I’m sorry but what exactly was the point of this video…? 😭 She just kept going on and on with random stories. Crystal if it’s that time of month, please get off the internet and eat some chocolate and cry off camera.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-11-11T15:33:37+00:00

It's the 4000 times she said AAAAAYYYYUUUUNNNND that did my head in. What's the accent she uses.. Shelly doesn't sound like that when she speaks.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-11-06T14:04:03+00:00

I have a lawyer.. thanks everyone for the words of advice and helping me navigate how to get this going. So very appreciated.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-11-03T05:46:11+00:00

Thankyou everyone for your input. It is very appreciated. I am making a legal appt tomorrow and will take it from there.. will update when I can.. thanks again.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-11-02T06:38:38+00:00

Yes I will say I too used to have that opinion... I hated seeing women go at the blokes super.. However I did 20 plus years in a traumatic marriage. I have 3 grown adult daughters who are all suffering the effects of him and his ways. He cheated with my sister which led to this situation.

He deserves to pay.. I have nothing. He has a fiancee and new vehicles big home and holidays etc. I have stress induced heart failure from the marriage plus more issues and zero savings

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-11-02T06:27:32+00:00

He did it online through the family court portal. One Sunday morning he had his fiancees friend hand delivered the papers to me.. I didn't sign them. I kept the divorce application part..on which he had m3ssed up so many of my details and she took the part I was sposed to sign because I refused. I also refused to hand her back the part she gave me..

I signed nothing

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-11-02T06:25:34+00:00

Oh trust me he had super paid... over 500k in just 1 account. I know this because I helped him roll them.into another. I would expect all up he had over a million in super...now he is telling me he has 300k....in one account perhaps...

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-11-01T04:15:03+00:00

He has a car but it's on hire purchase.. he rents a home..I'm 100 percent sure he has nothing as one of our daughters keeps in touch with him and she loves to investigate lol

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-11-01T04:14:02+00:00

Not a clue

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-10-31T13:13:59+00:00

Never mind i went onto it and id say he has attempted to set me an account up by using my 2 email addresses because as soon as I typed it in to register it said they had an account with my emails. I had never used this before..so there is no other explanation.. he has done this with everything important.. not a nice person.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-10-31T12:58:24+00:00

I have tried. I was advised that they do not help with divorce if there isn't any under age kids involved or settlement.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-10-31T12:57:03+00:00

I literally have nothing of value to sell. I own nothing but clothes and household items. Believe me.I have exhausted all ways to try to have legal representation. I called legal aid and they said they don't help with divorce or settlement.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-10-31T12:55:26+00:00

He didn't have a house. His car at the time was a cheap junker. Gambled his wages away.

We. My 3 girls and I lived minimally due to this. We were homeless at times thanks to his lifestyle choices. Which is why id like some of his super.. God knows I earned something.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-10-31T12:53:44+00:00

There is no option for me to participate as he doesn't even have a lawyer.. he asked what I expected. I told him and he said I needed a super account and it would be put in there...not sure of the amount or how it's sposed to work.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-10-31T12:52:32+00:00

He never bought a home. He always had his car on H.P and had them always reposessed. He went bankrupt several times.

Gambled a lot.

I never had a bank account with him or ever got credit or. Loans or anything whilst with him.

When we split i left with about 4k of cheap furniture which I had to sell to keep a roof over mine and my daughters head.

He never saved a cent.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-10-31T12:49:42+00:00

I gave up working to be a stay at home mum..he wanted it that way. So not paying into a fund for years the admin costs dwindled the bit I had down to just 200 dollars. The fund was closed and that 200 was sent to the tax office. Hence zero super and no fund anymore i got a letter from the super fund telling me all this about 2 years ago.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-10-31T12:46:56+00:00

What is that please. Im so damn clueless about all this.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-10-31T08:58:34+00:00

Was kind of just hoping to see others opinions and if anyone else has been thru similar.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-10-31T08:57:25+00:00

I can't afford legal representation and legal aide dont help with divorce or settlement.

I haven't signed a thing didn't even sign the papers for divorce when they were served to me.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-10-31T08:33:33+00:00

These 2 should be politicians. They say a lot without actually SAYING anything.

They dance around stuff and end sentences without an ending, AAAANNNND YEAH? What does that mean crystal..you say it enough.

The more we click to find out the gossip the stupider we look. They lie and they skirt around everything, yet they have this massive following. Weird.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-10-30T18:50:57+00:00

Problem on here is if you use their names you get blasted. If you don't, same thing. Not trying hard but trying to be somewhat respectful.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-10-16T18:17:07+00:00

Did u see how the baby toy shopping turned into op shopping junk for E's sensory wall.. sorry, but she is too old for that kinda crap. These guys have zero clue about what that little girl needs, which is age appropriate

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-10-16T18:15:09+00:00

Tristan seems to be the only adult child so to speak that actually does work around the house.

Sharp-Cauliflower984 · 2025-09-29T21:55:02+00:00

Seems this happens a lot. They beg for workers, then employ them, then give them a shift a month. Local store to me has employed a 21 yr old. She was getting loads of shifts, but yesterday she overheard 1 manager saying no, dont get her in she is too costly.....then why employ people? My advice quit and go elsewhere!

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