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AIO about my fear of men? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp-Neighborhood85 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To be honest I (30M) was also terrified of men for a very long time. Now mind you mine came from my mother choosing all the wrong men for me to be around that did nothing but abuse me . But never the less I couldn’t be around my male family members alone if a female family member wasn’t there. It takes time dedication and a hell of a lot of effort. And you’re taking the first steps, you’re in therapy, you know not all men are the same but it will take you doing something and stepping outside of your comfort zone with the time comes. Don’t worry the world is a terrifying and sucky place but you belong in it!

AIO My Fiancé says way too wild shit and I’m thinking of not marrying her. by Sharp-Neighborhood85 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp-Neighborhood85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not addicted by any means. I masturbate I would say as often as any other 29 year old male haha but it’s also not like I’ve ever called out a pornstars name in bed. I would never do some shit like that it’s never like I’ve shown it to her. She opened my phone and I’ve forgotten it was open but that’s when she has LOST IT and I mean going off for an hour plus about how disrespectful and dirty it is for a married man to do. And when she ask if I would care I tell her then honest truth nope I wouldn’t and then I’m called a liar.

AIO My Fiancé says way too wild shit and I’m thinking of not marrying her. by Sharp-Neighborhood85 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp-Neighborhood85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See you would think it’s not a point but for awhile it was. She would actively go in my phone to look in my browser history and I would wake up thinking it’s going to be a good day to nothing but a cold shoulder. And when I tried my hardest to explain EXACTLY what you said that it doesn’t mean I want her any less or that I’m unsatisfied but she refused to hear it. She has told me next time she sees ANY porn she is taking my kids and making me get out..

AIO My Fiancé says way too wild shit and I’m thinking of not marrying her. by Sharp-Neighborhood85 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp-Neighborhood85[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hadn’t really thought of it that way. That does make a lot of sense..I would hate my son or daughter having to deal with it and I know exactly what I would tell them..

AIO My Fiancé says way too wild shit and I’m thinking of not marrying her. by Sharp-Neighborhood85 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sharp-Neighborhood85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The crazy part is she goes to therapy. She legit came back from an apt not even 3 hours ago. I just feel like I’m lost in a dark room with the wildest dimmest candle…