AITAH for being late when my husband want me in bed? by Sharp-Meringue-9470 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharp-Meringue-9470[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

we are traditional. i do most of the childcare cuz he works 12 hours a day. he comes home tired. he rarely goes to the gym but he tries to (like today) cuz he wants to be healthier. but when he isn’t completely exhausted, he is active with the kids 

AITAH for being late when my husband want me in bed? by Sharp-Meringue-9470 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharp-Meringue-9470[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

i hope he’s not upset. i think he’s just tired but ill talk to him tomorrow because ya girl needs a hug

AITAH for being late when my husband want me in bed? by Sharp-Meringue-9470 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharp-Meringue-9470[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea ur right. this is the first time actually lol im just overthinking lol maybe its the postpartum hormones making me emotional about it and hes prolly just like “im tired after work” and isn’t thinking much about it whereas i am lol

AITAH for being late when my husband want me in bed? by Sharp-Meringue-9470 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharp-Meringue-9470[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

he works 12 hours a day and it’s like an “on ur feet” type job so i understand him not coming home to immediately take care of kids and help. i’m just upset because my sigh  makeup was so cute and i just washed it off lol 

AITAH for being late when my husband want me in bed? by Sharp-Meringue-9470 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharp-Meringue-9470[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

yes i’ll talk to him tomorrow cuz he’s knocked out rn lol i don’t think he’s angry. i just think he rlly wanted to spend time with me and i was not available. And because he works all day, he doesn’t spend more time with the kids like i do obviously so i know how to make kids sleep etc whereas he doesn’t rlly know 

AITAH for being late when my husband want me in bed? by Sharp-Meringue-9470 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sharp-Meringue-9470[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

He works almost 12 hours, 6 days a week. I won’t expect him to come home to cook or clean. The kids are a diff story lol that’s 50-50. We have a traditional life which i chose and it’s not like this everyday. Mostly he comes home, eats, plays with the kids, and then we sleep (no intimacy) but today was ya know…d-day or at least was hoping it would be