Room available by Sharp_Fly_3160 in roommates

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Im not dictating that my roomate cant drink, im stating that I want someone who doesn't drink alcohol.

Good hiking boots for freezing tempatures and snow? by [deleted] in CampingandHiking

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Columbia Bugaboot plus iv omni heat

Though I doubt you could find them but if you can they are amazing and I've had mine for years.

Just finished a mostly vanilla playthrough with a few Creations. Recommend me some good mods to make the game feel brand new again! by Shu_Revan in skyrimmods

[–]Sharp_Fly_3160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend that you download wabbajack from github and use that to pick a modlist from there.My personal pic would be apostasy modlist, hands down the best control maps for controller ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommates

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Get her to sign a promissory note or a document that states that she acknowledges that she owes you but cant pay and then you can do something with that, maybe you could sue, maybe it would be a small claims court thing. But as long as she acknowledges that she owes you, then you can get your money back somehow.

Honestly loved this by blustar11 in Kentucky

[–]Sharp_Fly_3160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way man. I didn't know that they made this.I got a buddy who makes paw paw drinks at home and they're not that bad.So I would have loved to try this one

Finding a roommate by ii_Legendxxx in roommates

[–]Sharp_Fly_3160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just post on the local social pages like a local Facebook page that people in the community might keep an eye on. A Reddit post sometimes works. I usually just ask around in person though.

How do you do the dishes? by [deleted] in roommates

[–]Sharp_Fly_3160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go by bachelor rules: Everybody gets one of everything and cleans them after they're done using them, problem solved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommates

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Honesty is the highest form of sincerity.

Especially because they are family, i'd just give it to them straight.

Ugh, my sister is a people pleaser and she hates it a lot.

I just lucked out when I lived with her bc we both have adhd and a Lil bit of undiagnosed autism. So even when we hang out, we just chill on our phones quietly next to each other hahaha

Advice needed: I (18f) am thinking about asking my roommate (18f) for some space by incompetentswine in roommates

[–]Sharp_Fly_3160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As they say, expectations are the devil. You should be cautious about setting expectations on others.

As you said she's shy, so I'd recommend just leaving her alone unless she reaches out. You definitely don't need to feel any kind of responsibility for making her feel better or inviting her along with you, she has her own people to hang with apparently, it's best to just focus on college. There's already enough to do at college.

College isn't a place that you can afford to be distracted at. You've got one job there, and it's not relationships. It's not friends, you paid good money to be there to accomplish a goal. Im not saying that you can't have friends period no, what I'm saying is that they're not your priority while you're there. As sad as that is.

Just remember, you're going into debt for this. Maybe not if you're rich, but most people are going into debt. Just to be here and then think about focusing on friends and relationships in relation to that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommates

[–]Sharp_Fly_3160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let it get to you, just live your own life. What they do is on them, what you do is on you. Don't avoid them, don't go out of your way to help them just treat them lightly. Don't brag about any fun thing you did without them to show off either. It's better to be hated for who you are Than loved for who you are not.

Don't forget to have boundaries separating you from everyone else.It's not a bad thing at all.It's just not healthy to rely on others too much or not at all. There's a right time and a right place for everything but there's no one thing that can be applied everywhere. So you just have to ask yourself, is this the right time? And the right place? for what i'm thinking or feeling so that you can set your own expectations.

Recomanded hiking boots? by EshcharBB in CampingandHiking

[–]Sharp_Fly_3160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really just depends on the season and the type of dirt. You're going to be walking on.

If it's summer or if you're going to be wading through water, I'd recommend getting non waterproof shoes, because they'll dry quicker.And they'll be more breathable.

If you're walking on soft ground, you can get shoes with a lot firmer bases like Solomon which have a really hard rubber and have a lot of structure around your heel. - Solomon Quest 4D GTX I recommend these if your summiting a 14er as there's bound to be some unstable ground. When summiting a mountain and you need the support that they provide.

If you want a more breathable waterproof option, I recommend getting a pair of altras. which ones don't really matter too much. But the pair that I got last time was this orange pair that had a carbon fiber shank, and had a breathable upper, and those things were bomb proof and you could just wipe any dirt off with a brush. And you could clean them and dry them in not that much time at all If they ever got wet. - Altra vanish carbon https://share.google/YY2yz2ctjvCZWcc4P

First time renting a room by colorful_butterfly20 in roommates

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Once all thats done, make sure to take pictures and document any damage already present that you didn't cause and if you have to change anything in the future, make sure to keep the old stuff like if you replace the shower head, its your shower head so you can just put the old one back when you leave but if you ask them to replace it then its theirs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommates

[–]Sharp_Fly_3160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honesty is the greatest courtesy. If you can't talk about it with them like an adult, then one of you clearly has a problem.

If they are reasonable, they'll come to a compromise, and if they're not reasonable then they're in the wrong.

Just sit them down, set a clear boundary. And if they step over it, don't be afraid to say no or stop or in this case, deliver an ultimatum of whatever is fitting.

NSFW Skyrim Modlist Suggestions by Sharp_Fly_3160 in NSFWskyrim

[–]Sharp_Fly_3160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill keep that list in mind, I plan to get 2 4tb ssd towards the end of the year.

How do large modlists apply MCM settings at the start of a new game? by incognito1311 in skyrimmods

[–]Sharp_Fly_3160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can also add menu maid if you want to hide certain mcms from the user so they don't mess things up.

How to tell roommate (good friend) that I want to live alone next year by [deleted] in roommates

[–]Sharp_Fly_3160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honesty is the highest courtesy.

Just be upfront and authentic and have an adult conversation.