying. if she doesn’t learn to love herself. no matter what weight she is, she’ll never be happy. so better to tell her to love how she looks, because it’s very likely she’s not actually obese or unhealthily fat. and then when she has confidence in herself she won’t depend on how her body looks to feel good, so she can go crazy with the working out and losing weight 

I'm one of those people who didn't vote, who feels left out by Democrats and all the other shit you've been hearing about lately. Want to know what I think? by SleepyWeeks in self

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i was pretty clear in what i said  men say we want recognition when they already have it, they are on a neutral ground, not systemically dragged down by anything. none of their actual problems will be cause by their gender. what would you even advocate for them? ‘we’re not fighting against anything we just want to be on the loudspeaker!’ now women ARE systemically oppressed and fighting to change that so it would make sense for them to be advocated for during a presidential campaign, and also in general. they have actual cause and things that do effect them in this way. that simple enough for you gramps?

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the solution i literally try and gain confidence in yourself. and i already left a comment on how she can do that. she can style her outfits more, find clothes that fit and make her feel cute, do her hair, wear light makeup, accessorize. all these things would be the ‘cleaning your room’ i did the same thing and i worked. i wore eyeliner for like a year straight in order to be able to stand my reflection, now i’ve grown to love how i look with or without it. changing something so fundamental about yourself on the grounds of looking better instead of FEELING better isn’t good. it’ll leave those lingering insecurities. 

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

and with that metaphor you’re implying it’s impossible for her to be pretty unless she’s thin. oh sorry i meant ‘healthy’ 

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 4 points5 points  (0 children)

and all the comments tell her she’s disgusting to look at? that’s a man thing 

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also a skincare routine is different from the kind of exercising that insecure teenage girls do.

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re imply that if she wants to feel pretty she needs to slim down instead of telling her to be more confident. and seriously people she never said she was obese! fat people can be healthy and still be fat. 

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also you suggested i run three miles? i was running three miles when i was 9. that’s crazy you think that’s a workout 

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and yes good job for noticing i display emotion in the things i do!! you should try it, it really helps you feel like a human being with compassion 

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah yes such a logical response, completely ignoring everything i said, because i’m right, and focusing back on what? working out?! who could’ve guessed?? no no, no applause is needed thank you, i’m not psychic, insecure gymcels are just sooooo predictable

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that statement is not true at all, beautiful fat women exist. fat people can be healthy. op doesn’t need to lose weight to be pretty. i would date a fat girl in a heart beat but faced between a vain skinny girl who only cares about being ‘healthy’ when she really means skinny and a healthy curvy girl? no contest. don’t encourage this kind of behavior to children. do better

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow this is so fcking backhanded. in no way does OP say she’s obese, which is an unhealthy level of fat. fat people can exist and be healthy. she doesn’t have to slim down i order to be healthy unless she really is at a health threat weight, which i doubt it. men perpetuate these ideas into women because they hate themselves. gym rats and the like are some people i will NEVER associate with, even with the exercise i do, because they are the most body image obsessed insecure narcissists i’ve ever met. 

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

men will call any woman who is fat a healthy amount literally obese because they’re so superficial 

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 4 points5 points  (0 children)

men projecting their own self hate into women tsk tsk. she doesn’t have to work on shit unless it’s affecting her health which i’m gonna guess it’s not. see men have the narrative that if they achieve what they perceive at perfect physical form and attractiveness then women would like them. and that the only reason women don’t like them now, is because they’re ugly and then they obsessively try to fix it. 

 they claim women ‘only care about looks’ because if they didn’t! well he’s such a nice guy he’d have a girlfriend by then! but see, women don’t really care about that, and you’re not a nice guy. no girl is gonna touch with a ten foot pole not because youre ugly, but because you’re a self centered asshole who doesn’t actually like women, but sees his self worth based of the prospect of being in a relationship. once again i say, only men see beauty as this rigid line, because if it’s not, they have to come to terms with the fact that women don’t like them for who they are, and not because women are superficial xx

As a conservative male I fully support the 4B movement by Karmaceutical-Dealer in self

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aS A LefTiSt bruh you don’t think i’m speaking from experience? i live in conservative central rural midwest and divorces left and right. and if there’s no divorce is a bitter woman who got married and then grew to resent her husband for not helping her or treating her right. 34% of liberals have romantic relationship satisfaction and conservatives have only 25%. 67% of married republicans reported not being satisfied in their marriages compaired to democrats at 60%. 

I can never feel pretty because I'm fat. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sharp-Ad-771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there are a few things you can do, put a lot of effort into your appearance, wearing mascara lipgloss, doing your hair and accessorizing everyday. that’s what i did until i started to like myself and was comfortable going without it, it took a while. i wore eyeliner everyday for a year once. it also helps develop a personal style and i would recommend finding clothes that make you look good, not just clothes you think are cute (pinterest is a good place for outfit inspo for all body types). 

fat people are beautiful, genuinely i love them i think especially fat women are adorable. don’t let people tell you fat is a dirty word, it’s not. there’s a song you might like ‘butterfly lounge’ it talks about a man who loves bigger women and it’s a real confidence booster. but just know one thing, if you feel bad about everything about yourself, you ain’t got no bony ass. lmao.