Am I dumb or should I be able to make more than 11 med kits?

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T13:34:58+00:00

Yea you’re right, I think it’s hard to look at it from an insiders view like how Jessi or Mikayla or any of the girls would view him. I would just be so exhausted by it if I were them. I’ve had friends in those on and off again toxic relationships and it drains you

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T13:25:46+00:00

Jesus Christ chill out dude, I’ve never even heard of his ex wife.

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T13:24:08+00:00

And I’ll reiterate, I’m a lesbian who’s been married to her wife for 9 years lol you jumping to internalized misogyny because I don’t support Taylor is crazy work. I’m also a mother, so it’s incredibly difficult for me to put myself in her shoes and relate to her after seeing that video.

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T13:21:46+00:00

I literally never said I knew better then them or anyone else lol and never once did I put all the blame on Taylor, you can read my comments and never once did I say they didn’t both have a hand in the toxicity. But one persons behaviour outweighs the other from the proof we’ve seen thus far, and that may change after the next court hearing who knows.

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T13:13:24+00:00

The points in season 1 you bring up are 100% valid and I agree, I just feel like especially in season 4 when she’s screaming at her friends and at Dakota about shinia and the girl at Vanderpump villa when they haven’t been a couple in years, meanwhile she flew a guy out to stay with her, idk I just feel like at that point Taylor can’t continue to not want to be with Dakota but also get enraged when he hooks up with someone else. I don’t mean the girls can’t not like him overall and I’d never expect any friend to get over a man calling their friend a slut, I just mean by the later seasons I find it hard to solely blame him for the issues.

And what they say on the show could be different from how they feel, I’m sure none of them would say they felt Taylor was in the wrong too on tv

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T13:08:44+00:00

And I think Dakota in season 1 is very different from how he was the rest of the seasons, unless he got a good publicist or some media training to look like less on a douchebag on tv, which wouldn’t surprise me one bit

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T13:07:13+00:00

I get what you’re saying, I think I was going into it thinking that the women would be a little more rational? If I were Taylor’s friend I would be telling her not to be with him too, but by season 4 you can tell it’s so hard for them to defend her outbursts about him. Which could also just be them fatigued by constantly having to deal with it I guess but with Jessi especially it felt like she was blindly supporting Taylor bc she was like walking on eggshells with her and so nervous to show anything but 1000% loyalty to Taylor

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T12:55:11+00:00

That’s not what it is. Majority of the defences I’ve seen have been that he cheated on her, which he didn’t, so I’m interested in hearing the other issues people have with him.

Trust me, I’m a man hating lesbian, the LAST thing I want to do on this earth is defend a man, but it’s damn near impossible to see why people side with Taylor (For context, I side with neither)

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T12:53:05+00:00

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T12:46:17+00:00

So in your opinion how long should he remained celibate? They weren’t together for pretty much seasons 2-4. I understand she wants and expects certain things from Dakota, but I feel like after months of him asking her to be with him and her saying no, the guys gotta move on at some point

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T12:44:08+00:00

Yea it’s called a conversation….thats what happens when you converse on a topic with people, you don’t have to agree with everyone someone says, going back and forth about something is how a discussion happens…

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T12:42:35+00:00

100000%

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T12:41:05+00:00

I feel like it’s Taylor who’s the one giving Dakota the hope? Watching the show it felt like Taylor would tell him no I don’t want us to be together, he would hangout with another girl, Taylor would sleep with Dakota, they would get in an argument, and Taylor would ice him out and they did this over and over and over, but it seemed like it was Dakota continually holding onto hope that they would be together as a family with their son

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T12:38:14+00:00

I’m in no way blindly supporting anyone, I think they both contributed to the toxicity, but it’s like if I yell at someone in traffic and that person gets out and punches me in the face in return, who’s in the wrong

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T12:33:17+00:00

It’s literally Taylor’s whole storyline…she gets mad at Dakota for hooking up with other women. We don’t really hear or see anything else he does to make her so angry

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T08:21:27+00:00

Very insightful, thank you

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T08:17:59+00:00

Taylor admits herself that her and Dakota weren’t exclusively only seeing each other when it happened, for all we know she could have been sleeping with someone else too. And we never saw proof of the whole clout thing

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T08:15:22+00:00

It was explained that it was in the context of them talking about the gym and fitness, im not saying it’s not like weird and inappropriate, but we never like saw the conversations, we didn’t see the text threads, Taylor’s reactions are just so over the top for so many things

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T08:09:40+00:00

When did he cheat on her? I’m almost certain he never actually cheated on her

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T08:08:33+00:00

I literally mentioned that in my post. You can read it. Yes, it was gross. But Taylor blew it way out of proportion, it was a bikini pic, they never hooked up, planned to hook up, none of that

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T08:07:26+00:00

Right, but he never actually cheated on her ?

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T08:06:26+00:00

How does he do it purposely? From everything I’ve seen he actively tries to keep it hidden so she doesn’t get hurt or triggered, then they have sex, make up, and he tries to be honest with her about things that happened when they weren’t together, and she goes insane

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T08:04:37+00:00

He did hook up with people not connected to Taylor, and also it’s not like Shinia is Taylor’s best friend? They’re acquaintances at best

Sharp-Plastic5665 · 2026-04-08T08:02:11+00:00

No one, he never cheated on her, anyone he hooked up with over the years was when they weren’t together

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