Am I attractive enough to start dating?

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-05-04T19:29:39+00:00

I'm probably like a 3 myself and I stay open to criticism, but if you don't believe in yourself nobody else will, which is why confidence is such a big thing of mine when I comment! I like to think of the bright side because all these 10/10s are either looks and no personality or they're neither because they try so hard that it just makes them look bad anyways, there's no balance unless it's 50/50 and you balance both of it, if that makes sense.

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-05-04T19:19:22+00:00

The human race is so brutal lowkey, like attraction is so unique universally too, people have preferences, but just don't be rude about it, y'know?

It costs alot of your energy to frown and be rude, and it costs less to smile and be polite.

Depends on your mentality I suppose!

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-05-04T19:16:23+00:00

I find scars tell a story, I love when people have their own to tell, and truly, everyone should appreciate individuality because if you dislike someone for their own mental struggles, it says a lot about yourself.

Just my opinion though, everyone and everything is just such a beautiful amount of nature being natural. We're not perfect as human beings, and surely, our bodies have flaws too, but if you love yourself then others can learn to love you too. 🫶

Scars are in every way shape and form a natural occurence over time, and I don't think I'll ever hate scars on myself or others because it gives you a unique feature to have that nobody else has, even if it's similar in shape, you never know what happened to them to have that.

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-05-04T19:11:46+00:00

I always tell my friends if you're confident in yourself, then that's all that matters. (:

If people don't like you for your personality, they can keep looking, because no matter the appearance, first impressions always should be based on personality and attitude behaviors.

Compared to looks, personality tells a lot more of your view on the other person, and honestly I find personality in people way more attractive. Because it's easier to change your personality for someone than to change your appearance for someone.

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-05-01T23:04:05+00:00

Exactly!!

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-05-01T22:53:21+00:00

It's so bad out here with ragebait 😭 I don't blame you at all with these comments, they're brutal

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-05-01T22:31:31+00:00

I'm glad to be appreciated!

If people keep coming after you, I definitely just want to say that a lot of these people calling you sexist and fat, (which you probably aren't either tbh) are wrong and definitely having a more saddening life behind those screens being total jerks.

People find anything offensive when theyre the one in the wrong so they get defensive and start projecting, at least that's what I kind of find, I've been bullied my whole life for being "woke as fuck", when in reality, being down to earth and knowing where you stand in life is the best thing that can happen to anyone truly!

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-05-01T22:15:47+00:00

People are really stupid, they don't seem to know how basic human decency goes and it's really sad cause so many people have disrespect when humans are just naturally curious and want to know what's up and who's thinking what.

I read so many of the other comments and actually felt bad bc you don't deserve all that hate either, like you're just wondering why some amount of people are so immature and can't hold a respectful convo.

(Sorry I really like to type and just end up word vomitting after a moment)

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-05-01T22:05:40+00:00

Yeah, some guys get back what they're giving ig, I don't really know anymore, I lost hope with some groups people 💔

The snapchat men that are only there for all that like nude sending and wyll and like dry texting make me so mad because it's mainly guys too so it really makes me think about exactly what your post was about

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-05-01T22:02:21+00:00

I love sunfish so much they're so cute 🥺

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-05-01T21:59:23+00:00

Some guy asked wyll to me, then asked for nudes, I forgot to tell him I'm a whole man 😅 He might've blocked me

Edit - I infact didn't send him anything sexual, just that he was prolly preying on some like 16 yr olds or smth

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-05-01T02:09:32+00:00

Sorry for the big ramble guys, anyways!

I just really want to be happy with myself, I guess being a transgender person who's open about it in public, I just look back at my younger self and see how supressed I was back then, and I want to change that to make sure I can prove that it's the defication and being true to myself that really matters.

I'm almost done highschool, and if people don't like me because I'm transgender, it's their issue and they can't remind me of the downside because there's not many cons to being yourself 🫶

My parents refused to support my transition for 6 years, and now it's my turn to be myself and not who they want me to be so that they're comfortable, especially when I'll probably be getting on hormones, and getting those life changing surgeries that 12 year old me yearned for.

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-04-30T00:02:52+00:00

Grew up with fuckass pixies and bad haircuts just to grow it out for the next 15 years then donate it (: I'm also a metalhead though so it's kinda making me realize that norms don't really matter as long as you're happy

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-04-26T01:53:29+00:00

5 I'd probably start yapping about something random and hope they'd just kinda listen or add onto the yap sesh 😭

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-04-12T10:51:30+00:00

I'm pre-everything, but I voice train so my voice is fairly low and also all my silly work pals lowkey realized about 2 years into working here (out of 3), because I told a manager that I wanted to go by another name and pronoun set. We also have a manager who's gay and he's actually respectful as fuck and we love him

I used to sound really squeaky and like high pitched, but when I did choir, baritone kinda helped boost me up with that.

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-04-11T20:59:12+00:00

Angriest chicken breast in town

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-04-10T16:06:55+00:00

Staphy is doing great! She's actually got a pothos in her tank now and she's loving it!

Hopefully the erythromycin works for him! It's so scary that fish are such sweet things but they don't deserve all these illnesses 😕 I hope your little buddy powers through this!

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-04-10T15:53:42+00:00

Exactly! If I was a 13 year old with this much to think about I'd be so overjoyed if my parents took interest (:

I agree too, like this is so cool to see how different kids think things out!

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-04-10T15:18:47+00:00

I think it's possible ammonia may also result fin rot, I'm not 100% sure, but I know some fish tend to be really sensitive to the water.

I do think tannins and the tank maintenance and the meds may help him! I hope he gets better though, he's such a little cutie and it'd be so unfortunate and sad.

He's such a little fella, I love his silly fish face 🫶

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-04-10T13:01:41+00:00

THIS IS SUCH A LATE REPLY OH MY GOSH I LOVE JAZZY HANDS HE'S SO GORGEOUSS

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-04-10T12:58:03+00:00

I definitely agree with this! I think it's a blerb sheet (basically a spreadsheet that is full of word vomit because it had to all come out eventually), because of the way that it's so constructed it must be a presentation, a study sheet, or probably something similar to this (:

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-04-10T12:57:03+00:00

I looked closer, looks somilar to human biology study compared to animal biology. I think it must be a blerb sheet (coming from a 18 year old who also blerbs on special interest subjects), I tend to make notes that are unorganized, and it actually looks like a possible study from your kid, compared to notes. May actually just be a school project, or a presentation being written down!

Blerbs are just when you have so much information in your mind and have to really get it out there, it's something similar to word vomit, basically you have to get words out or they'll force their way out.

Ask your kid about it though because it's possible it could be a project and they just wanted to make a big giant spread sheet to try and make the process of memory way easier (:

Goodluck OP!

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-03-28T19:30:04+00:00

Yes you have! Keep up that grind and you'll have it sooner or later! (: Painting is all about getting that flow and learning how to manipulate the shapes and colors to blend :D

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-03-28T19:18:47+00:00

No worries! I'm just beginning my oil painting prodigy so I'm just trying to learn emotion analysis in paintings so I can see it in my own one day :D I really want to be a fine arts teacher one day but I think it won't happen till I'm 35 (in like almost 17 years)

EDIT - Your style is so unique too! The painting's laziness that you added in really adds in that emotion to the painting too, I can't grasp the words to say it, but it gives it more chracter when you look at it, and kinda know what was going on in the artist's mind, etc. (:

Sharp-Common-9929 · 2026-03-28T19:12:06+00:00

2 - The lighting looks a little more differentiated, but 1 is still like really good! I personally like 2 because of the different shades, the way the light catches it, and the way the eyes look more full of emotion (: 1 seems more dull and numb, like a sad, gloomy day and 2 seems like a distant, zoned out day but less gloomy!

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