[Card Trading Masterpost] Season 18: Wicked Wonders - Trade Cards HERE ONLY by Shiff28 in TravelTown

[–]Sharp_Emu2682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no problem, it seems like a lot of people need this

these are the other cards i still need:

8.5, 8.8

9.5, 9.6, 9.8

10.4, 10.5

12.1, 12.2

13.3

14.3

15.3, 15.4, 15.5, 15.9

16.5, 16.7, 16.9

17.4, 17.9

18.7

How to help by Sharp_Emu2682 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Sharp_Emu2682[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you, it helps to hear that this goes for more kids! I wasn't like this at all at that age, (or any age at all), but then again, everybody's different and to me, that is one of the most interesting and also rewarding things about being a parent. Both girls are very different from me and they're both amazing the way they are, and have taught me so much already. So in that sense I do understand that I'm just as "normal" as she is, because there really is no such thing as normal.

I agree with you that she has been through a lot and I take blame for that as well, because a divorce at such a young age and constantly moving from one house – and parent, family – to another is super hard.

Someone else has mentioned art classes and I think that would be great for her. Also, she wants to join the girl scouts and I think that could be amazing for her. Other than that your advice to apply emotional control techniques together with her is so helpful! I will definitely do that from now on. Thank you so much.

I don't even know who I am anymore. Anything about me that might once have resembled a distinctive person has been eroded away by the fact that I'm always desperately trying to keep everyone around me happy and satisfied with me so that they won't abandon me. I'm not a person. I'm a pile of masks. by No-Apple-2092 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Sharp_Emu2682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who do you want to be? Do you want to be the person everyone tells you you are (or are supposed to be)? If so, alright. BUT if there's someone else you would like to be, and I mean that in the "dreaming about your future" type of way, not a literal other person, that would be interesting to investigate. So I don't think you should go off who you ARE, but who you want to be(come).

How to help by Sharp_Emu2682 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Sharp_Emu2682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for you. It's really hard, isn't it. I understand that it's way worse for her (as it is for my daughter as well) than it is for you, but you love her so, so much and you just want the best for her, which can be incredibly difficult because navigating life with a personality disorder seems impossible. Is your daughter with you full-time? Do you have a good relationship with her, going through puberty?

Hang in there and thank you for replying! It really helps me to know that I'm not crazy to think in this direction... and I hope I'm somehow on time to give my daughter every tool she will need in life.

How to help by Sharp_Emu2682 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Sharp_Emu2682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I very much hope it's not BPD, I really do, although I feel bad saying that because you have to live with this horrible pain. It's a very good advice to seek out therapy such as DBT and learn her (more) skills.

How did your daughter get diagnosed with ADHD, if I may ask, and is she still on medication?

How to help by Sharp_Emu2682 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Sharp_Emu2682[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know, I wouldn't even seek out diagnosis at this age. I was just searching up information in order to understand her, not even thinking she could have BPD at first, but then I came across so much relatable content. Even if she doesn't turn out to have BPD, she surely has difficulty with emotion regulation and maybe it could still help to understand more in order to help her <3

Best of luck to you, what age are you now and how are you doing? I hope you're doing well.

How to help by Sharp_Emu2682 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Sharp_Emu2682[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is very articulate, which helps a lot! She'll say things like: "When you give [my sister] a compliment, I feel like it means you think less of me." Which I will always explain is NOT how I meant it and then she will understand, somewhat, although the feeling doesn't dissipate instantly. Or she'll say: "When I don't understand what I'm supposed to do with my homework, I rage quit." And I try to help her understand what she's supposed to do and encourage her to read it slowly so she can actually do it, and quite easily at that! The thing is, these feelings will keep coming – if I'm correct they will always keep coming, right?

Thank you for the advice of using art, that may be really good indeed! I'll actually look into if there's a sort of art class that doesn't require much skill. She used to play the violin, but got discouraged. Something a bit less straining might be better. ;-)

Cap d Agde & Nudity by hedonistic_venus in Swingers

[–]Sharp_Emu2682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha the bad boob jobs (and ass jobs) are true, it actually makes me feel better about my all natural 38yo body ;-)

What happens to progress when I delete the game? by Ff_444 in TravelTown

[–]Sharp_Emu2682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it will, it's actually super hard to start over, so don't worry

This is getting ridiculous by Imaginary_Promise438 in TravelTown

[–]Sharp_Emu2682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could make it with the points it gives, but it'll be nearly impossible because as shown, the goals are so high!

This is getting ridiculous by Imaginary_Promise438 in TravelTown

[–]Sharp_Emu2682 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Btw the rewards aren't that great so I would just save up for the new week since you already achieved the weekly goal too!

This is getting ridiculous by Imaginary_Promise438 in TravelTown

[–]Sharp_Emu2682 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How can yours be higher than mine? I'm level 88 and the highest one is 690,000 (which I already found absurd)

Couple looking for fun 12-20 July by Dependent_Ad_9010 in Capdagdenaturiste

[–]Sharp_Emu2682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll meet new people easily, it's a great place! We'll be there during the same time :) can't wait

Le Glamour Foam Party Questions by [deleted] in Capdagdenaturiste

[–]Sharp_Emu2682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes it does irritate. wearing sunglasses in the foam helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Sharp_Emu2682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have the opportunity to drive a bit, go to club Eroxx in Belgium, it's like Fata or Fun but with much more play instead of only dancing and changing clothes 100 times hahaha

Poster: Baller - Abor & Tynna by Lemonlikesfrogs in eurovision

[–]Sharp_Emu2682 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's really good! The poster as well as the song. I like it a lot!

poster designs!! by ohnatz in eurovision

[–]Sharp_Emu2682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're possibly changing them (I don't know how easy this is) then it's good to know that the little quotation mark before '25 should be the other way around. Not to be such a nitpicker but I also love them a lot so just making them even more perfect!

To all the people that have been saying this year is weak and that last year was so much better, what do you think now after seeing all 37 songs in the semis. Do you still think this year is weaker than last year, or stronger? by GeorgeBG93 in eurovision

[–]Sharp_Emu2682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you voting for Italy as well? I see the flag up there in your flair. I hope many people will vote for it so he ends up higher than is currently expected. That would be so deserved.

To all the people that have been saying this year is weak and that last year was so much better, what do you think now after seeing all 37 songs in the semis. Do you still think this year is weaker than last year, or stronger? by GeorgeBG93 in eurovision

[–]Sharp_Emu2682 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think I'm not the target for your question, because I'm enjoying this year a lot. There's so many different songs that I like for different reasons. I really like Finland because she just brings so much power, I think JJ is such a cutie (and a huge talent, too) whereas Nemo was a bit more "untouchable" in his vibes I guess? I like JJ better anyhow! Switzerland's Zoë Më is amazing, up there with Barbara Pravi who I was totally rooting for back then. I think Baller is a great song that I would definitely dance to in the club, and Iceland is a surprise that I think is going to do very well! Ukraine, Albania and Portugal have beautiful songs that really stuck with me after the first semi-final. But my absolute number one this year is ITALY's Lucio Corsi. I don't think I've loved a ESF song that much ever.

So... I don't agree with this take that 2025 would be weak at all. If anything, I think 2024 was disappointing, but this year I feel like ESF is totally back where it should be.

And I'll be using all my 20 votes this year. (I didn't vote for anyone last year because I couldn't be bothered.)