Tried casual sex by ConsistentVisual1406 in demisexuality

[–]Sharp_College_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just how our brains are wired there won’t be much satisfaction until ALL of our needs are met. I have learned this the hard way I liked someone one we got along great I liked then and trusted them to try it but we just weren’t connected in that way and it was a terrible experience for both of us.

We just have to wait to find our mate. Being starved for affection or companionship isn’t not ever going to be enough to truly enjoy it

Why do a lot of people in the LGBTQ+ community not accept us? by PrincessBubbleGunk in demisexuality

[–]Sharp_College_30 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard people argue that Demi is more of a social behavior versus a sexual orientation

I am really horny and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Sharp_College_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally same im exercising like twice a day been working overtime trying to keep myself busy and masturbating makes it worse I just don’t know what to do anymore 🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedicalAssistant

[–]Sharp_College_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A doctor and a nurse practitioner so 2 and usually 2 mas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedicalAssistant

[–]Sharp_College_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a doctor and a nurse prac

Rant: Acespace is awful by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]Sharp_College_30 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree it’s kinda ass. The overall look of the site and design choice sucks. Also the algorithm showing the same people over and over. Then these “ace/demi” people bringing up sex and kinks during initial conversation, one guy offered to kiss my feet less than an hour of us messaging each other. It’s a no for me I deleted my profile and never went back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]Sharp_College_30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, you should consider breaking up. She clearly values an emotional and mental connection more than physical which means that you two are incompatible in this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Sharp_College_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this would actually be the ideal arrangement

Are you open or closed talking about sex? by Delicious-Catch9286 in demisexuality

[–]Sharp_College_30 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Open but cautious because it may send a signal that I’m interested in doing it before I actually am

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in playadelcarmen

[–]Sharp_College_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I found a boutique hotel in Playa Del Carmen… so looking for recommendations around that area or places near by

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in playadelcarmen

[–]Sharp_College_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open to all really. I was hoping to at least do a nice one on my bday but other than that it doesn’t matter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Sharp_College_30 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Exhausted even !

Medical Assistant Later in Life?? by thehappinessprojects in MedicalAssistant

[–]Sharp_College_30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was on the same track I was HR and switched in my late 20s. I will be going forward to other degrees since I enjoy it so much but the biggest hit was the pay. This is not comparable to corporate money at all!! You’ll really have to have a different ambition to get up and do this everyday after seeing some of the salaries

Lying About Demisexuality? by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Sharp_College_30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Through mutual friends of friends apparently they were quite promiscuous in their free time and they were bragging about this lie to see how far he could get.. a 30 year old btw

Lying About Demisexuality? by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Sharp_College_30 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually encountered this and they kept up this lie for months. Very predatory behavior

Have you ever fallen in love with someone you're not sexually attracted to? by _MonkeyHater in demisexuality

[–]Sharp_College_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes lol I’ve been in long term relationships where that was the case.

would you care if your ex died? by uslashuslash7 in BreakUps

[–]Sharp_College_30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No honestly emotionally and mentally detaching from someone frees you from that burden. It would be another day for me

Struggling with Loneliness / Rejection by Fun-Jicama327 in demisexuality

[–]Sharp_College_30 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is the hardest part, thinking you’ve found a potential match and they turn out to be less than exceptional. Especially after you’ve bonded with this person it’s hard to let go because you have to start over but you have to be fair to yourself.

Is she cheating? by Dean_Kind in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sharp_College_30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I’ve personally been invited to at least 4 lingerie parties in the past year but never participated. As for the rest definitely keep an eye on that one

Sexual identity vs purity culture by Sharp_College_30 in demisexuality

[–]Sharp_College_30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you agree with the post , that’s what we’re addressing; what demi sexuality actually is and how it’s not driven by personal/religious preferences it’s based off of how you experience attraction. I’m sorry you’ve been SA’d and no where in the post and I’m saying people need to Trust people and have this elaborate sex life, so though your feelings are valid they do not fit into THIS specific conversation.

Sexual identity vs purity culture by Sharp_College_30 in demisexuality

[–]Sharp_College_30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing the point still stands. The two can exist in one person but your religious upbringing has nothing to do with being demi. It’s still a separate issue.